Comments on: What Causes Narcissism?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 19:55:19 +0000

In reply to Andrea.

Hi Andrea,

my highest suggestion to you is to come into our NARP Community at http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp where we can help you release obligation and guilt, have healthy boundaries and work towards either Modified or No Contact if required.

I hope that this helps.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Andrea

Andrea — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 18:42:54 +0000

What if that person is my mom? How do I “move on “ from her?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 19:26:18 +0000

In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

yes this is another legitimate Peter!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Peter

Peter — Sat, 12 Nov 2022 04:54:43 +0000

Hi Liz!
Anything is possible in this world! I don’t know how common the name “Peter” is…. I have not seen “Peter” used elsewhere in these commentaries in the five years or so I’ve been involved in NARP…. as far as I know I am the only person named “Peter” that has commented here….however, as the blind man says “we shall see” if there is actually another….

By: shrgh

shrgh — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 11:58:11 +0000

I have a question. Is it possible for a person to be both narcissistic and codependent, in different situations? In my family, my mother acts like a narcissist, my father codependent. But out in the world with others, and especially with their families of origin, they act like codependents.. eager to please, passed-over middle children. Toward me both are narcissistic, I am expected to be both the golden child and the scapegoat (as I am the unfortunate only child). But they can switch into ideal parents when it pleases them. Really, chameleons have nothing on them. The nice phase hurts the most.. after a lifetime of hurt and betrayal I still find myself believing it’s real, not fake even though it doesn’t last

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 03:35:39 +0000

In reply to Peter.

Hi Peter,

its so great after 5 years that we can still grow and expand together!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 03:34:30 +0000

In reply to Marta Lepage.

Thank you Marta,

for your lovely words!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 03:33:55 +0000

In reply to Lisa.

Thank you Lisa!

It takes “one” to recognise another Dear Lady!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 03:33:13 +0000

In reply to Bolarinwa Lateef.

Thank you Bolarinwa!

I’m so pleased that this resonated with you!

Mel 🙏💞🦋