Comments on: 3 Ways To Get Any Narcissist To Leave You Alone

By: Melanie

Melanie — Thu, 17 Jul 2025 09:17:41 +0000

my name is Melanie aswell . I believe I was brought your page for a reason. I feel I always try to explain myself try to keep a peaceful home. buy my partner always reacts feels like I’m on egg shells. thankyou for helping me see a way to empower myself so I no longer give my energy and attention where I’m not understood or valued

By: Jamie

Jamie — Thu, 12 May 2022 10:38:54 +0000

In reply to Serena. I have that same issue, my childrens father claims to have a black witch. He sends me videos of voodoo witches cursing people. Tells me how he’s put spells on me and the girls. He’s really a sick sick person and his mother is more sick than him. He’s an extension of her. They double team me.

By: max

max — Sat, 11 Sep 2021 22:45:34 +0000

In reply to Serena. Trust and give your life to Jesus Serena, acccept him as your Lord and Saviour and YOU will be free! God will release you!

By: l

Mon, 12 Jul 2021 02:34:14 +0000

None of these experiences are similar to mine. The narcissist in my life is my adult child. I allowed the narc back in my home 7 times as an adult. The last time it was so severe I had to get the police and a lawyer involved. My doctor said I was headed for a stroke or heart attack if I didn’t get the person out of my house. I had to do a formal eviction. I started going to Al-Anon and started treatment with a therapist for PTSD. He gave me a clear understanding of what a narcissist is and does. The adult child insisted on a large amount of money to leave. I gave in to the extortion because of a grandchild involved. It has been years with no contact and I have been living a better life.
Recently, the adult child decided to contact friends and family and restart the lies once told by them about everything being my fault. When I was contacted by friends, I will admit to being triggered once again. I refuse to go into the truth with others to counteract the lies.
I pray every night for the happiness and safety of my child and grandchild. I know however, that were they to show up on my doorstep, I would need to follow the advice of the therapist and give them five minutes to leave the property or I would call the police. It is a horrible way to live my life, but I need to be safe physically and emotionally.
Your videos and information are terrific, but nowhere have I seen others dealing with an adult child narcissist. It is a very different, very sad, situation.

By: Luckily

Luckily — Sun, 11 Jul 2021 13:57:12 +0000

The narcissist might smear and try to pull a bunch of crazy stuff in your life, but I know for a fact others have had similar experiences with them. At a certain point you realize despite the narcissist’s proclamations, we can’t all be the crazy ones. And they do sooner or later make out that someone else around them is crazy or unstable or lying. Riiiight.. except that we know it’s a pattern of behavior for them to be embroiled in drama where they constantly try to be assert dominance, push people into crisis while trying to seem like a queen bee with sycophants and followers and other like minded dipshits, yet we know that that nonsense is unbecoming behavior for any professional or intelligent woman. I know now several people who’ve been labeled “crazy” and devalued or discarded while dealing with their crazy town crap. Of course we know the truth about their tantrums, emotional immaturity, lies, and outburst of violence of multiple cruelties to others including animals and using children as fodder and personal armor to protect themselves from being found out.

By: Tony

Tony — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 16:37:22 +0000

Thanks for sharing this. It took me about four years to actually realize what had been done to me (and I always considered myself an intelligent person, and that nobody could control me). I used trial and error, trying to figure out what would work in my life. I had no idea there were so many resources out there.

I had stumbled upon blocking my ex as a means of feeling better. Then it became an almost permanent thing, because I recognized the relapses if I made contact or tried to have any kind of conversation. It took about four years of continuous blocking and just completely shutting myself down and rebuilding myself from the ground up to get back to “me”.

I so wish I had known these things early on. It would have gone much faster to have help instead of fumbling through it all by myself. But I’m on the other side and so much the better for it!

Thanks for reaching out to help others. It’s a much longer journey for people on their own.

By: Horizon

Horizon — Tue, 25 Aug 2020 09:06:01 +0000

You get less of me and my inner being gets more!

By: Christine

Christine — Mon, 25 May 2020 22:34:51 +0000

He gets less of me, and my inner being gets more!

By: Lynn M Bolton

Lynn M Bolton — Tue, 21 Apr 2020 15:36:59 +0000

I’m 50 years old and I’ve been living with a narcissist for a year now. I was married for 20 years and while my divorce was processing through the courts, I met this man who swept me off my feet. Problem #1, he owns his own business 1/2 a mile from my home and is very successful. Everyone in our community thinks he is the nicest person and rely’s on him for his expertise. He knows every cop, firefighter in our town and the list goes on. Problem #2, he has money, therefore can buy his way through any situation and uses it to his advantage. He bought me an engagement ring within 4 months of knowing him and that was the start of the control and extreme verbal abuse. I lost contact with most of my family and friends. I became his puppet. When he’s good, he’s great, when he’s not- the devil. Fast forward, last week, my 20 year old son could not hold it in anymore and had a breakdown from it all. He left my home and will not return due to the verbal abuse I have endured and he has listened to from his bedroom. He has a 15 year old son who stays here every other weekend. He made repairs to the home thinking we would live a long happy life here and now I cannot get him to move out because he wants all his money back. Also, he took every piece of jewelry he bought for me – all of it. He owns many properties and knows the laws about squatters rights/ eviction and the laws in the state of Pennsylvania. I’ve been taking you’re advice and have not spoken to him since my son left. I can feel he’s lost control over me and I’m hoping I can continue with this and break him down. I’ve actually gone to the park to walk (social distancing of course) to try and gain back some of my self esteem, strength and independence and it’s wonderful not to get 20 texts asking me what I’m doing and who I’m with. Before I met him, I was a very strong woman and now I feel like a wilted flower. I need help and I need him out of my home. I’m trying to stay strong, but I’m worried he will let this go on without a care in the world. I need my life back and my son!