Comments on: What Separates A Co-Dependent From A Narcissist?

By: Neil

Neil — Thu, 09 Jan 2020 16:54:48 +0000

Thanks Melanie,
I was worried that I was the Narcissist but watching this made me understand why those traits raised their ugly head and I can now move forward with the clarity this has given me 😊
Can’t wait to watch the next episode

By: Esi

Esi — Sat, 16 Nov 2019 22:52:54 +0000

In reply to Simone. Dear Melanie, Thanks so much for the information. My narcissistic husband has been so nice to me for sometime now. The verba and emotional abuse have stopped. Should I be worried?

By: Hilary

Hilary — Sat, 05 Oct 2019 08:20:46 +0000

Melanie, this episode brought me such comfort. Thank you. xx

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Mon, 25 Mar 2019 03:59:10 +0000

In reply to Valerie. This is so true. Im hopeful that somethings are changing and more people will find healing for so many years of generational trauma. Survived the best ways we each generation could.

By: Allison

Allison — Tue, 30 Oct 2018 03:24:08 +0000

In reply to Jeanne. You go girl! Never too late. I’m inspired by you!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 19 Apr 2018 00:38:13 +0000

In reply to Kristina.

Awwww how beautiful Kristina.

You are so welcome.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

By: Kristina

Kristina — Wed, 18 Apr 2018 15:43:38 +0000

Hello Melanie,

” I am not the narcissist person who the Narc made me feel to believe. I am not the narc my family made me feel to believe. I am not the natc friends made me feel do believe.”

I was deeply codependent looking outside myself for security wholeness and safety and love and it ALL showed up as insanity.

Thank you Mel for clarifying the difference and I am grateful that my soul can resonate with the truth of this. So that I can truly focus on my recovery💕💕

Sincerely
Kristina

By: Andrea

Andrea — Fri, 16 Mar 2018 18:36:50 +0000

This one is the most powerful. It’s incredibly painful to know that my brother thinks I may be the narcissist. He is confused for sure. I am working on andrea seven days a week and I am slowly feeling the shift. The pain use to be unbelievable that he thinks I am the narcissist and people feel sorry for him. I am starting to feel the shift but it’s like a snail. I would love for people to see the truth the way I do. What else can I do? I love myself. It’s my turn for true love. It’s my turn to shine. It’s my turn for peace. My stbx is trying so very hard to destroy my relationship with my brother who is not a narcissist. It’s killing my mom to see-this
happening. My mom prays for me daily and let’s me know the bond will not break. I adore my family but he manipulates him when he sees him. Advice?

Love u!!!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Mon, 27 Nov 2017 08:09:12 +0000

In reply to John.

Hi John,

my biggest recommendation is always when we are doing the “head dance” is this – heal the inner traumas that are causing it.

That is it – that is the only way. We can not cognitively sort out our inner wiring and traumas that are not allowing us the solid calm knowing of certain things. (Most of us tried that with confusion and stop-start results for years!)

Inner healing John sorts all of it. Have you considered NARP? Can you see the calm inner clarity that people do report generally (in virtually every case) has come from that inner unwiring and healing?

I personally know John I could never have got there if I hadn’t deeply met my Inner Being and re-programming – and maybe you are the same. Our logic is severely limited in these matters – no matter how smart we are!

I hope this helps.

Mel xo