Hi Catherine,

I would love to show you how to shift and get your calm and power back.

If you can please come into my one-day event it will help you so much, to achieve these things, as well as answer many of your questions in-depth.

http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/digitalpass

If you cant for the full day, then I thoroughly suggest my 2 hour free workshop http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I really hope that this can help

Mel 🙏💕💚

Hi Faye,

my heart goes out to you – that must be so painful.

Please google my name plus the topic “If your child is narcissistic”. I do have a few resources that I believe can really help you with this.

Sending you strength and healing

Mel 🙏💕💚

Not sure I fully understand how to shift. With the psych abuse and lies, threats, what is the demeanor one should adopt? How do you get people to do the 180? Is it remaining calm and defending the truth and boundaries? Is it never showing hurt or anger?

What is the best way to shut off the brain at night? The grief and adrenaline take over.

Why is it that the person who is honest, has done all the hard work (caring for a family member), etc., gets hit the hardest, though the abusers know you are the good one and do not care what they say or do to you?

These are not people in my home or at work.

Thanks.

Hi Carissa,

hun please know those thoughts keep banging around as a symptom of the literal energetic trauma still stuck inside.

This is why it is so important to have a process to literally RELEASE the trauma so that it is no longer operating within you.

Absolutely what you are going through is so common, and you will see, learn and experience in my upcoming workshop how to break free from this http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/digitalpass

I hope that this can help Dear Lady

Mel 🙏💕💚

Hi Aneas,

thank you for your lovely words!

So much love to you and keep Thriving

Mel 🙏💕💚

I think that social traumatization and trauma resolution processes are a part of what I wanted to get healthy enough to be ready for — to not make wrong choices, and to not internalize and unconsciously warehouse more social trauma, which it seems can be done quite gradually and subtley, I guess I wanted to be able to surf it and survive it, with some expectancy at a wordless level to also learn somethin from it. I wonder if you have gone through anything similar in relation to society. I would think you have, because of the reciprocative influencing and healing sensibilities you’ve practiced over the years, or decades. In my case, my early experiences with abandonment and familial alienation made me unconsciously use society at large as my support and even caretaker, with many facets and large institutional embodiments to compensate for lacks of real caretaking. I have shed that imaginary relationship, but that’s probably a denial, since I can feel the residue of it in my body fabric. It also feels like this subject matter can also sound some deep chords — the kind that take a while to encompass and identify with one’s felt sense. Anyway, I’m rooting for you and everyone “doing” this kind of thing, in a kind of comradery.