Comments on: What To Do If Your Child Has Narcissistic Tendencies https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sat, 29 Jul 2023 04:02:39 +0000 hourly 1 By: Bonnie11 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1282523 Sat, 29 Jul 2023 04:02:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1282523 In reply to OceanPearl.

Ocean Pearl — oh my gosh – my son is 26 now and for a year and a half I have cried and been broken giving up … on me …. This video was soul reaching for me and then I saw your comment with the same age of your son (there are no coincidences and our healing is everyone’s healing – we are so connected) … All we can do is learn to heal us and love us and yes, have our healthy boundaries. Release with love as you say. It has been 4 years since your post — how have things changed for you?

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1251935 Sun, 02 May 2021 22:39:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1251935 In reply to Leah.

Hi Leah,

you are very welcome.

You really do have a chance Leah, that’s wonderful that you’re committed.

So much love to you and your beautiful child

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Leah https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1251928 Sun, 02 May 2021 12:37:12 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1251928 Thank you Melanie. I was inspired watching this video and it has given me hope that my child, despite the narcissistic tendencies, has a chance to get through this. The father is a covert narc and despite getting out of the marriage some years ago and healing from this relationship (thanks to NARP), I am now reliving it again. This time, however, it is quite overt. It is devastating to say the least and nobody understands the deep shame and guilt I feel. I have learnt from your video, however, that as long as I commit to healing the triggers and the pain of being rejected, unloved and disrespected, I have a chance to shift this and heal generational wounds…giving my child a chance to have a rich and full life. I am committed to doing the work. Thank you for everything you do for this community.

]]> By: Hannah Walker Edwards https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1246483 Sat, 16 Jan 2021 09:28:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1246483 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

This link is private. I’d love to watch

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1222780 Wed, 04 Dec 2019 07:58:30 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1222780 In reply to Sonia Indigo.

Hi Sonia,

it’s my pleasure and thank you for your lovely words.

Thank you for your wonderful invitation and I would be sure to look you up.

Keep up the beautiful work that you are doing as well.

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’›πŸ’•

]]> By: Sonia Indigo https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1222701 Tue, 03 Dec 2019 14:39:58 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1222701 In reply to COLLEEN DEEGAN.

Dear Melanie, I come here from watching your video and I would like to tell you, that from all the professional’s in codependency field I have been seeing on you tube over the last 2 years of codependency recovery, you are certainly the one I most identify with my vision and spiritual approach upon narcissism.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom, your calm, your experience and your knowledge.
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Melanie, I am sending my live and sincere gratitude to you.
Thank you.
Sonia

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1193594 Sat, 13 Jul 2019 04:32:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1193594 In reply to sarah.

Hi Sarah,

Please know teenagers can be so self absorbed … simply because they are teenagers.

It certainly may not be too late at all. The process with this is to shift inside you how you feel about the way he is being, and then even possibly proxy healings on him.

Sarah are you in the NARP forum? That is the best place where we can help guide you with this http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

I hope this helps.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•β™₯️

]]> By: sarah https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1193437 Fri, 12 Jul 2019 17:45:42 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1193437 Hi Melanie I have been working on NARP for 3 years now and have evolved beyond recognition. So, my question today is my son. He’s nearly 18, he was very loving until 14. He was 10 when I left his dad , who is a covert narc. My son just doesn’t seem to have any emotions at all, nothing. To top it all, I fell the other day and was cut and bleeding. My son just glanced at me then looked away. I could barely walk. He just saidΒ Β» oh can you take me to the swimming pool later?Β Β»
Is it possible to bring him back? He is emotionless. I’m going to work on myself tonight because I’m hurting but is it too late ?
Much love Melanie πŸ™πŸΌπŸ’œ

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/#comment-1172991 Thu, 09 May 2019 22:06:46 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=4863#comment-1172991 In reply to Fiona Oliver.

Awww Fiona,

You are so welcome, you have got this.

Please also know there are parents in the NARP Forum with much experience with what you are dealing with who can help support you.

I highly suggest this for you and your child.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•β€οΈ

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