Comments on: Your Relationship with Money and Financial Abuse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 07 Jul 2023 08:42:05 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274496 Tue, 04 Oct 2022 00:53:13 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274496 In reply to Daphne.

Hi Daphne,

it’s my pleasure.

I look forward to being with you this weekend too, and co-creating your financial breakthroughs!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274494 Tue, 04 Oct 2022 00:51:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274494 In reply to Laura.

Hi Laura,

I truly don’t believe in God judging another for a misquote.

Just as I wouldn’t you.

What I am interested is in people being filled with light and healing their lives.

Respectfully

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Laura https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274459 Mon, 03 Oct 2022 00:26:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274459 In reply to Tara.

Thank you Tara. Melanie, I love you and I’m so grateful for the work you do and the healing it brings to so many. But yes, as Tara pointed out…the Bible DOES NOT say that! It says the LOVE of money is evil. I understand we all make mistakes..but placing blame (at least in part) and basically stating the Bible Actually teaches this mistaken belief is not cool! I believe a correction in this particular Thriver Episode is in order and in need of editing. I think that’s important not to misguide someone..especially someone whose already filled with enough mistaken beliefs…just be careful you have your facts..you are someone I love and admire so very much…and I know what the Bible says about money..but there may be those who dont…I hope that you will consider making a correction. Looking forward to the upcoming event Melanie. And please know this was all shared in love..I just think it’s Pretty important not to misquote the Bible.

]]> By: Daphne https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274447 Sun, 02 Oct 2022 20:13:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274447 Thank you for putting so much clarity into the subject of finances and narcissistic abuse. The giving away of my power through letting others take over my finances kept me in victim for many years… a repetition of my mothers life. Now I am in charge of my finances and have one final push to remove the narcissistic shareholder from my company and be free of them.
A long life of giving to get!

Looking forward to Saturday….I have not done so many courses in my life!

]]> By: Uscha https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274440 Sun, 02 Oct 2022 13:50:22 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274440 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hey Mel, ich schreibe aus Germany…
Weiß nicht, wie ich anders Kontakt aufnehmen soll, als einfach quer einzusteigen… und zusammenhangslos auf deine Antwort an Peter zu schreiben…

Ich drehe hier komplett am Rad!
Kämpfe seit Jahren, um zu genesen, von emotionalem Mißbrauch…

Habe dein Buch gelesen, was es auf Deutsch gibt…
Kann leider nicht an deinen Programmen teil nehmen, da mein Englisch begrenzt ist…

Hier bei uns gibt es keine Unterstützung und zu wenig Wissen, über emotionalen Mißbrauch!

War 2 Jahre in Traumatherapie und meine Therapeutin sagte mir damals, ich solle mir ein anderes Hobby suchen, als diesen Mann, der mich traumatisierte, oder eben alte Wunden aufriß!

Ich kämpfe seit Jahren!
Komme da einfach nicht raus!
Konsequenz hilft mir nicht!
Yoga, Meditation, Qigong…
Lesen von 100 Büchern, über Trauma!

Der Kopf hat alles verstanden… Aber mein Körper antwortet mit Zittern… Immer wieder out of order!!!!

Habe eine liebe Familie, liebe Freunde, ein sicheres zu Hause!

Aber das Trauma verfolgt mich!
Der Schmerz geht einfach nicht weg!

Jeder Tag, ist wie Überleben!!!

Leben ist das nicht!!

Will kein Opfer sein und fühle mich auch nicht so! Schaffe so viel alleine!

Aber ich habe Albträume!
Schaffe es nicht den Narzissten zu sperren und jedes Mal wenn er mich wieder kontaktiert… von Liebe schwafelt … ist es retraumatisierend!
Bin seit 3 Jahren von ihm weg…
3 verdammte Jahre!

Bin komplett am Ende!

Mein Umfeld spricht von konsequent sein!

Wie schaffe ich es!
Es fühlt sich an, wie Heroin!!!

Wie ein Horrortrip, der nicht aufhören will!

Bin 66 Jahre!!!

10 Jahre ging das, mit diesem Wesen!
Davor war ich ein ganz normaler Mensch!

Lese ich mir die Berichte von dir und die Kommentare durch… einleuchtend… alle auf einem guten Weg…

Trete auf der Stelle!
Meine Kraft ist am Ende!!!

Liebe Grüße

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274420 Sun, 02 Oct 2022 00:23:12 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274420 In reply to Kondwani.

Kondwani,

I ADORE hanging out with you in Quantum expansion!

Yaya! And thank you so much for your incredibly generous contribution!

Much Love back to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274419 Sun, 02 Oct 2022 00:19:59 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274419 In reply to Elizabeth.

Hi Elizabeth,

it’s my pleasure and I hope that you can come into the Prosperity workshop with me, so that I can help you release and go FREE from these programs!

https://www.youcanthriveprogram.com/quantum-prosperity-signup

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274418 Sun, 02 Oct 2022 00:16:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274418 In reply to Kat.

Hi Kat,

that’s awesome, please know how welcome you are, and I can’t wait to serve you in there!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Elizabeth https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/your-relationship-with-money-and-financial-abuse/#comment-1274412 Sat, 01 Oct 2022 22:27:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=12115#comment-1274412 “I had men that were not my rock who would look after me financially and drive the bus. They were actually the hammer that gave me the results of my fears.“

“…unless I’m granting you all I’ve got, well then, you’re not going to be healthy enough to love me and approve of me”.

“It’s your duty to give me the money to have what I want.”

“…entitled men because we were trying to earn their love by giving them everything we had.”

I can’t count how many times I have listened to this. Every sentence speaks to me on a level of un fathomable depth and weight. I have never heard nor read anything so concise and direct.

Thank-you for put words to the dark corners that I am trying to shine light on.

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