Comments on: Why People Fall For Narcissists More Than Once https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 13 Dec 2021 00:03:25 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260535 Mon, 13 Dec 2021 00:03:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260535 In reply to nath.

Hi Nath,

please know when you claim your truth, power and soverignity without fear then these people truly have no power over you.

They feed off our fears.

Stand true, and honour you. Put that in front of “potential fallout”, knowing right action is simply and powerfully your soul right, and you will be free.

Narcissistic abuse is a spiritual soul war – first and foremost. Freedom comes from choosing yourself and YOUR truth and walking it.

I hope that this helps.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: nath https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260446 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 11:54:01 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260446 Hi Melanie,
thank you so much for this episode!
For the moment I’m in a relationship with an altruistic N who is my therapist and a collegue. We also live near each other. He knows everything about ex N and my fears…I thought I was safe is this professional relationship…
He also tries to make me very dependent on him by prescribing sleep medication because I have severe sleep problems.
When I knew it is really not okay is when he started to trigger me with fears he knows I have: the smearing by ex which made me move…
I’m working on my inner issues but I also wonder how I can step out this contact with minimal fallout?
I’m planning to search an other therapist and having a conversation to let him know how grateful I am for the help, support but that because of specific health issues I would like to go to another therapist…which is actually true.
Could this work? I’m so afraid that he’s going to harm me when I break the contact…

Thank you very much

Love

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260420 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 02:44:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260420 In reply to Peter.

You are so welcome as always Peter,

thank you for your comment and many blessings to you.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260419 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 02:42:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260419 In reply to Tracey.

It’s my pleasure Tracey,

Bless!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260418 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 02:42:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260418 In reply to Mary.

I could not agree more Mary!

Bullseye!!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260417 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 02:40:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260417 In reply to Inner West Lady.

Hi Inner West Lady,

what we find in our wonderful community is that the inner shifting work is the most powerful not just for ourselves, but to restore healthy relationships with our children who have been alienated from us.

If you google my name plus “our children” and “child alienation” this will help you understand this on a deeper level. Also, I highly recommend checking out NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp and or learning more about the inner shift work that creates and unlocks literal healing and miracles in all areas of life (including with children) by coming into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I hope that this helps

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260416 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 02:34:32 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260416 In reply to Esme.

Hi Esme,

sending many blessings nad continued healing to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260415 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 02:32:09 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260415 In reply to Mario.

Hi Mario,

the answer to this is healing.

I thoroughly recommend NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

It detangles it all and frees you.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Man from California https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-people-fall-for-narcissists-more-than-once/#comment-1260411 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 23:00:50 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=10349#comment-1260411 Um, there IS a “narcs create other narcs” pathway that is all-too-true: that is when narcissistic parents (often one is, the other is a loving, generous, good-parent, yet suffering spouse / partner) actually raise a child into what becomes a narc in adulthood. I mean, narcs have to “start” somewhere!

I do believe it to be quite rare where two adults who dance the dance of narcissism, one clearly a narc, the other clearly their target, actually “turns” another person into a narc. Usually, it’s a hot mess of devastation and catastrophe after the discard and “you are not a narc,” rather you have experienced the full wrath of one.

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