Comments on: When Narcissists Are Hurting The People You Love … How Do You Help Them?

By: Kathy bates

Kathy bates — Sun, 20 Jun 2021 00:12:44 +0000

Hi I emailed u a couple of days ago re my son & the narcistic mother of his now 13 weeks old baby left him when the baby was 8 weeks old & is making life very difficult for my son to see his son. I have watched the videos etc u suggested & I, myself is past off of them. I have never lied to my children about their narcistic father. My grandson’s mother gave my son an altimatium over 12 months ago either her or my son’s family meaning meaning me & his brother. He chose her as he always wanted to be a father & she promised him a child. We accepted his decision. My boys & i have always been close so i was able to talk with him about what she was doing & to give him an altermatium was unhealthy. She was jealous of my sons relationship with me as she didnt have anything like it with her mother. Now she is doing the same thing with my son as far as seeing his son goes as what her mother did with her. Very Nasty. As we know a narc believes the world they live in is real & they do nothing wrong. My son caught her sleeping with a so called mate. My son wants nothing to do with her as he is really seeing her true colours as we do when a narc is finished with their victim but he wants everything to do with his son. How do I help my son?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 19 Aug 2020 06:55:49 +0000

In reply to Jay.

Hi Jay,

Yes absolutely when you empower and heal it leads the way for everyone around you.

Keep up the great work.

Love and blessings to all of you

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Angelique

Angelique — Tue, 18 Aug 2020 14:15:42 +0000

Thank you for this, so needed it. Nearly everyone I know is being abused by a narcissist one way or another😳 but I realise their common denominator is me and it’s still narcissists stopping me from receiving any kind of love or it’s me again, looking for it where there can’t be any, like having a total blind spot anything else is even possible. Work to do….

By: Jay

Jay — Mon, 17 Aug 2020 03:42:12 +0000

Hi,
Is this method also applicable to a spouse watching their spouse being abused by a narcissistic parent?
The affect of this abuse has direct impacts and implications for a marriage when the parent has no boundaries for example.
It’s therefore not just the spouse (the child of the Narc) that experiences the effects of the abuse inadvertenly, but in effect both spouses do.
I have been doing a lot of empowerment through the sharing of your content and information and I’ve seen a lot of positive changes.

By: Horizon

Horizon — Sat, 15 Aug 2020 11:44:03 +0000

The cells in my body really get this, thank you Mel X

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 00:32:25 +0000

In reply to Paula Louise Thomas.

Hi Paula,

I love that the cells in your body get this!

It’s beautiful to have you as a NARP member and I know from your excitement that you are going to be doing so well, now that you can detox with NARP powerfully from the inside.

I 100% know that in this context Paula you are referring to “control” as taking your power back. Which is what true healing is about.

Love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Paula Louise Thomas

Paula Louise Thomas — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 22:43:41 +0000

This is one of the most powerful things I have ever read and I am 55 years old… The cells in my body really get this!

I have just joined NARP and I am so excited – thank you Melanie your work is truly on another level – I have read so much and had so much therapy… but this makes sense and has changed me already. I love the way it also gives hope and makes me feel like I have some control over my life – finally!

(I would never normally use the word control because I don’t like the word for obvious reasons, having been controlled for so long. However it is the right word and I am not going to be afraid to us it when it is exactly how I feel.)

It feel like there could be good times ahead yay – thank you Melanie xx

By: H

Mon, 06 Apr 2020 21:30:11 +0000

The cells of My body really gets this!!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 12 Mar 2020 00:13:14 +0000

In reply to Susan mark.

Hi Susan,

I love that you deeply resonate with this.

I can tell by your words and energy that you have done very deep and beautiful inner work.

Sending you love and continued blessings and breakthroughs

Mel 🙏💕💚