Comments on: When People React Negatively To Your Personal Growth And Healing

By: Iris

Iris — Fri, 18 Feb 2022 18:54:04 +0000

In reply to Fay.

Dear Fay,

I would call them ‘moments of testing” never weakness. You see, our only strength is GOD Himself… how can we be weak?

The only battle is for your faith. What will you believe during the trial?

I find myself puzzled, and wondering ‘how will God fix this’ -but frankly – NEVER in fear or doubt or weakness. I hope to always be only found in God’s strength -I know I can not do anything without God ( so I guess this is a permanent state of ‘weak’. 🙂 But I wouldn’t have it any other way.)

I LLLLOOOOOOVVVVVVEEEEEE GOD and trust Him with all my life and heart and soul.

God can not UN-be. He is and ever will be. GOD is from before time . Eternal. The GOOD He created is already perfect and forever. God is in the ‘quantum’ field where there is no time or space.

In testing times… wait patiently on God to be revealed when we clear the debris that is blocking our view. The pure in heart always see God – even during the trial. The cross was not the end of the story, only the beginning.

By: Iris

Iris — Fri, 18 Feb 2022 18:45:58 +0000

Dear Sue,

Nobody can overrule God. You do the right thing by yourself and watch all the laws of Universal Love come to your aid to work out the best situation for all.

Love is like that.

I promise.

By: DMJ

DMJ — Sun, 06 Feb 2022 05:44:14 +0000

Hi, Mel.
Off topic here, but I saw your FB post today and I was wondering what kind of rally you were at. Was it about lockdowns, mandates? Here in the US the media doesn’t cover protests or rallies against anything covid-mandate related. It’s very disturbing that we don’t even hear about it. I did a search and there was a BBC article that came up about demonstrations. According to the US main stream media…. none of it is even happening. We are in the dark. Even rallies here are not covered. I have to say that during this whole 2 year period I have thought a lot about your teachings and all the gaslighting. I hope and pray you all are making progress back to freedom in Australia. And thanks for posting your video, otherwise, we’d have no idea it was going on there.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 05 Feb 2022 23:20:01 +0000

In reply to Lori.

Hi Lori,

I am so happy for you that you are doing so well!

Continued love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Molly

Molly — Thu, 03 Feb 2022 03:03:10 +0000

I find that this has been true for me. As I have started to make gains in my recovery and growth the abusers around me have become more firm in trying to “sell” me this dialogue that I still need them in my life. I know that I do not. And I am practicing my faith now, I am doing the work. Going within, sharing time with myself and not giving up on me. I have seen some outer results- yay! but have also seen some “more of the same”. But Melanie you are so right that their antics do not affect a person the same once they start doing the healing. I find myself feeling the old thoughts- of this is so unfair and then its like I find myself also having thoughts that this is for my benefit and I can use this experience to grow. So I feel like I have some of the old and some of the new, and yes the “old” people in my life don’t bother me the same way as much. They do seem to get angry as I get happy, but hey! I guess that is to be expected. I hope everyone heals and thank you all for sharing.

By: Lori

Lori — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 21:01:33 +0000

Mel- This program WORKS! I have been an on and off Thriver for a few years now (as I peel back each layer I take time with it, adjust to it, gather my strength and move to the next layer) and I had an *amazing* breakthrough recently! An old friend who I had a break with 5 years ago (while standing in my power was still new to me) called the other day and apologized a half hearted apology and I called him out on insincere word salad! I was not going to bite that bait and get hooked into the same old relationship because it suited *him*. I said moving forward, if this friendship means anything to you, these are *MY* needs and FYI, you’ll notice I didn’t pick up the phone in these past 5 years. I was very proud of myself! This was a 30 year (one-sided) friendship that had been so laden with self absorption and toxicity that I couldn’t break that cycle of people pleasing for crumbs until your program! I’m letting him ‘sit’ with the new me and if he picks up the phone again I will be prepared for a second go at him trying to re-establish his ‘status quo’ and remain in my ‘true to myself’ power. NARP is THE BEST! THANK YOU!!!

By: Lori

Lori — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 14:57:36 +0000

Thanks Melanie for this great article! After spending most of my adult life living as an ashamed highschool dropout, I went back to school at 42 and graduated with a BA at 50. Every Narc in my life from my mother, my boss to my boyfriend used every trick you describe to bring me down. Ms. Webster, Ms. City College, You think you are better than us, you name it, they said it to me. Well, guess what happened! A better job with a huge raise, travel abroad, retirment and now I am learning to sing at 65 and hope to have an stage act one of these days. All the Narcs are dead, broke, unhappy, almost homeless. I even lost 2 dress sizes during Covid Lol! Melanie, having you by my side during the tough times has saved my life and I am forever grateful to you! Thanks so much!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 01:00:14 +0000

In reply to Iris.

Hi Iris,

I loved writing this post! I love that you loved reading it!

Yes, THRIVE on Dear Sister

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Guendolyn

Guendolyn — Tue, 01 Feb 2022 21:46:57 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼my eternal thanks for your work and your existence 💖💖