Comments on: 10 Things To Look Forward To After Narcissistic Abuse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 24 Apr 2020 12:11:06 +0000 hourly 1 By: Faye k https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1236466 Fri, 24 Apr 2020 12:11:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1236466 I love watching this over again.. amazing .. I seem to get drawn to the admiration of the Up levelling you have on letting them go and have their level of energy that they are attracted to and bring it back to self … this will include the flying monkeys that support the abuser …

]]> By: B https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1203274 Thu, 29 Aug 2019 15:30:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1203274 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

This work delivers. If you work Narp, the blessings are way more than I could ever have dreamt. Love love living this way now…..NARP NEVER FAILS YOU. I work it whenever needed, self partner as a way of life now. It catapults one to a level that makes living life now just wonderful. Yes I have triggers, yes I work amodule if needs, yes Ive got to go within every time Im feeling off about something or a person……soooo grateful for Narp…..its amazing just how it brings me to morespace within. Things that bothered me dont even crossmy mind anymore. Work it because it never fails you. Narp truly is my best friend for life

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1175103 Sun, 19 May 2019 03:47:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1175103 In reply to Kim Vaughan.

Hi Kim,

You are very welcome and power to you sweetheart. Your true life awaits you with open arms.

Love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Kim Vaughan https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1175031 Sat, 18 May 2019 11:49:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1175031 Cant Thankyou enough for these 10 points.
You have given me Value and Strength. I left him today taking only my clothes. I cant beginnto tell you the many Blessings coming to me.
A Beautiful home to stay peacefully by myself for next 6 months given me for $50- pw
The Friend s who have rallied to Help me is Unbelievable.
ACCEPTANCE truly is the Key. It Really Works n it radiates Love n Freedom from within.
With all my Heart. Thankyou so much. Kimxxx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1175008 Sat, 18 May 2019 03:09:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1175008 In reply to Dreama1.

It’s my pleasure Dreama1.

Many blessings to you.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Dreama1 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1174954 Fri, 17 May 2019 16:24:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1174954 This was a fantastic gift! Thank you Melanie!

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1174906 Fri, 17 May 2019 08:21:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1174906 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Thank you so much for your support and insights!! <3 I look forward to the video!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1174846 Fri, 17 May 2019 01:29:31 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1174846 In reply to Anna.

Hi Anna,

Please google my name plus dating and you will find a lot of helpful resources on this topic.

Also I have a video coming out next week which is all about this.

Personally the missing in action thing is not a good sign. If a man is dating you on the premise of checking you out to be in a committed relationship with him then he would be present, and available.

My statement to him would be ‘I’m
Sorry but this is not the dating experience I’m interested in. I’m looking for someone who is serious, putting in an effort and available.’ Then let go.

Of course ‘being available’ doesn’t mean being hounded and seeing someone every day. But an interested man should be pursuing, organising next dates and stepping up to court you.

In no way should you be initiating the pursuing. That’s a pattern we as women can fall into trying to make unavailable men available to love us.

If he is not pursuing you healthily with integrity and reliability then move on and heal within whatever needs your attention in this. My resources explain more.

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

If he isn’t he’s not the right man.

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/10-things-to-look-forward-to-after-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1174792 Thu, 16 May 2019 17:07:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6787#comment-1174792 Dear Melanie,

“we no longer accept bad behaviour from toxic people”. Now here comes sticky question. The discard by the n was 2,5 years ago. Now finally I feel like I could let a man into my life again and I’ve actually met a new man. Yes, I’ve done healing so am I not especially concerned or afraid to meet a new n, but sure I would be super frustrated. It feels like…I wanna leave the circus to the clowns!
This man has been somewhat romantic, saying beautiful things to me. I’m like yeah, is this lovebombing? But I think “all” men do that in the beginning, I mean showing this kind of sweet behaviour. So that itself doesn’t “prove” anything. Sometimes I ask something (by email, message) and get no answer. he can “ignore” me completely, like 1-3 days. I already start to feel alarmed, is this some silent treatment.
So, like you said, I will not accept toxic people into my life. If indeed this man is a n, I run away and do not look back! But maybe it’s all my imagination. If he feels strange sometimes, unsure or withdrawing, it could be also because of my “funky” energy, negativity, being suspicious. Maybe I could just him a chance, and more importantly, give myself a chance! But the questions, at what point I can know for sure that a person is reliable, genuine, and not “acting”?
I’m somehow prone to very quickly to judge him (or any man!) toxic, but what if he is just a normal human being? What if he can’t always communicate with me etc., if he is simply busy with life, work etc. in just that moment? I mean, that I’m assuming things that aren’t true, missinterpreting situations?

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