Comments on: 7 Things Never To Say To a Narcissist

By: J. Hamilton

J. Hamilton — Wed, 08 Apr 2026 01:13:40 +0000

I lived with him in marriage that was just like all of the above. I was taught as a child to meet people half way in relationships. I was 18 when I married. I didn’t know a narcissist existed. I spent 17 years in that marriage sobbing through most of it. He stole peoples stuff, he was a penis flasher, naked in windows, a forger and a phenomenal liar.I decided to divorce him but told no one of my plans.
My eyes were opened after he told me that now I knew he was a thief (the neighbour came looking for his new shovel and told me that there was a neighbourhood watch that was watching us) that he was going to continue doing that and he been cheating on me for a long time, now he was going to continue doing both things, l could just get used to it.
I decided then to leave and made my plans secretly and left as soon as I could. We lived in country and most of the time I had no money, no car and an infant to carry. If I walked the ten miles in to town. Narcissists keep you
Alone from having people in your life that might spill the beans on them.
To make a long story shorter, last year he rattled my chain again. He has a wife now but he still inserts himself into my life every few years via the offspring who are grown up now. It’s like he wants me to know he’s still there in the wings waiting. He emailed two of my sons and asked about me. Narcissists just don’t let go. I have been divorced 45 years now that contact is ridiculous. Both sons answered by blocking his emails. I have forgiven myself for marrying him. His crap is on him though not me. I am at peace.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 23:38:30 +0000

In reply to Sue.

Hi Sue,

thank you, I’m glad you love my work!

It means “doing what you know is right. Integrity, truth, honoring your soul truth.”

THe more NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp you do, the less lead by traumas (fear) and the easier it is to make decisions from a higher perspective of truth.

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 23:36:12 +0000

In reply to Jane M.

Hi Jane,

thank you for your lovely words sweet lady!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 09:45:30 +0000

In reply to James. This inspires me. Thank you.

By: Jane M

Jane M — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 04:22:37 +0000

Dear Mel,
A beautiful article, as always 💕
Thank you!

By: Sue

Sue — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 04:21:24 +0000

Hello Dear Melanie and others,
I love your education on this kind of stuff… So helpful, so important. I am wondering if your could provide a bit more understanding of what does “I’m just walking right action” actually mean?
Love your work and what you do. Big thanks!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 03:46:27 +0000

In reply to Peter.

So awesome Peter!

Well done 🙂

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Peter

Peter — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 03:30:49 +0000

Hi Melanie! Thanks again for the topic!
Telling her I’m sorry for something she didn’t like that I did gave her ammunition to be even more ruthless and reckless rowards me…🤮 that “proposition” was a no-win situation with the narcissist! I have stopped apologizing….❌
❤️🦋❤️

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 00:56:41 +0000

In reply to Kathleen.

Hi Kathleen,

it is my pleasure!

Just as a side note – please know time is not the healer, inner-healing is.

That what NARP is http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

The question is when do you want to start healing?

Mel 🙏💞🦋