Comments on: What Is The Fate Of A Narcissist?

By: Flo

Flo — Tue, 20 Jul 2021 21:56:13 +0000

I am concerned that I am the narcissist. How do you know?

By: Lkhdg

Lkhdg — Thu, 01 Jul 2021 08:20:06 +0000

Leave a narcissist and their family and watch them lie, harass (calling me repeatedly demanding I speak to listen to their threats and rants) devious crap like call your landlord to make false reports about you to try to get you evicted, sell your belongings or try to take money, accuse you of being pornographic when it’s they who are addicted and involved in trafficking. Sick 😷 🥱

By: Lovelution

Lovelution — Thu, 01 Jul 2021 06:58:21 +0000

Fortunately it’s now the norm to have 2-3 careers in a lifetime, instead of working 30 years for a company. The Dorian grey crap is popularized in guys only communities, where apparently he’s supposed to either be with or become a fat chick or whatever the fantasy fulfillment is for hags who are in love with tween boys. “Horror without an end” is what hag reality is. The only thing I trust about this blog is that it knows a lot about narcissism because what else does a narcissist know..

By: Antonia

Antonia — Fri, 13 Nov 2020 10:16:06 +0000

In reply to Bryce.

I hear that Bryce and my heart goes out to you. My mother basically ‘stole my life’ (nearly 50 years of narcissistic conditioning made me into ???) I broke in 2015. I’ve been homeless and struggling since. From a very young age I always knew something was wrong.. but, living under abuse, in a state of constant fear and anxiety, I learner to fawn to get through.. until that is what I became. I chose denial for a long, long time. But my pain and suffering became too great. Smahed those rose-coloured glasses in a big way!
Now my world is irrevocably changed.. and I’m only JUST beginning to heal after nearly 7 years.. and it’s HARD. Very hard.

By: Anne

Anne — Wed, 16 Sep 2020 00:48:00 +0000

In reply to Carolien.

Hi I’m a christian also and I think we have to remember that God loves us all and that we ALL have the opportunity to come to god and ask for forgiveness and be forgiven….regardless of our sin. I think we have to remember that it is only by god’s grace that we ourselves have been saved and that our sins are no less than those of a narc. (I’m not condoning this behaviour…just in terms of spiritual sense) Also god is love so he is an all encompassing, all knowing, gracious, merciful God. I believe we can turn to God at any time in any place in our lives, regardless of what we have done and he will accept us. We have to take responsibility for our actions of course but then this applies to anyone who wishes to change themselves for the better…..maybe I went off track a bit there…

By: Love

Love — Mon, 03 Aug 2020 16:06:55 +0000

I feel I have lost my beingness. It’s something I’ve had since birth, an ability to experience joy and excitement, hope and a sense of magic and connection to the earth as well as the universe. It’s as if the narcs swapped souls with me, taking my radiant abundance like greedy gollums and leaving me with their hollowed out and empty despair. I feel depleted and disconnected while they seem to be full of power and ideas they have stolen. I’m not sure I’ll ever feel my sense of magic or mystery or connection to something wonderful ever again. They think they have the right to my life force and energies and took it in a cruel way, rife with trickery and deceit. And what do they use my energy for? Buying new car, travel, trying to be popular and famous even from negative attention and seem oh so benevolent, intelligent and kind yet I know they are anything but. They have accused me of so much of the wrong that they in fact do, exploited my vulnerabilities and tried to convince me I’m the crazy narcissistic one, yet there’s no way I’d ever do the criminal crap they do, no way would I go to any length to steal, deprive or harm another. I’ve made human mistakes, not malevolent destructive ones devoid of all integrity.

By: Nidhika

Nidhika — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 02:28:27 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi Mel,

Really thankful for this information .

Stay blessed

By: Carrie Breault

Carrie Breault — Wed, 03 Jun 2020 19:09:03 +0000

In reply to Carolien. Thank you for your comment. Some was exactly what I was thinking. As a Christian I struggled with the comment that they will end up in “Oneness” too. Whether you call it oneness or from a Christian standpoint, heaven, narcs that don’t repent and continue to live their lives hurting people and, essentially, going their own way (from God), will not up there (heaven). Truth needs to be spoken, not false hope given.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 29 Nov 2019 00:43:18 +0000

In reply to Clio.

Hi Clio,

Dear lady I am so sorry that you’ve gone through so much pain and devastation … Please know no matter what the situation, what we are trying to recover from, heal or reconcile, that the only path for any relief and resurrection is to heal within.

I promise you that NARP has been able to heal the unhealable time and time again, as well as set so many of us on trajectories that have compensated or completely reversed the previous damage.

There truly is nothing else to do, and myself and the rest of their NARP community would like to help you and support you on that journey. http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I hope that this can help give you some hope.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💛💕