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		By: JamesUsawl		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2025 03:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: Stevepat		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2025 15:11:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 09:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: KLM		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[KLM]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2022 19:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-doesnt-the-narcissist-care-about-me-part-1/#comment-657851&quot;&gt;Rosie&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for sharing its so hard to understand, did they ever care or were you just a toy for a broken child to play with?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-doesnt-the-narcissist-care-about-me-part-1/#comment-657851">Rosie</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing its so hard to understand, did they ever care or were you just a toy for a broken child to play with?</p>
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		By: k		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 04:49:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much for this! It is amazing how much harm to others narcissists can do and lie about it. They destroy lives at the drop of hat - or rather faster than turning a switch on and off. And female narcissists such as Beatriz Grimaldi who are female predators of married men do more harm and claim &quot;victimhood&quot; after boasting about what they do.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for this! It is amazing how much harm to others narcissists can do and lie about it. They destroy lives at the drop of hat &#8211; or rather faster than turning a switch on and off. And female narcissists such as Beatriz Grimaldi who are female predators of married men do more harm and claim &#8220;victimhood&#8221; after boasting about what they do.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2021 06:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-doesnt-the-narcissist-care-about-me-part-1/#comment-1251632&quot;&gt;User515&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi User,

it is impossible to change a narcissist, and rather only you can free yourself from the pain.

The way I can explain this to you is in my free webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I hope that this can help

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-doesnt-the-narcissist-care-about-me-part-1/#comment-1251632">User515</a>.</p>
<p>Hi User,</p>
<p>it is impossible to change a narcissist, and rather only you can free yourself from the pain.</p>
<p>The way I can explain this to you is in my free webinar <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar</a></p>
<p>I hope that this can help</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: User515		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2021 04:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey thank you for this article, I know this was posted like 5 years ago, but I just came across this and I really wanted to know if I could get some insight on what are these resources and tools that you talk about, that a narcissist lacks to put that self-absorption aside and be able to be available for someone else?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey thank you for this article, I know this was posted like 5 years ago, but I just came across this and I really wanted to know if I could get some insight on what are these resources and tools that you talk about, that a narcissist lacks to put that self-absorption aside and be able to be available for someone else?</p>
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		By: Carlos		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carlos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2018 17:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-doesnt-the-narcissist-care-about-me-part-1/#comment-657996&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

My wife cheated on me, left ne and our 3yo son and moved out, lying she was moving in with a female friend, i knew better. When i caught her out on the cheating, she got so angry that i was calling her a cheater she kept repeating &quot;you didn&#039;t catch me red handed&quot;

Anyways she moved in with the guy.... denied everything for a year and still can not speak a word of trurh...

Not only did she cheat, she falsely accused me of domestic violence and said i was with holding our son from seeing her... it all went to court and in the end she could have taken my son for majority of custody, but she pushed for 50/50... i remember on the day of the hearing i had a new girl friend with me, and my ex wife literally stared at us for thr 8 hrs we were there. Even for the hrs we were sitting behind her in court, she was looking back at us, without pause... it was weird... her boy friend sat there pretending not to notice...

She has no remorse.
She has hoovered me a few times... this was before i got to read the narc stuff...

All this stuff resonates with my story sooi much.. i can see now, it was not our son she wanted, she did all the court stuff to keep the connection between us alive.

I feel terrified now knowing she will not relent in letting me go, and our poor son will be a pawn in her manipulation... she cares nothing for him..or anyone.

I have even tried to educated her current partner with whom she cheated. Poor fellow is looking real worse for wear... im amused he thought he was so good taking my wife, and now here i am trying to help him under stand the mind fuck that is my ex.. 

I think im pretty safe in making this diagnosis of my ex myself..]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-doesnt-the-narcissist-care-about-me-part-1/#comment-657996">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>My wife cheated on me, left ne and our 3yo son and moved out, lying she was moving in with a female friend, i knew better. When i caught her out on the cheating, she got so angry that i was calling her a cheater she kept repeating &#8220;you didn&#8217;t catch me red handed&#8221;</p>
<p>Anyways she moved in with the guy&#8230;. denied everything for a year and still can not speak a word of trurh&#8230;</p>
<p>Not only did she cheat, she falsely accused me of domestic violence and said i was with holding our son from seeing her&#8230; it all went to court and in the end she could have taken my son for majority of custody, but she pushed for 50/50&#8230; i remember on the day of the hearing i had a new girl friend with me, and my ex wife literally stared at us for thr 8 hrs we were there. Even for the hrs we were sitting behind her in court, she was looking back at us, without pause&#8230; it was weird&#8230; her boy friend sat there pretending not to notice&#8230;</p>
<p>She has no remorse.<br />
She has hoovered me a few times&#8230; this was before i got to read the narc stuff&#8230;</p>
<p>All this stuff resonates with my story sooi much.. i can see now, it was not our son she wanted, she did all the court stuff to keep the connection between us alive.</p>
<p>I feel terrified now knowing she will not relent in letting me go, and our poor son will be a pawn in her manipulation&#8230; she cares nothing for him..or anyone.</p>
<p>I have even tried to educated her current partner with whom she cheated. Poor fellow is looking real worse for wear&#8230; im amused he thought he was so good taking my wife, and now here i am trying to help him under stand the mind fuck that is my ex.. </p>
<p>I think im pretty safe in making this diagnosis of my ex myself..</p>
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		By: Evelyn		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Evelyn]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2018 17:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much for this. I am in the middle of attempting to leave my husband. I say &quot;attempting&quot; because he still hasn&#039;t accepted that I am done and have nothing left to give but the little sanity I have left. I was gaslighted so heavily when I first told him it was over, that I was convinced I was the problem - I must love drama, I was throwing my &quot;knight in shining armor into the moat&quot;, I would never find a better man. Committing myself to a behavioral center was an actual thought. But in reading your articles, I&#039;m validated and I begin to remember why I decided to leave. It&#039;s a terrible rollercoaster at this point and I do miss him terribly, but I desire a life of happiness and fullness.  I will continue to read your articles in hopes it will keep me strong when I feel weak.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for this. I am in the middle of attempting to leave my husband. I say &#8220;attempting&#8221; because he still hasn&#8217;t accepted that I am done and have nothing left to give but the little sanity I have left. I was gaslighted so heavily when I first told him it was over, that I was convinced I was the problem &#8211; I must love drama, I was throwing my &#8220;knight in shining armor into the moat&#8221;, I would never find a better man. Committing myself to a behavioral center was an actual thought. But in reading your articles, I&#8217;m validated and I begin to remember why I decided to leave. It&#8217;s a terrible rollercoaster at this point and I do miss him terribly, but I desire a life of happiness and fullness.  I will continue to read your articles in hopes it will keep me strong when I feel weak.</p>
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