Comments on: Why Narcissists Need To Suck The Goodness Out Of You https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 14 Jul 2020 03:15:09 +0000 hourly 1 By: loretta https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1239555 Tue, 14 Jul 2020 03:15:09 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1239555 I decree and declare “I am claiming my light that dissolves away your darkness NOW!” IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME! so be it.

]]> By: Frantseska https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234769 Mon, 30 Mar 2020 14:35:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234769 God bless you Melanie πŸ™πŸ’–

]]> By: H https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234691 Sun, 29 Mar 2020 20:35:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234691 I am claiming My light, that dissolves away Your darkness Now!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234055 Wed, 18 Mar 2020 00:04:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234055 In reply to susanne Gaude.

Hi Susanne,

I’m so pleased that you made your way to my work and that it is helping.

The real truth is, lovely lady, we cannot make anybody think or feel anything at all. All we can do is heal ourselves and then we find that so much just organically falls in a place. Including how other people behave towards us and other situations in their life.

Have you come into one of my free webinars http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar yet?

I highly recommend it for Susanne, because you will find great clarity, relief and healing there.

Much love to you and your family

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234052 Tue, 17 Mar 2020 23:59:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234052 In reply to Bria.

Hi Bria,

I’m so pleased my videos are helping you!

Bria, it’s because of unconscious triggered wounds that cause you to go back in and try to win. Have you looked at my NARP program http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ? There is an entire Module – Module 5 – Let Go of Your Need to Win and Get Justice, that works on finding and releasing the specific traumas that are keeping you connected to this.

It is such a common issue for all of us who’ve been narcissistically abused, and delays our healing until we get to the bottom of it. Every module in NARP addresses the common “binds”, and releases them … that are consistent for virtually everybody – including that one!

I hope that this helps

Much Love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: susanne Gaude https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234043 Tue, 17 Mar 2020 20:29:57 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234043 Hello ,
I am from Sweden . I really like your work. I understand , I have to work with codependent . We lived for 35 years together . It took me so long time to understand . ….I don’t understand how I got the power to leave , but I did 6 years ago .
I have had real problems whit my ex and still have . I am working on .The sad thing for me has been the relations whit my kids , Our adult children 29, 32 and 35 years old . My grandchildren sees him like Γ  hero . .Its so frustrating.
I wonder when they Will se the truth . I raised them to always look , what was best for ther father.

I am the strong person. I have been too strong for my one good .

Thank you Melanie and bless to all you loving- kind people on this siste

Susanne

]]> By: Bria https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234034 Tue, 17 Mar 2020 15:29:57 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234034 Mel, Excellent video, thank you for sharing. I love them, keep them coming. These truly make a difference.

WHY as a co-dep I have a need to win? I also know, they are not normal, lacking in compassion and kindness therefore I can’t win against a person like NARC. fairness & reasonableness is not part of NARC makeup. πŸ™

Thanks
Bria

]]> By: Steph https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1234022 Tue, 17 Mar 2020 01:15:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1234022 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Melanie ~

I appreciate you giving me your ” Soul Contact with the narc” link.

I was not aware of it and will read your words with pleasure.

I remember Louise Lynn Hay stating that, “We all want to be loved and accepted.”

I can clearly see that a major part of your purpose is to be Loving and Accepting of everyone here and of every person who is acceptingly aware of your enlightening work and your strong and loving endeavors.

To know that you personally went into and through, the DNRH / Dark Narc Rabbit Hole and that you came out whole and happy, provides much hope for us all.

My heartfelt thanks for you sharing the courage you possess and for using your powers to help us all gather together and truly co-create change together, in the transparency of the no ego light.

Respectfully and Acceptingly,

Steph / Stephen / Steve : )

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-narcissists-need-to-suck-the-goodness-out-of-you/#comment-1233917 Sun, 15 Mar 2020 00:05:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7925#comment-1233917 In reply to Dan.

Hi Dan,

You are very welcome and that’s wonderful that you are on your way to healing.

Much love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

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