Comments on: 7 Ways To Say No To People Who Won’t Respect Your Boundaries https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Thu, 24 Jun 2021 01:58:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253761 Thu, 24 Jun 2021 01:58:00 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253761 In reply to Caitilin de Berigny.

You are very welcome Caitilin,

thank you for your beautiful words

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Caitilin de Berigny https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253738 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 12:46:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253738 Loved your article, extremely helpful and insightful.

Thank you beautiful Mel for all the great work you are doing.

You helped me so much xx

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253733 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 05:56:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253733 In reply to Debby.

Hi Debby,

it is so true.

Playing it safe and keeping the peace doesn’t work anyway.

This is a necessary soul exchange opportunity to heal up into boundaries!

It really is a make or break deal!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253732 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 05:54:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253732 In reply to Anna.

It’s my pleasure Anna.

I really hope that this helps!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253731 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 05:54:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253731 In reply to James.

Hi James,

that is so great you have said “No” to that part of you.

Keep Thriving Dear Man!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253730 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 05:52:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253730 In reply to Sharron.

Hi Sharron,

when you heal on the inside, all heals – including financial health!

Just saying!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋

]]> By: Debby https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253727 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 02:08:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253727 Melanie, your articles are always so spot on, and seem to hit exactly when needed.
Its proof enough for me that you do know the cycle of narcissistic abuse. My last relationship ( 2003 – 2008) opened my eyes to narcissistic abuse and the smear campaign and cold discard, which I am still suffering 13 years later, and wondering if he will ever give up and go find a new victim. I have never recognized my “right” to establish boundaries, and I now realize this is because my mother is a narcissist. This article makes incredible sense to me. More times than not, even when you allow the manipulation in order “to keep the peace”, the peace does not last. when you burn out and take 5 minutes for yourself to recoup, you will be kicked to the curb, smeared, and cancelled. So everything you DID give will be for naught. Remember this everybody. Consider that if you sacrifice for someone you might end up being smeared and discarded anyway. This might help your decision in establishing boundaries.

]]> By: Anna https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253717 Mon, 21 Jun 2021 12:59:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253717 Melanie, I thank you for writing this blog post. I have always struggled with setting boundaries, especially with my children, only to end up giving in to “keep the peace.”

]]> By: James https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/7-ways-to-say-no-to-people-who-wont-respect-your-boundaries/#comment-1253714 Mon, 21 Jun 2021 12:46:05 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=9447#comment-1253714 Perhaps repentance is a poor choice of a description.
That Adam should have chosen not to believe Eve…gently instructed her of the lies misconceptions or false interpretations and simply helped Eve to understand that those emotions were unhealthy…
Biological suggestions…we need them…we also need discernment to clarify just what our emotions are telling us before we choose how we react…

Love to all..and to love others is easy..because it is just a free choice…
Yaya…there are some wonderful chemicals too!
It’s the “liking” that takes effort, earning and expecting trust…demanding integrity in ourselves and others to play the big game we play..
Whilst not selling out our values at any cost!

I so love the new me…I have freely chosen ever but of who I am!
What sucks is…I always have lived by the choices I made..and I made some really bad ones! All better now!

James

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