Comments on: Why You Can’t Stop Sleeping With The Narcissist

By: Elizabeth C. Johnson

Elizabeth C. Johnson — Fri, 12 Jun 2020 02:57:41 +0000

I was married many years to a narcissist, and found the courage to leave. After some years I became engaged to another “I’m always right and you aren’t” guy. I have not been doing the things I enjoy and am good at. Also, I Have stayed away from dating. Constant criticism is not the way I want to live. I also have two male relatives who treat me as unintelligent, although they know better. They do not love me and I need to accept that.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 28 May 2020 08:32:18 +0000

In reply to Alisha.

Hi Alisha,

If ever in doubt work on Module 1 or the Source Healing and Resolution Module. Also Module 2 and 9 can be very effective for disconnecting.

Also please know that if you are a Gold NARP member that we can offer you help and suggestions, always, in the Narp Member’s Forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

I hope that this helps

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Alisha

Alisha — Wed, 27 May 2020 11:44:35 +0000

What modules do you recommended to help with this?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 14 Apr 2020 06:03:42 +0000

In reply to Mary Charles.

Hi Mary,

I am so pleased they resonate with you.

Mary, they go through this process because that is what a damaged unconscious person does … females do it identically too.

Wishing you all the best in your healing journey.

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Mary Charles

Mary Charles — Mon, 13 Apr 2020 16:10:10 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. Great and freeing insights. I was in a two year, writing relationship with a prisoner in whom I started to detect narc behavior with classic progression. Even before any physical meeting with this person, I was warned it was becoming addictive and went no contact. There is no trying to explain yourself to a malignant narcissist, or reveal it to them what you know about them. After all the dust settled, I felt a profound sadness and compassion for him, in that, he might never know his underlying wounds and far more damaging, will go on and on from woman to unaware women. I started this healing back in 11/2019 and you are right , now we have plenty of time and privacy at home to journey into and through and out of the bondage. My question to you, Melanie, is: Why, psychologically speaking, do most male narcissists progress so predictably through the stages of their denial: love bombing, getting supply, devaluing their supplier, discard and the smear campaign?

By: Els

Els — Mon, 13 Apr 2020 08:51:29 +0000

In reply to Lala. 👍👏🌅

By: Brittany

Brittany — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 17:52:52 +0000

Hi Meline,
Thank you for sharing this video. I was hesitant to watch it because I know it would bring reality to what I was just dealing with in my past relationship. We had just broke up before the covid, and I was a mess! I some how came across your videos and I’m thankful I did. He totally discarded me when I caught him lying about another woman, and yes he would use sex as a tool. I always felt empty..after a 10 month relationship it was hard. I look back now and realize how much he wasnt capable of love. He told me he might not love me, that he didnt ache for me and that he didnt get excited about me. But would make me believe it was the best sex he ever had. But he even once told me the best sex he ever had with his ex is when she thought he was cheating on her. He brought his ex up all the time. I realize I was just being used as the companionship he wish he had with his ex. Thank you for your videos and help 🙂

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 03:06:21 +0000

In reply to Col.

Hi Col,

Gosh that does conjure up very funny images!

It’s so true that when we are around sick people we get very sick. I am so pleased that you went No Contact and that you have been working NARP very successfully.

I’m so happy for you Dear Man and thank you for your inspiration to many.

Much Love

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 03:03:13 +0000

In reply to Tasha.

Hi Tasha,

yes sweetheart it is a really big process doing this. Kudos to you for having the courage to be the generative force of the truth of your life.

It’s really is a wonderful reprieve that he is in jail, and this gives you the time and the opportunity to truly turn inwards to heal you. That is the real way that you will get emancipation from this.

Tasha, I can’t recommend NARP enough http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp to help you bypass the logical mind, go straight into your Inner Being and find and release the traumas that have been keeping you hooked up, not just to him, but also in these painful relationship programs.

Then with the modules in NARP you will be able to shift out this trauma, reprogram it and emerge not only free from the urges to reconnect with him, but also evolved beyond these painful patterns.

If you want to learn more about NARP, then please come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp to experience a Quanta Freedom Healing directly within your Inner Being to understand and more importantly feel what NARP can do for you.

You are so welcome Tasha. I hope that this helps and sending you oodles of love and strength.

It is your time to heal

Mel 🙏💕💚