Comments on: When The Narcissists Knows You Have Them Figured Out … Run!

By: Elaine Goldberg

Elaine Goldberg — Fri, 14 Aug 2020 22:04:27 +0000

Hi. Gosh you just made me realise so much. But it is so hard when I’ve had to deal with a narcissistic son. It had gone on for years but it all blew up in December. Now i signed surety for a lease on his apartment 5 years ago. During these last six months I have received so much abuse and disrespect from him. I’ve just ignored him as everyone told me to do. But…… I have just discovered that he owes a large amount of money for his rent and I am liable as I signed the lease. I then was forced to cancel the lease, but I’m still liable for that money. He was given notice and was told to come in to sign a new lease or vacate by the end of the month. To my utter disbelief he came back at me by saying, “ have you lost your mind! What were you thinking!!” And a lot more! He told me I was dead to him and when I got up and walked away, he comes back at me !!! I am in disbelief! He calls me the mother that was, he wants nothing to do with me, and when I take the necessary steps to get out of his life, he is amazed that I could do such a thing! Huh!! I give up!!! What part of this do I not understand?

By: William

William — Sat, 27 Jun 2020 17:20:11 +0000

It is a dooooosssey getting back to me. And i know i will succeed at be-coming my birthright from childhood abuse of the most extreme and confounding and now as an adult a wholesome full person and not the loss of life happiness and 'limb' that was intended by they who will and did commit suicide to save face intending to take everyone else down with them that they could. THEY = PSYCHOPATHIC-'NARCs' . This cannot be more clearly spoken as i say that at a inherent level you know you are in wrongtown as a child but you don't develope the wherewithal to get out of there from out of nowhere, you simply don't have the mindspace and you will not develope the neccessary mind space while the abusers are gaslighting and injuring you physically as well. As i did try to leave these CREEPS while i still had feet to do so, the attempt was fruitless. I just had no skill to get out of there and REALLY live. Something you can't do where you are not wanted by individuals , narc sympathizers and proxy as well that only see you as an object to harm and cast you as the evil doer with character aspersions and of course all the maddening psychological psyche deadening defemation of character Authorities used to further demise and end you. Well this is long and i only wanted to bring another acknowledgement of the fine detail of Melanie Tania Evans NARCASSIST ABUSE RECOVERY PROGRAM Thank you goodbye

By: Luisa

Luisa — Sat, 14 Mar 2020 00:55:15 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. I am getting off now

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 24 Oct 2019 05:49:03 +0000

I’m getting off this ride NOW!
This is it. I’m done. It HAS to be!
Thank you, Melanie

By: Samantha

Samantha — Sun, 15 Sep 2019 14:32:40 +0000

I love your story, thanks for sharing. We all have our ways of healing. I have chosen to forgive and not hate my ex because he already has so much self-hate, he doesn’t need my hate. He came back as a friend, and we email on occasion. I know eventually our communication will fade as his supply network continues to grow- He knows I know what he is. I love him still and my last communication to him was telling him that I wish him nothing but love, happiness and peace. I feel great and good things are happening! I am almost there, 90%….I am close!! Honestly, remaining in contact with him as I learn more and more about this disorder has really helped me heal, I have brought my own closure.

By: Samantha

Samantha — Sun, 15 Sep 2019 02:53:42 +0000

In reply to TS. I love your story, thanks for sharing. We all have our ways of healing. I have chosen to forgive and not hate my ex because he already has so much self-hate, he doesn't need my hate. He came back as a friend, and we email on occasion. I know eventually our communication will fade as his supply network continues to grow- He knows I know what he is. I love him still and my last communication to him was telling him that I wish him nothing but love, happiness and peace. I feel great and good things are happening! I am almost there, 90%....I am close!! Honestly, remaining in contact with him as I learn more and more about this disorder has really helped me heal, I have brought my own closure.

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Tue, 27 Aug 2019 20:04:41 +0000

I need help. This man is trying tho make me lose my home. He’s messing with my vehicle. He’s trying to cause me to lose my job. Ive asked him to go but be tells me if I call the police be will give them things that we’ll get my kids taken away from me. I have been living without water for the past 2 months bc my landlord shut it off to get rid of me. The same landlord that told a friend if mine 2 weeks prior that he loved me like a daughter is now turning my water off to force me out. 2 weeks after he met my boyfriend and had him do some work for him. The father of my kids committed suicide a few years alo and im all they have. If something happens to me they have no one. What would happen to them? I want to b out of this nightmare. But how do I get out of this if he won’t go. Ive seen the damaging psychotic things he has done. How do I make him leave if he won’t go? Without putting my kids at risk?

By: DEE

DEE — Fri, 23 Aug 2019 01:07:17 +0000

I have been a narc relationship for over a year now and I’m getting off all of your reading has made me stronger than I thought I could be he reduced me to almost nothing I was almost dependent on him he convinced me to take a lower paying job which I now love and wouldn’t trade for nothing ,and after the last argument I war done I felt as if my life as I knew it was over where would I find another person who seemed to care as much as he did and I have my faith he plays the good Christian role cause I’m in church and always have been but when the real him came out I found he could hold down a relationship and never miss a beat ,he got fought in many many lies in fact our relationship was all lies.A way to get or gain control he was a good listener and heard what I wanted from a man and plaid the role to the T until we moved in together then God gave me signs but I over looked them I should have left when he beat me so badly I was sore for 2 weeks I looked on the bright side of things so ladies if your from Indiana plz don’t date Darryl Stanley he is a true narc in every sense of the word he would go off as if he were working and do greet and meets with women off the internet as if I were stupid I even suspect he had them in our home and I’m the one to blame I’ve changed my life for the better and I refuse to allow him to take me back to a DARK PLACE IN LIFE GOD HAS BEEN WAY TO GOOD TO ME FOR THAT NO I’M AFRAI TO DEATH CAUSE HE HAS SHOWN ME THE VERY VERY EVIL SIDE BUT I CAN SAFELY SAY I’M DONE BUT I DO WONDER WHAT WILL HE DO NEXT MY FAITH IS STRONGER NOW AND I DEPEND ON IT🙄🙄🙄CAUSE WHAT DON’T BREAK YO MAKES YOU STRONGER

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 31 Jul 2019 00:23:16 +0000

In reply to Kathryn.

Awww Kathryn,

I am so sorry you have lived through such horrors.

Thank goodness you have survived to this point.

I would love to help you get started on true and deep healing.

Have you come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar yet? That would be such a powerful starting point for you.

Sending you love, healing and breakthrough

Mel 🙏💞💛