I’m so glad that you enjoyed this Robyne,

Much love to you dear lady.

Mel 🙏💕💛

Excellent article. Wow you’re grasp on this whole narcissistic addiction thing is astounding along with your ability to explain it to others. I’ve been out of a relationship with a narcissist for five years now, and was with him for the previous five. Some kind of way, I still think of him daily, even if only for a few minutes and it’s usually at night when I’m alone in bed. I hate that. I still feel sorry for him as he has multiple addictions that he is suffering from. Drug abuse being the most debilitating for him. I heard from mutual long-term friends that I don’t see or talk to often (we live in different cities) that he has also had some health challenges recently, he’s been sick (he’s also a heavy smoker and drinker). I feel bad from the distance for him, his elderly father and his children, but also don’t want him in my life anymore. He and I have spoken possibly once a year or every year and half since I ended things. I can relate to what you are describing in that I felt horrific after the breakup for a long time. It was a like some type of chemical withdrawal. That’s no longer the case thank goodness. It took a couple of years for that “terrible” feeling after the break up to go away. And yet, I still think about the sex with him all these years later which I know isn’t healthy. I’ve only had sex twice in the last five years, with another ex-boyfriend (not a narcissist). It’s something that I steer away from now when dating and am really apprehensive about with anyone new. I don’t feel that I will fall for another narcissist but am concerned that the last one still “rents” space in my head.

Hi Marlyn,

I love Dr Joe’s work. He is right on it! As is Bruce Lipton and the late Candace Pert.

I’m so pleased my work resonates with you>

Mel 🙏💕💛

Hi McS,

Please know you’re very welcome. I’m just so pleased I can help.

Mel 🙏💕❤️