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		By: Goshung		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-1255294</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Goshung]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2021 23:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh my goodness 😲 it’s just all my own doing and a criminal shouldn’t have to go to jail, I should just suck it up, acknowledge I generated their crap and should have to do all the work while they move on to become benevolent seeming healers. “manifested all sorts of dis-ease“ 😷how can you prove that? That can’t be the truth. So either be an extroverted “cowabunga dude” dick  or a woman? gosh that war on women is beyond reason.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my goodness 😲 it’s just all my own doing and a criminal shouldn’t have to go to jail, I should just suck it up, acknowledge I generated their crap and should have to do all the work while they move on to become benevolent seeming healers. “manifested all sorts of dis-ease“ 😷how can you prove that? That can’t be the truth. So either be an extroverted “cowabunga dude” dick  or a woman? gosh that war on women is beyond reason.</p>
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		By: NARC-ABUSED		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-569478</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[NARC-ABUSED]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2015 17:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[and have posted your programs and articles : select on a discussion group where we help each other with life&#039;s issues and deeper ways to resolve them. just spreading your work.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>and have posted your programs and articles : select on a discussion group where we help each other with life&#8217;s issues and deeper ways to resolve them. just spreading your work.</p>
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		By: NARC-ABUSED		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-569477</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[NARC-ABUSED]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2015 17:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[hi ,
just one discernment and discrimination. unless one gets true evil,(npd) and how it has true control, power, influence over the good (co-dep) ---[ for in the human world there are only these 2 personalities fundamentally, as stand alone extremes.] such that it can transform the good into self-destructive evil --- one simply can&#039;t get back to one&#039;s own real source / root / origin of true state of being. even conceptually. unless one can see clearly : M. Scott Peck calls it the searing vision [ his book : people of the lie worthy read] --- both evil and the noble and all in between --- the inside jobs of the cosmic creator--- one can&#039;t truly even consider recovering. perhaps this is for those who have seen much negative all round, are circumstantially challenged, apart from the horror of high-level prolonged [ high-profile ] npd abuse, [stealth, covert, undercover literally]. i took the reverse path of seeking answers spiritually, had to ...the life mess waste was /is in my face 24/7...and funnily enough was led from one thing to another by the cosmic energy !!! led me to rock bottom and dark night of the soul. though had I not started with Mel&#039;s work, would have no dot to start with. today have connected a few dots, re: my seeking and now ready for Mel&#039;s work. Else spirit of me and my child was /is dead. reviving it. Such is the scope / range / reach of human evil. I agree with your article today, infact reading it since yesterday...and you are bang on, as usual Mel. without a spiritual connect within, we would indeed remain evil and noble humans and no more. though human form is way more !!! thank you]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi ,<br />
just one discernment and discrimination. unless one gets true evil,(npd) and how it has true control, power, influence over the good (co-dep) &#8212;[ for in the human world there are only these 2 personalities fundamentally, as stand alone extremes.] such that it can transform the good into self-destructive evil &#8212; one simply can&#8217;t get back to one&#8217;s own real source / root / origin of true state of being. even conceptually. unless one can see clearly : M. Scott Peck calls it the searing vision [ his book : people of the lie worthy read] &#8212; both evil and the noble and all in between &#8212; the inside jobs of the cosmic creator&#8212; one can&#8217;t truly even consider recovering. perhaps this is for those who have seen much negative all round, are circumstantially challenged, apart from the horror of high-level prolonged [ high-profile ] npd abuse, [stealth, covert, undercover literally]. i took the reverse path of seeking answers spiritually, had to &#8230;the life mess waste was /is in my face 24/7&#8230;and funnily enough was led from one thing to another by the cosmic energy !!! led me to rock bottom and dark night of the soul. though had I not started with Mel&#8217;s work, would have no dot to start with. today have connected a few dots, re: my seeking and now ready for Mel&#8217;s work. Else spirit of me and my child was /is dead. reviving it. Such is the scope / range / reach of human evil. I agree with your article today, infact reading it since yesterday&#8230;and you are bang on, as usual Mel. without a spiritual connect within, we would indeed remain evil and noble humans and no more. though human form is way more !!! thank you</p>
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		By: Lorig		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-551169</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lorig]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2014 19:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mel,

Earlier this week I had surgery for breast cancer.  I have followed you and your program for over a year and when I saw this post I knew I had to listen to it.  Two things I said to myself when I was diagnosed, I need to be stronger and smarter in my life.  Hard thing to do when you&#039;re in pain and feeling more vulnerable than ever before.  I&#039;m not longer with my narc husband (it&#039;s been 14 yrs and I&#039;ve lived through having my older son turned against me.  They both love me and are now 19 and 23  Not so funny that I poured so much energy into a great paying job but worked for narc people. I&#039;m also engaged to a man who has helped me but who needs to feel powerful and in control and I see how I relinquish mine.  I don&#039;t know when the cancer started to grow. I&#039;m a fantasticly healthy eater and look 15 years younger than my 50 years although I am afraid of what will happen to me with chemo.  I do feel vulnerable now, afraid of security but know that I need to change my life in some way to be able to not kill myself for approval and money. Thank you for your post to remind me that security has always been my primal fear and that I must always look that square in the face.  xox Lorig]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mel,</p>
<p>Earlier this week I had surgery for breast cancer.  I have followed you and your program for over a year and when I saw this post I knew I had to listen to it.  Two things I said to myself when I was diagnosed, I need to be stronger and smarter in my life.  Hard thing to do when you&#8217;re in pain and feeling more vulnerable than ever before.  I&#8217;m not longer with my narc husband (it&#8217;s been 14 yrs and I&#8217;ve lived through having my older son turned against me.  They both love me and are now 19 and 23  Not so funny that I poured so much energy into a great paying job but worked for narc people. I&#8217;m also engaged to a man who has helped me but who needs to feel powerful and in control and I see how I relinquish mine.  I don&#8217;t know when the cancer started to grow. I&#8217;m a fantasticly healthy eater and look 15 years younger than my 50 years although I am afraid of what will happen to me with chemo.  I do feel vulnerable now, afraid of security but know that I need to change my life in some way to be able to not kill myself for approval and money. Thank you for your post to remind me that security has always been my primal fear and that I must always look that square in the face.  xox Lorig</p>
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		By: narc abused		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[narc abused]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 17:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Marilyn ---- thanks for sharing !!! you have shown that being ever more good to one&#039;s own self ever as one&#039;s own fundamental human and divine right is all that there is to human existence. Authentically as Mel reveals. Rest is all perks and bonus. God bless you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marilyn &#8212;- thanks for sharing !!! you have shown that being ever more good to one&#8217;s own self ever as one&#8217;s own fundamental human and divine right is all that there is to human existence. Authentically as Mel reveals. Rest is all perks and bonus. God bless you.</p>
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		By: narc abused		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550724</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[narc abused]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 16:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank You Mel for your reply. The reason you are such a good teacher [apart from all the rest you do for the N-community] is that you go the extra mile to read a post and respond to all possible directions you may perceive ----to re-align the focus back to the issue in question. that is the extra depth you offer which is Crystal !!! So THANK YOU. I got both your sides to my post. Albert Einstein said : you cannot solve a problem with the same mind-set or consciousnesss that created it&quot;. Who would ever realize the true significance of this bottomline, in a pure evil like NPD+more !!! To get justice on the outside --- one has to FIRST get justice within one&#039;s own self--- as deep as the abuse of evil !!! Thank you for all the healing programs you have offered. I remain amazed by the nature and depth of your services.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank You Mel for your reply. The reason you are such a good teacher [apart from all the rest you do for the N-community] is that you go the extra mile to read a post and respond to all possible directions you may perceive &#8212;-to re-align the focus back to the issue in question. that is the extra depth you offer which is Crystal !!! So THANK YOU. I got both your sides to my post. Albert Einstein said : you cannot solve a problem with the same mind-set or consciousnesss that created it&#8221;. Who would ever realize the true significance of this bottomline, in a pure evil like NPD+more !!! To get justice on the outside &#8212; one has to FIRST get justice within one&#8217;s own self&#8212; as deep as the abuse of evil !!! Thank you for all the healing programs you have offered. I remain amazed by the nature and depth of your services.</p>
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		By: alexandria lange		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550691</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[alexandria lange]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 04:11:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,  Thankyou so much for this latest info.  It is so much what I needed to hear today as I have just decided to go back into my own business.  I now feel ready, inspired and no longer fearful!  I have truly learnt so much from the NARP Programme and EBooks which I continue to learn and grow from.

Melanie, I want to thankyou for everything as your programme has truly changed my life!!!!  Love and light xxoo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,  Thankyou so much for this latest info.  It is so much what I needed to hear today as I have just decided to go back into my own business.  I now feel ready, inspired and no longer fearful!  I have truly learnt so much from the NARP Programme and EBooks which I continue to learn and grow from.</p>
<p>Melanie, I want to thankyou for everything as your programme has truly changed my life!!!!  Love and light xxoo</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550690</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 04:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550662&quot;&gt;Esther&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Esther,

I am so sorry you are going through that injustice.

Goodness me - are we still in the dark ages, in certain parts of apparently civilized countries?

Esther, dear lady, keep releasing and uplevelling, and &#039;a way&#039; will appear - you are the power within - remember that.

Hugs, love and strength.

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550662">Esther</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Esther,</p>
<p>I am so sorry you are going through that injustice.</p>
<p>Goodness me &#8211; are we still in the dark ages, in certain parts of apparently civilized countries?</p>
<p>Esther, dear lady, keep releasing and uplevelling, and &#8216;a way&#8217; will appear &#8211; you are the power within &#8211; remember that.</p>
<p>Hugs, love and strength.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550689</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2014 04:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550587&quot;&gt;kay&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kay,

Thank you and you are welcome!

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-do-bad-things-happen-to-good-people/#comment-550587">kay</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kay,</p>
<p>Thank you and you are welcome!</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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