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		By: Larry		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2023 11:40:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[thank you so much from deep of my heart!

can you please talk more about how we could heal and deal with the child inside us (steps) ? and when we could say that we are done? the signs that tell that we are completely recover ,heal and attend that great authentic level of living and wellbeing ?

thank you super much again i am so grateful and blessed because i found you just now and i am totally ready for self partnering ! .. i just need to be more educated about it from you because you really made me feel better in a simple understood and a clair way ! i am glad i read this article I LOVE YOU
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https://ibarakijets.org
https://facebool.org]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank you so much from deep of my heart!</p>
<p>can you please talk more about how we could heal and deal with the child inside us (steps) ? and when we could say that we are done? the signs that tell that we are completely recover ,heal and attend that great authentic level of living and wellbeing ?</p>
<p>thank you super much again i am so grateful and blessed because i found you just now and i am totally ready for self partnering ! .. i just need to be more educated about it from you because you really made me feel better in a simple understood and a clair way ! i am glad i read this article I LOVE YOU<br />
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		By: Dandan		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2022 15:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much for these life-changing insights. I am truly truly grateful. I was wondering if it is possible to work on self partnering when you are with the partner a) who is not doing this work. b) who is doing this work on himself too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for these life-changing insights. I am truly truly grateful. I was wondering if it is possible to work on self partnering when you are with the partner a) who is not doing this work. b) who is doing this work on himself too.</p>
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		By: bangla diary		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2021 20:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: Kinga		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2020 08:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am speechless. I read your article several times and finally The Light came in. IT s the 5th year I am struggling in a narcissistic relationship trying for years to find the answers in his childhood trying constantly to understand why is he treating me so horrible why do I forgive everything why do I Seek for his love when cheating lying hurting punishing ME controlling me manipulating me is going on for years. I got to the point to understand his behaviour but never understood mine. Why do i forgive always and why do i go Back everytime. And then I found your article and realised at 43 years old having 2 children from a previous marriage how damaged i am from my childhood. How many wounds i have from a narcissistic father and never realised IT untill today. I don t know how to heal them i really believe  i need help and guidance. I am from a small village from Romania no therapists for this so please guide me with more articles or videos on self partnering The steps i should take to help myself heal and get The Power to leave him definetely. Thank you so much...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am speechless. I read your article several times and finally The Light came in. IT s the 5th year I am struggling in a narcissistic relationship trying for years to find the answers in his childhood trying constantly to understand why is he treating me so horrible why do I forgive everything why do I Seek for his love when cheating lying hurting punishing ME controlling me manipulating me is going on for years. I got to the point to understand his behaviour but never understood mine. Why do i forgive always and why do i go Back everytime. And then I found your article and realised at 43 years old having 2 children from a previous marriage how damaged i am from my childhood. How many wounds i have from a narcissistic father and never realised IT untill today. I don t know how to heal them i really believe  i need help and guidance. I am from a small village from Romania no therapists for this so please guide me with more articles or videos on self partnering The steps i should take to help myself heal and get The Power to leave him definetely. Thank you so much&#8230;</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2019 07:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-self-partnering/#comment-1220754&quot;&gt;Gail&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Gail, 

you are so welcome and I&#039;m so pleased I could help.

Love and blessings to you.

Mel 🙏💛💕]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-self-partnering/#comment-1220754">Gail</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Gail, </p>
<p>you are so welcome and I&#8217;m so pleased I could help.</p>
<p>Love and blessings to you.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💛💕</p>
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		By: Gail		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2019 02:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-self-partnering/#comment-918438&quot;&gt;Kay&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kay..

I know exactly how you feel as I am in the identical position as you...hard to believe that I allowed this to go on for so many years.  i trusted this so called &#039;Christian&#039; man who has become a nightmare to live with.. i have left but now I have to heal and focus on me.  He has been and always will be a porn addict. His arrogance and mocking attitude are contrary to what he preaches to others....A hypocrite through and through who will maintain his image above all else..

He thinks he is fooling everyone but the truth does have a way of coming out. All I can do now is live for me each day. I am getting more education and moving forward, something I should have done years ago.

Take care
Gail  - Thanks to Mel for providing support and common sense to so many..]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-self-partnering/#comment-918438">Kay</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kay..</p>
<p>I know exactly how you feel as I am in the identical position as you&#8230;hard to believe that I allowed this to go on for so many years.  i trusted this so called &#8216;Christian&#8217; man who has become a nightmare to live with.. i have left but now I have to heal and focus on me.  He has been and always will be a porn addict. His arrogance and mocking attitude are contrary to what he preaches to others&#8230;.A hypocrite through and through who will maintain his image above all else..</p>
<p>He thinks he is fooling everyone but the truth does have a way of coming out. All I can do now is live for me each day. I am getting more education and moving forward, something I should have done years ago.</p>
<p>Take care<br />
Gail  &#8211; Thanks to Mel for providing support and common sense to so many..</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2019 01:27:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-self-partnering/#comment-1201816&quot;&gt;soukaina&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Soukaini,

absolutely I can help you with this.

Please come into my free inner transformational resources, where you are directed, shown and guided how to www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

Much love to you too, and thank you for your beautiful comments sweetheart, you are so welcome.

Mel 🙏💞💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-is-self-partnering/#comment-1201816">soukaina</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Soukaini,</p>
<p>absolutely I can help you with this.</p>
<p>Please come into my free inner transformational resources, where you are directed, shown and guided how to <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse</a></p>
<p>Much love to you too, and thank you for your beautiful comments sweetheart, you are so welcome.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞💛</p>
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		By: soukaina		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2019 23:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[thank you so much from deep of my heart!

can you please talk more about how we could heal and deal with the child inside us (steps) ? and when we could say that we are done? the signs that tell that we are completely recover ,heal and attend that great authentic level of living and wellbeing ?

thank you super much again i am so grateful and blessed because i found you just now and i am totally ready for self partnering ! .. i just need to be more educated about it from you because you really made me feel better in a simple understood and a clair way ! i am glad i read this article I LOVE YOU 

big hug to you all]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank you so much from deep of my heart!</p>
<p>can you please talk more about how we could heal and deal with the child inside us (steps) ? and when we could say that we are done? the signs that tell that we are completely recover ,heal and attend that great authentic level of living and wellbeing ?</p>
<p>thank you super much again i am so grateful and blessed because i found you just now and i am totally ready for self partnering ! .. i just need to be more educated about it from you because you really made me feel better in a simple understood and a clair way ! i am glad i read this article I LOVE YOU </p>
<p>big hug to you all</p>
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		By: Kay		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kay]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Sep 2017 19:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Melanie, 
I realize I need to stand up for myself, i realize I have been gaslighted, emotionally tortured, drained of all finances and self respect, but how do I move forward?? I hate myself for allowing this to happen and have buried my head in the sand for so long that i sound unbelievable even to myself..it is nice to believe in yourself and not care what others think, but what about when you need them to? What if it is family and your children and legal and medical personnel that you need to convince for your future and the lives of your children and your career? What if you have been made to seem so lacking in morals and virtue and mentally unstable that your story is unbelievable, yet you know it to be true but you buried your head in denial for years, heartbroken and devastated that your withdraw seems to the public as guilt? What if your narc is above the law in the community? What if any evidence to prove your innocence and sanity Has been altered and irradicated...what then? I bet that you are even questioning my sanity, i would....thanks for listening, i am stuck, afraid of worse to come, it always does. I was never strong, a people pleaser. I know my weaknesses, i know my faults, yet cant seem to do a thing without further damage]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melanie,<br />
I realize I need to stand up for myself, i realize I have been gaslighted, emotionally tortured, drained of all finances and self respect, but how do I move forward?? I hate myself for allowing this to happen and have buried my head in the sand for so long that i sound unbelievable even to myself..it is nice to believe in yourself and not care what others think, but what about when you need them to? What if it is family and your children and legal and medical personnel that you need to convince for your future and the lives of your children and your career? What if you have been made to seem so lacking in morals and virtue and mentally unstable that your story is unbelievable, yet you know it to be true but you buried your head in denial for years, heartbroken and devastated that your withdraw seems to the public as guilt? What if your narc is above the law in the community? What if any evidence to prove your innocence and sanity Has been altered and irradicated&#8230;what then? I bet that you are even questioning my sanity, i would&#8230;.thanks for listening, i am stuck, afraid of worse to come, it always does. I was never strong, a people pleaser. I know my weaknesses, i know my faults, yet cant seem to do a thing without further damage</p>
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