Comments on: Why Unconditional Love Is The Key To A Fulfilling And Joyful Life https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 09 Oct 2024 12:13:20 +0000 hourly 1 By: Kimberly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-1185378 Tue, 25 Jun 2019 03:28:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-1185378 In reply to Bren.

Unconditionally love this video. Haha! I have never regretted anything I have done out of love or kindness. I will always love my NPD husband. I will always pray he finds peace here or after life. But did I unconditionally love myself? If so, I would have freed her from the relationship in a gentle loving kind way. Nourished her right to be free. Held her hand as she adjusted to her new life. By tapping into God’s Love all things are possible. Thanks Mel! Much love. Will watch this again many times no doubt!

]]> By: Eugene https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-1095962 Tue, 04 Sep 2018 06:52:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-1095962 Hmmm Melanie, like like I’ve loads of work to do, my background from a church where the basic belief is you have got to love and win others irrespective of their beliefs. What I ask is, how do I love when am empty, but your talk has affirmed what my inner belief system tells and usually makes me feel selfish.
Now I know me first to healthly love others with respect!
Thank you!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-985950 Sat, 13 Jan 2018 04:54:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-985950 In reply to Sonia Gale.

Hi Sonia,

that is wonderful that this resonates with you, and I am so happy for you that healing is coming into focus.

Wishing you many blessings.

Mel xo

]]> By: Sonia Gale https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-985554 Thu, 11 Jan 2018 12:40:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-985554 This makes so much sense Melanie. I had spent a lifetime ‘giving to get’ and listening to this has really helped me learn the concept of unconditional love. I’m persevering through NARP to get rid of my co-dependent tendencies and it is hard work. It’s taking time to work through all my childhood issues and establish some boundaries because at the moment it still feels a bit alien to me as I was brought up that putting up boundaries = disobedience, punishable by instant rejection.

I love these videos, they really do help. Listening through this one I realised just how much I was caught up in the ‘give to get’ way of life and also how much I threw my toys straight of the pram if I didn’t get the response I needed and expected! I will listen to this a few times because this is obviously an area I need to focus on. Thank you Melanie!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-945338 Tue, 07 Nov 2017 08:01:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-945338 In reply to Vanessa.

Hi Vanessa,

that is wonderful and I am so pleased this has helped!

Mel xo

]]> By: Vanessa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-945255 Tue, 07 Nov 2017 02:26:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-945255 Wow thanks for this makes so much sens to me. I am on journey to finally realizing that I am the only one who can take care of me and love me unconditionally and that I don’t need that from anyone else. It has been a long road but finally feel I am getting glimpses of loving me and not expecting that from others. Putting myself first and telling others how I feel and how I will only tolerate being treated. This video has been so informative and makes so much sense to me thanks Melanie 🙂

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-913994 Wed, 23 Aug 2017 08:59:13 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-913994 In reply to NickyButterfly.

It’s my pleasure Nicky.

You are doing so well!

Bless 🙂

Mel xo

]]> By: NickyButterfly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-913635 Tue, 22 Aug 2017 08:06:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-913635 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi Melanie, thank you for your encouragement ⚘. Just a few days later I feel a bit withdrawn (“curling up inside me in a corner”)…..but I know that this too shall pass!! I can’t give up on this healing journey….I must continue and will do so, even though I feel fragile today ?.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/why-unconditional-love-is-the-key-to-a-fulfilling-and-joyful-life/#comment-913507 Mon, 21 Aug 2017 23:58:36 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5112#comment-913507 In reply to Suzanne Tyrpak.

Hi Suzanne,

you are most welcome 🙂

I love your shift and practice into radical acceptance – it is relief!

I agree – these stories would be great 🙂

Thank you for your lovely, warm post.

Mel xo

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