Comments on: Why Doesn’t The Narcissist Care About Me – Part 2

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By: Danielle

Danielle — Wed, 13 Apr 2016 16:11:15 +0000

Melanie,

Thank you so much for your blog and insight that continues to keep on track of NO CONTACT…My ex narc married 83 days after we broke up, but continues to call me..Your advice keeps me strong..it has now been 133 days and I have not answered one of his phone calls or text. I know if I was too it would be all about him…I wonder if he will ever stop. Each day I pray for strength, and I read your blog and when he calls I smile knowing I no longer care…I have moved on and I am healing me, and finding my happiness once again…Thank you so much for your postings they bring me strength as I deal with a Narc of a mother and I now know why I attracted Narcs into my life…

Smooches,
Danielle

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 06 Apr 2016 13:44:03 +0000

Hi Melanie,
My narcissist civil partner finished our civil partnership last June after eight years. I struggled badly-couldn’t accept it was over so on, kept breaking no contact as I was so addicted to her…and could not look after Little Susan.
During our relationship she blamed my issues, projected, charmed others, tried to turn me against my family & friends. The usual narc behaviour. I was adopted when I was very young and recognize I carry abandonment issues with me, she latched on to this and by the end of the partnership she had me believing everything was my fault, I would never get better and her favourite phrase was “I was emotionally dead from the neck up” it hurt but I believed her and lost all my self esteem.
I was caught by a blog on Huffington Post one day by a lady who wrote “Help, I’m in love with a Narcissist” I didn’t even know what one was and was horrified as I read the blog, she was describing my relationship.
Days later I found your clip on YouTube.
How to outsmart a Narcissist-Your statement in it “The narcissist isn’t the healer of our wounds, the narcissist is the messagener of them” hit me at my core and suddenly I realized for the first time what was playing out and it’s helped me immensely in letting her go. I also see I was drawn to narcissists in three previous relationship and I also see my adopted mother was quite narcissist and it’s obviously my relationship default.
My ex and I move in the same circle of friends but they are slowly seeing her for what she is. We were doing mediation but she pulled out of that and engaged a solicitor. I’m not looking forward to facing her and the battles ahead with our home etc.
thank you for your clips and email support, after 20 years of dis functional relationships I am seeing things clearly.
I feel as though I’ve been standing in a dark room for the last 40 years of my life and someone has just stepped inside and switched the light on.

By: Claudia

Claudia — Sun, 03 Apr 2016 16:17:20 +0000

It is so hard to WANT to break away from these monsters. And I think that’s absolutely the way we have to view,them. Monsters. Something terrible to fear. For me that helps with the no contact. It was shocking to me to realize these people walk the earth and seem to get away with so much. My ex was also a child,predator using social media to lure underage girls claiming to be an adult modeling producer. And he was successful with it. I pray so hard one day he,will be in prison the rest of his life.

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By: Danae

Danae — Fri, 01 Apr 2016 15:58:00 +0000

6 months of a “monogamous” relationship with the narcissist, who had an emotional affair with his “BFF gal pal” Cheryl (TRIANGULATION) he ended our relationship but we kept having sex for another two years! He said he couldn’t be with me because I had a split personality (gas lighting). I just heard (accidentally thru a mutual acquaintance that they are now living together and according to her they were “dating” a year before she moved in three months ago (that’s 15 months!) The last sexual contact (the end of the 2 1/2 yrs of sex only with promises of love) I had with him was 10 months ago! So he has ALREADY cheated on her, AND he was grooming me to be his side sex! He just changed our positions in the same triangulation!
So…. How can he “love her enough to move her in” when he has already cheated on her and triangulated her. She thinks she is special or different then the rest of us women who he used and discarded. I know better than to try to warn her. He has already painted me as the crazy liar. I had to change my phone number, block his emails, FB in order to prevent him from contacting me.
I’m hurt. I know it’s my childhood wounds and not really about him. But I am mad she cheated, manipulated and ended up with him!