Comments on: Why Did We Fall For A Narcissist? Part 2 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 02 Jun 2017 19:52:44 +0000 hourly 1 By: haya https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-880982 Fri, 02 Jun 2017 19:52:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-880982 i’m in love with a narcissit married man , means that he is cheating on his wife
with me , and told me he doen’t like her anymore and wants to divorce her
and marry me , but after 2 years he said sorry i can’t divorce her it’s hard , he was keep saying i am stressing him now with the marriage subject
, so i decided to tell his wife everything as a revenge , i met her in their house and told her almost everythinh , showed her some pic and msgz, , then guess what ,
they both told me to get out from the house and she didn’t believe me , she believed
him when he said i’m a slut hoe following him , then he blocked me and
started the NO CONTACT , i’m totally shocked and in pain , all these love
and great sex and saying you are the love of my life was lie ? how could he
just expelled me from tha house without even call to check if i’m hurted or not ,
and do you think his wife really didn’t beileve me or she just doesn’t want
to lose him and her baby ? she will keep loving him and live normaly with
him ?? while i am the one who lives now in bad situation !! i’m so confused now , it’s been only 1 week of this

I used to be with him 24 hours , he cared about me a lot , he used to take me to hospital when i’m sick , helped me to find a job , and even supported me when i was broke , even when i’m sleep , he wake up at night to cover me

and now after i went to his house and told his wife everything , he denied and told me to get out and i’m the one who is following him , then he suddenly blocked me and disappeared , he didn’t even think about calling me to apologize or to give any excuses , to be honest i was expecting him to call and say i’m sorry for doing that but i don’t want to lose my baby , my house or whatever , or to see if im ok or not

all i want is revenge , i can’t think about anything but revenge, i keep imagine him happy with her like nth happened and that is killing me

i wish his wife will turn his life into hell now , and he return to me crying ,, I’m confused too many thoughts came into my mind , i thought about killing myself

do you believe in Karma ? will the universe take my revenge ??

]]> By: Nazim https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-873396 Tue, 23 May 2017 23:33:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-873396 Hey
I’m speechless. this article is the most precious thing I have ever read. I was waiting for it. Since my break up and the starting of my meaningful pain, I was surfing the internet for this revealing and magnificent gift from GOD. I don’t know exactly what this articles did to me but I can mention its fruits. EVERY WORD YOU SAY IS JUST LIKE NO WORD ELSE CAN EXPRESS THE TRUTH .
This is not the end of my suffering. instead, it’s the beginning of the long life process. I was for someone to show me the road and now I can hit it to my true self. I’m very happy I think if I got a baby girl, her name will be Melanie 🙂 . I’m serious

]]> By: Liz https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-690044 Mon, 05 Sep 2016 20:35:50 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-690044 Dear Melanie,
Thank you so so much. Last weeks i have been watching your videos over and over again. I have been dating a covert narcissist for 6 months, longdistance, and was the happiest girl in the world. No red flags, no nothing. Until suddenly he went distant in the apps and phonecalls. That lasted for some days, in which i tried to figure out what the ? was going on…
After an email from my side he gave me the silent treatment, which i did not accept. I told him that i did not understand what was going on, but that i did not accept this behaviour. No contact ever since…..
I am trying to let go, one day it gets better than the other, but standing strong. I will never ever compromise myself for no man, that is the promise i made to myself after my divorce from a husband with narcissistic traits.
Whenever i am sad or feeling the dissapointment i now try to just feel it and embrace it. We may feel that.
Thank you again & keep on doing the good work! Big hug from Holland, Liz

]]> By: HilmaRose https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-681993 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 03:15:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-681993 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Thank you Melanie <3 So much Love for you

]]> By: Bondon https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-681459 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 18:59:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-681459 In reply to Liz.

Hi Liz! Please understand you are NOT broken, your soul is just currently in a lot of pain. It is a challenge until we get the hang of the Modules and moduling process. It takes time and patience. Indeed, if you can, post on the NARP Forum by all means. I have been helped so many times by both Melanie herself, NARP Moderators and fellow Thrivers whenever I run into a healing block.
Sending you love and virtual hugs xoxo

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-681202 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 07:06:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-681202 In reply to Liz.

Hi Liz,

it is really important that you come into the NARP Forum, so that myself and the other Thrivers can investigate with you what is going on and guide you.

It may be one thing that will help unlock you, or it may be several things – and that is the backwards and forwards dialogue and coaching we need to do with you to help.

You can access all of that as a part of being a Gold NARP Member here: https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

If you are on Silver Membership then please email support@melanietoniaevans.com so that you can be upgraded.

I hope this helps Liz.

Mel xo

]]> By: Liz https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-681093 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 00:43:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-681093 Hi…I am struggling. I am exceedingly co-dependent and constantly being hurt by the narcissist you recently officially discarded me. I am a narp member, try the understand and work throw the modules and it’s like I don’t get it. I am too broken to get it. I am not even able to really function anymore. Any suggestions will be helpful because I can’t do this anymore.
Thank you

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-680671 Mon, 15 Aug 2016 23:26:22 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-680671 In reply to Bria.

Hi Bria,

You are very welcome 🙂

I am so pleased this video came at the right time for you, and that they are helping you!

That is wonderful you are a NARP Member now.

Are you in the NARP Forum – https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member ?

Because you can work on clearing that “hook” significantly with Module 1, and the Goal Setting Module.

Module 6 also specifically caters powerfully to those shifts required for you to break free from this Inner Program of care-taking him.

Most definitely I can do a video on that soon … however do know the most powerful way for you to heal this is to do the work on it inside your body with the Modules.

If you are not quite sure how to – after listening to the Tips Module and starting working with Module 1, then myself or another Thriver in the Forum will be only to happy to help guide you.

Mel xo

]]> By: Bria https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-did-we-fall-for-a-narcissist-part-2/#comment-680592 Mon, 15 Aug 2016 18:54:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3826#comment-680592 Mel,

Hi! Awesome!~ Video on cognitive dissonance. I am going through the break up and this blog came in at the right time.

I have purchased your NARP program. Wow!~ could not healed and be able to leave without your help. Your audios are amazing.

I am stuck on wanting to HELP! the Narc. I get sucked in wanting to FIX him. Can you do a video on “How-to” clear your susceptibility to wanting to FIX/Help the narc. I tried empath video but, unable to evolve/up level out of it.

Thank you for your wonderful work….

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