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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-signs-you-are-going-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1204003&quot;&gt;Taylor Sager&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Taylor,

I have contacted support and they are gathering all of your details and contacts to work out what has taken place.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-signs-you-are-going-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1204003">Taylor Sager</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Taylor,</p>
<p>I have contacted support and they are gathering all of your details and contacts to work out what has taken place.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Sep 2019 21:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans,  I have been trying for over a year to receive your NARP Program,  to heal and recover.  There has been a terrible misunderstanding,  I have been the victim of a malignant narcissist for over 14 yrs.  I wanted to use your program to heal, but I got locked out.  The Malignant Narcisstic in my life is a cyberbully, and I had to change my email and password and name numerous times.  I would very much like to have access to the program NARP so that I can heal.  I did not know that trying to communicate with support would lead to my being pushed out.  Please do reconsider,  I have paid for this program to recover, and it would indeed be a blessing to my life.  I just listened to your 7 things that show growth, and I have been trying them.  I was being blocked from him, unable to receive your services that I paid for.   It is extremely important that I grow and change and heal.  This is the most important issue at hand.  I like listening to your youtube programs, and I believe that the modules can be of great help to me.  Please do send them to me, so that I may also heal.   I need to learn how to feel the feelings in my body and release the traumas, to grow spiritually.  If you feel that I should not be able to utilize your program.  Please do refund me in full for I paid for this program.  I hope that you will see to it that I am able to receive it and use it.  A survivor of Narcisstic Abuse.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melanie Tonia Evans,  I have been trying for over a year to receive your NARP Program,  to heal and recover.  There has been a terrible misunderstanding,  I have been the victim of a malignant narcissist for over 14 yrs.  I wanted to use your program to heal, but I got locked out.  The Malignant Narcisstic in my life is a cyberbully, and I had to change my email and password and name numerous times.  I would very much like to have access to the program NARP so that I can heal.  I did not know that trying to communicate with support would lead to my being pushed out.  Please do reconsider,  I have paid for this program to recover, and it would indeed be a blessing to my life.  I just listened to your 7 things that show growth, and I have been trying them.  I was being blocked from him, unable to receive your services that I paid for.   It is extremely important that I grow and change and heal.  This is the most important issue at hand.  I like listening to your youtube programs, and I believe that the modules can be of great help to me.  Please do send them to me, so that I may also heal.   I need to learn how to feel the feelings in my body and release the traumas, to grow spiritually.  If you feel that I should not be able to utilize your program.  Please do refund me in full for I paid for this program.  I hope that you will see to it that I am able to receive it and use it.  A survivor of Narcisstic Abuse.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Aug 2019 17:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mel, 

I was on the fence about investing in the  NARP program since I have gotten a lot better using Dr. Joe Dispenza&#039;s meditations. A year ago, I was at a very low point. I&#039;ve been divorced from my ex- narc for more than 7 years, and although I have done anything and everything that I could to heal myself, I was still feeling triggered  by him. And when I reacted to those triggers it was like my self took a back seat and I watched how all that I supposedly learned be thrown out of the window, and it was exhausting to come back and witness the mess I was afterwards. I could not understand why I was still being triggered, because I knew better from what I had learned. I was starting to manifest physical symptoms of the high stress of dealing with him:  high cholesterol, multiple stomach issues, headaches, depression. In my mind I was supposed to be happy since I was able to change my sons custody arrangement so they see their dad less than 50% of time, I was with a wonderful man but I still could not feel happy. That is when I discovered Dr. Dispenza and started feeling a lot better. I understood that I was in high beta stress and was unable to see possibilities because of all the beliefs that were still in my subconscious that kept manifesting a reality where my ex was big part of it. I started doing the meditations and the reactions became a lot less and I started to feel a lot better ... Then I found Mel and what she said resonated with me profoundly. Finally, I found someone that I understood what I was going through but with a vision of healing focused on self and in tune with what I was learning from Dr. Dispenza.  But I was on the fence because I thought it was going to be enough... funny story is that during one meditation I asked for a sign so that I knew I had connected to the infinite field where all possibilities exists and that it came in a way that I least expected. Then at that moment a blue butterfly popped up in my head. The next day I saw a blue butterfly on my Facebook feed. I was so happy then thinking that it was my sign... but today as I watched this video full of hope, I realize this was my sign. This is where God was guiding me. Your blue butterfly Mel has come for me and I am not longer on the fence because it can&#039;t be any more clear.  Today, I will become a member of the NARP community to truly and finally bring my healing home. I thought of sharing this with you and because I wanted to say thank you Mel for the beautiful service you are doing to the world !]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mel, </p>
<p>I was on the fence about investing in the  NARP program since I have gotten a lot better using Dr. Joe Dispenza&#8217;s meditations. A year ago, I was at a very low point. I&#8217;ve been divorced from my ex- narc for more than 7 years, and although I have done anything and everything that I could to heal myself, I was still feeling triggered  by him. And when I reacted to those triggers it was like my self took a back seat and I watched how all that I supposedly learned be thrown out of the window, and it was exhausting to come back and witness the mess I was afterwards. I could not understand why I was still being triggered, because I knew better from what I had learned. I was starting to manifest physical symptoms of the high stress of dealing with him:  high cholesterol, multiple stomach issues, headaches, depression. In my mind I was supposed to be happy since I was able to change my sons custody arrangement so they see their dad less than 50% of time, I was with a wonderful man but I still could not feel happy. That is when I discovered Dr. Dispenza and started feeling a lot better. I understood that I was in high beta stress and was unable to see possibilities because of all the beliefs that were still in my subconscious that kept manifesting a reality where my ex was big part of it. I started doing the meditations and the reactions became a lot less and I started to feel a lot better &#8230; Then I found Mel and what she said resonated with me profoundly. Finally, I found someone that I understood what I was going through but with a vision of healing focused on self and in tune with what I was learning from Dr. Dispenza.  But I was on the fence because I thought it was going to be enough&#8230; funny story is that during one meditation I asked for a sign so that I knew I had connected to the infinite field where all possibilities exists and that it came in a way that I least expected. Then at that moment a blue butterfly popped up in my head. The next day I saw a blue butterfly on my Facebook feed. I was so happy then thinking that it was my sign&#8230; but today as I watched this video full of hope, I realize this was my sign. This is where God was guiding me. Your blue butterfly Mel has come for me and I am not longer on the fence because it can&#8217;t be any more clear.  Today, I will become a member of the NARP community to truly and finally bring my healing home. I thought of sharing this with you and because I wanted to say thank you Mel for the beautiful service you are doing to the world !</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2019 04:29:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-signs-you-are-going-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1188963&quot;&gt;Camille opland&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Camille,

My heart goes out to you. It is horrific being with someone who will never trust you due to their pathological unresolvable insecurities. 

Please sign up to my 16 day free course. This will help you understand so much about the deeper layers going on and how to recover from this.

www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse and also if you google my name + coparenting and parallel parenting, you will find lots of my resources which cam assist you.

Please know there is a way through this.

Lots of love to you.

Mel 🙏💕♥️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-signs-you-are-going-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1188963">Camille opland</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Camille,</p>
<p>My heart goes out to you. It is horrific being with someone who will never trust you due to their pathological unresolvable insecurities. </p>
<p>Please sign up to my 16 day free course. This will help you understand so much about the deeper layers going on and how to recover from this.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse</a> and also if you google my name + coparenting and parallel parenting, you will find lots of my resources which cam assist you.</p>
<p>Please know there is a way through this.</p>
<p>Lots of love to you.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕♥️</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2019 00:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mel,
I love your videos, a beautifully concise delivery! I have recently singled myself from my narcissist. We had been together for 5 years, on and off about a 100 times. And after each break up he would let me know that even when we &#039;arent together we are together&#039; and I being so loyal to him believed it in a way...that was the relationship.  It was and still is, constant accusations of infidelity whether it be me spending time with my girlfriends or even going to the grocery store. In his mind I was always up to no good.  He even started to tell my family members that I was on drugs. I had to take a drug test to prove to my family that was not...lol. I hate to laugh bc at the time i was completely traumatized. I often treat my traumatic stories w a bit of humor makes  It easier to stomach.  What&#039;s worse is that I could write for days on all the stunts that he has pulled on me and the ones close to me. It became physical at times and I was making up lies about my black eye. I&#039;m ashamed of myself and I don&#039;t know if I trust myself not to go back because I have gone back about 100 times.  The problem is that i cant go no contact. We have a son together. He is 3 and has down syndrome. How do I begin my new life with myself when my narcissist will always be there?
Camille from Texas

Also, how does a person get that way? Are they born narcissistic abusers or are they made? how does this happen?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mel,<br />
I love your videos, a beautifully concise delivery! I have recently singled myself from my narcissist. We had been together for 5 years, on and off about a 100 times. And after each break up he would let me know that even when we &#8216;arent together we are together&#8217; and I being so loyal to him believed it in a way&#8230;that was the relationship.  It was and still is, constant accusations of infidelity whether it be me spending time with my girlfriends or even going to the grocery store. In his mind I was always up to no good.  He even started to tell my family members that I was on drugs. I had to take a drug test to prove to my family that was not&#8230;lol. I hate to laugh bc at the time i was completely traumatized. I often treat my traumatic stories w a bit of humor makes  It easier to stomach.  What&#8217;s worse is that I could write for days on all the stunts that he has pulled on me and the ones close to me. It became physical at times and I was making up lies about my black eye. I&#8217;m ashamed of myself and I don&#8217;t know if I trust myself not to go back because I have gone back about 100 times.  The problem is that i cant go no contact. We have a son together. He is 3 and has down syndrome. How do I begin my new life with myself when my narcissist will always be there?<br />
Camille from Texas</p>
<p>Also, how does a person get that way? Are they born narcissistic abusers or are they made? how does this happen?</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2019 06:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have been living with a High Functioning Narcissistic Alcoholic for 10+ yrs. I had enough of his dark side. I am afraid he will not leave me alone once I separate from him. He conned me before marriage by being loving, supportive and kind. Now, I know he thought I was weak ,because he knew I suffered from depression due to a car accident. I know he used that against me so I can do his bidding ! I did not realize, I was about to marry this type of Devil in disguise ! I Found out 2 yrs. after we were married that he was a closet drinker. (It was due to his Father leaving him &#038; the family.)
He also goes to bars as well !! I feel so used and drained emotionally, physically and mentally !! I still cannot believe that I was able to attract this type of person !!!! I am now interviewing Lawyers so I can take back my life from this madman !! I have a great support system. I am blessed to have that ! Thank you Melanie for your site . I have read all these heart breaking stories. I hope we can all truly find peace !   I decided to kick this Narcissistic Bad Ball out of my court for good !!     Thank you for helping me find my way out ! 

Blessings To All,
Mona Le]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been living with a High Functioning Narcissistic Alcoholic for 10+ yrs. I had enough of his dark side. I am afraid he will not leave me alone once I separate from him. He conned me before marriage by being loving, supportive and kind. Now, I know he thought I was weak ,because he knew I suffered from depression due to a car accident. I know he used that against me so I can do his bidding ! I did not realize, I was about to marry this type of Devil in disguise ! I Found out 2 yrs. after we were married that he was a closet drinker. (It was due to his Father leaving him &amp; the family.)<br />
He also goes to bars as well !! I feel so used and drained emotionally, physically and mentally !! I still cannot believe that I was able to attract this type of person !!!! I am now interviewing Lawyers so I can take back my life from this madman !! I have a great support system. I am blessed to have that ! Thank you Melanie for your site . I have read all these heart breaking stories. I hope we can all truly find peace !   I decided to kick this Narcissistic Bad Ball out of my court for good !!     Thank you for helping me find my way out ! </p>
<p>Blessings To All,<br />
Mona Le</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jun 2019 09:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-signs-you-are-going-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1176524&quot;&gt;valerie&lt;/a&gt;.

So glad you enjoyed it Val.

I sure loved putting it together too!

Mwah lovely lady

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-signs-you-are-going-to-recover-from-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1176524">valerie</a>.</p>
<p>So glad you enjoyed it Val.</p>
<p>I sure loved putting it together too!</p>
<p>Mwah lovely lady</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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