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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2020 02:18:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1238331&quot;&gt;Kelly&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kelly,

You are very welcome and I&#039;m so pleased that I can help.

Bless you 

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1238331">Kelly</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kelly,</p>
<p>You are very welcome and I&#8217;m so pleased that I can help.</p>
<p>Bless you </p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Kelly		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kelly]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2020 00:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Melanie thank you. You’re my favorite narc abuse healer out there. I am a HSP empath with a CN mother &#038; sister and an Aspie hubby with narc traits. Been married almost 25 years. I am looking forward to learning more from you. Gratitude!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melanie thank you. You’re my favorite narc abuse healer out there. I am a HSP empath with a CN mother &amp; sister and an Aspie hubby with narc traits. Been married almost 25 years. I am looking forward to learning more from you. Gratitude!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2020 03:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233511&quot;&gt;Kathryn&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Kathryn,

that&#039;s wonderful that you are so dedicated to NARP!

You are so welcome Dear Lady.

Love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💕💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233511">Kathryn</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Kathryn,</p>
<p>that&#8217;s wonderful that you are so dedicated to NARP!</p>
<p>You are so welcome Dear Lady.</p>
<p>Love and blessings to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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		By: Kathryn		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathryn]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2020 03:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Melanie,
I always look forward to my NARP work in the evening. I usually try to begin with a Video, and another at the end or the same one after I finish my Module. THIS particular video was one of the most potent and life changing. I wrote down &quot;the lesson,&quot; word for word in my NARP notebook. I will be reading that paragraph daily as I continue to cope with the anguishing pain left by my Cover Narcissist, a gift she gave to me. THANK YOU for everything you endured in order to help the greater population of Empaths into healing. 
Cloud Woman]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Melanie,<br />
I always look forward to my NARP work in the evening. I usually try to begin with a Video, and another at the end or the same one after I finish my Module. THIS particular video was one of the most potent and life changing. I wrote down &#8220;the lesson,&#8221; word for word in my NARP notebook. I will be reading that paragraph daily as I continue to cope with the anguishing pain left by my Cover Narcissist, a gift she gave to me. THANK YOU for everything you endured in order to help the greater population of Empaths into healing.<br />
Cloud Woman</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 23:14:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233193&quot;&gt;Nath&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Nath,

You are very welcome.

Please do take this to the NARP forum where it can be dissected and prompt suggestions in regard to the details.

It is too difficult to have those two-way conversations on this forum.

Mel 🙏💕💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233193">Nath</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Nath,</p>
<p>You are very welcome.</p>
<p>Please do take this to the NARP forum where it can be dissected and prompt suggestions in regard to the details.</p>
<p>It is too difficult to have those two-way conversations on this forum.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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		By: Nath		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nath]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 09:58:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233103&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you so much Melanie.
It was more that I’m wondering if my lesson is to dear to have lyvown company? To be my own source ?
It seems like since the N is in the same workfield (everybody knows everybody) that there seem to be Samir campaigns otherwise I just attract the same persons. You spoke about 3 ways in the workplace: leaving, adapting or calling the N out. I’m home now so I need to decide what I will do?
Do you have any advice around this?
Thanks!’
And I will take it to the NArP forum too.
Thank you!
Blessings]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233103">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you so much Melanie.<br />
It was more that I’m wondering if my lesson is to dear to have lyvown company? To be my own source ?<br />
It seems like since the N is in the same workfield (everybody knows everybody) that there seem to be Samir campaigns otherwise I just attract the same persons. You spoke about 3 ways in the workplace: leaving, adapting or calling the N out. I’m home now so I need to decide what I will do?<br />
Do you have any advice around this?<br />
Thanks!’<br />
And I will take it to the NArP forum too.<br />
Thank you!<br />
Blessings</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2020 23:07:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233080&quot;&gt;nath&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Nath,

it is my pleasure.

I really suggestive you, because you are a NARP member, that you come into the NARP members forum www.melanietoniaevans.com/member so that we can help guide you with this.

If you are not a gold NARP member, then email one of my lovely team at support@melanietoniaevans.com so that we can get you upgraded with access to the member&#039;s forum.

It is there that we can deeply investigate and help you with your shifts to get aligned with what you do want to create, which is healthy empowered work with others.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1233080">nath</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Nath,</p>
<p>it is my pleasure.</p>
<p>I really suggestive you, because you are a NARP member, that you come into the NARP members forum <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member</a> so that we can help guide you with this.</p>
<p>If you are not a gold NARP member, then email one of my lovely team at <a href="mailto:support@melanietoniaevans.com">support@melanietoniaevans.com</a> so that we can get you upgraded with access to the member&#8217;s forum.</p>
<p>It is there that we can deeply investigate and help you with your shifts to get aligned with what you do want to create, which is healthy empowered work with others.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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		By: nath		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[nath]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2020 13:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

Thank you so much for this article.
For the moment i really experience a severe breakdown with very strong feelings/beliefs emerging.
It feels like dying sometimes, like my heart is pulled out. 
It is the second time now that on the workplace I&#039;m confronted with N abuse. And it starts every time when my agenda is full (i&#039;m self-employed) then the envy starts and people start to behave nasty. I left the first workplace and know i&#039;m about to doing it in this workplace but it scares indeed and I wonder do i get the lesson this time since i nearly have life force left.
it feels like working for other people seems to come from anxiety, i don&#039;t to be independent exN and then I really want a job...but this is sucking me dry and i start doubting myself. I had my own practice before (together with exN) then I pulled the carpet from under my feet but it seems that my lesson is to trust myself and dearing to have my own business. Does that makes sense? It&#039;s the second time I try to solve something by working for other people and the first experience was tuff but it becomes worse (this time the contract is more binding) and i cannot afford to become sick. I feel the pressure of having lesss then a year to be up and running since then a payment for ex stops. But the more I try to rush myself in cutting the financial ties the more other persons come into the plot who act as abusers...so something is still not clear yet...I do a lot of module work and it helpes but can you give me a clue what my lesson can be here?
thank you very much!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>Thank you so much for this article.<br />
For the moment i really experience a severe breakdown with very strong feelings/beliefs emerging.<br />
It feels like dying sometimes, like my heart is pulled out.<br />
It is the second time now that on the workplace I&#8217;m confronted with N abuse. And it starts every time when my agenda is full (i&#8217;m self-employed) then the envy starts and people start to behave nasty. I left the first workplace and know i&#8217;m about to doing it in this workplace but it scares indeed and I wonder do i get the lesson this time since i nearly have life force left.<br />
it feels like working for other people seems to come from anxiety, i don&#8217;t to be independent exN and then I really want a job&#8230;but this is sucking me dry and i start doubting myself. I had my own practice before (together with exN) then I pulled the carpet from under my feet but it seems that my lesson is to trust myself and dearing to have my own business. Does that makes sense? It&#8217;s the second time I try to solve something by working for other people and the first experience was tuff but it becomes worse (this time the contract is more binding) and i cannot afford to become sick. I feel the pressure of having lesss then a year to be up and running since then a payment for ex stops. But the more I try to rush myself in cutting the financial ties the more other persons come into the plot who act as abusers&#8230;so something is still not clear yet&#8230;I do a lot of module work and it helpes but can you give me a clue what my lesson can be here?<br />
thank you very much!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2020 22:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1232867&quot;&gt;Lorraine&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Lorraine,

thank you! Lorraine, it is so true that when we have limitations and blocks and frustrations continually appearing that this can be such a push to turn inwards and do the inner work.

I&#039;m so pleased that you feel heard and supportive in this community, and I know how much healing there is here for you.

Have you come into one of my free webinar shipped www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar to find out more about the NARP program www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp which is the system that myself and so many others have used incredibly effectively to heal and break free into wonderful lives.

That is my highest and strongest suggestion for you to breakthrough and heal for real!

Sending you so much love and healing

Mel 🙏💕💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-biggest-breakdowns-are-your-biggest-lessons/#comment-1232867">Lorraine</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Lorraine,</p>
<p>thank you! Lorraine, it is so true that when we have limitations and blocks and frustrations continually appearing that this can be such a push to turn inwards and do the inner work.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so pleased that you feel heard and supportive in this community, and I know how much healing there is here for you.</p>
<p>Have you come into one of my free webinar shipped <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar</a> to find out more about the NARP program <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a> which is the system that myself and so many others have used incredibly effectively to heal and break free into wonderful lives.</p>
<p>That is my highest and strongest suggestion for you to breakthrough and heal for real!</p>
<p>Sending you so much love and healing</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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