Comments on: 8 Mind Games All Narcissists Play

By: Faye

Faye — Tue, 28 Sep 2021 11:33:02 +0000

Oh so true in every way … tick tick tick

But your solution is even BETTER ❤️❤️❤️⬆️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

By: Nomile

Nomile — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 12:47:16 +0000

Hi Mel..
I’m in love with a narcissist. I’m just seeing the symptoms. It hurts so bad.
The love bombing, I feel like I’ve never been loved this hard.

Isn’t there a way to help him? Other than detaching?

By: Nikkii

Nikkii — Thu, 03 Jun 2021 12:00:56 +0000

Another game a narcissist plays is giving too much time in the beginning where it becomes or seems’ to be their normal interactions with the significant other. And then little by little they remove themselves it can happen very fast, leaving the victim wondering a state of doubt. This is to lower the victims self esteem and sanity . The victim will either move on or throw themselves more at the narcissist . If the narcissist has played games of distrust and the victim feels a little jealous. Many of those victims with throw themselves at the narcissist in a more affectionate sexualised way. Sex is not love people it’s procreation.

By: Aishwaya

Aishwaya — Wed, 26 May 2021 05:53:50 +0000

How sad can this get .. all in all was done .he was my first love and I got married to him for 7 years.
I wish somewhere I had known this in the past, the damage could have been controlled.
Am glad I know now what deep mess am into..

By: Faye

Faye — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 10:46:33 +0000

Yes . Yes and yes … it’s all
called insanity ❤️❤️❤️🐒🐒🐒

By: gks

gks — Thu, 14 Jan 2021 17:59:11 +0000

I have finally reached the end. For 3+ years, my narc continued an affair with his former TA –that I’d written the letter of recommendation for! I found out through a pocket dial from the airport when he was dropping her off after taking her on a business trip to Phoenix. He kept me around for comfort when things were crazy with her, and I kept the hope alive that he “really loved me” and my children, and would eventually come around. Meanwhile, he future-faked and lied to both of us, taking me to neighborhoods where we’d get a condo together and for day trips in his new car I’d help him choose. His lies will be destined for her alone now, as I am out. The final straw was when he begged me not to tell her he’d been with me numerous times over the past few months that they have been separated. He “cried” and flattered me, saying “I love her, but I love you, too,” desperate to keep the news from her, since he’d gone back to the woman who claimed, for the tenth time at least, that she was dead to him. Her family contacted him to help her since she went to the ER for panic attacks–not for the first time–and couldn’t focus and might lose her job. Meanwhile, he convinced me to meet him and tend to him because he was “suicidal.” The very worst is that throughout the whole thing, they keep talking about “God’s will” and “miracles” , etc. Their selfish actions do not denote the will of any God I know. Very sad all the way around–and so sad that I fell for it–again. Please. Finally done.
Thanks for helping me recognize all the signs of narcissism, though I’m a rather slow learner evidently.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 30 Dec 2020 09:31:07 +0000

In reply to Kelly.

Hi Kelly,

my heart goes out to you. Absolutely what you are dealing with is very painful and challenging, but please know there is a way to get empowered and clear – to be able to deal for you and your children – sooner rather than later.

Please check out these two resources that can help you, and in tandem are very powerful.

1) Google my name Plus “parallel parenting” and
2) Look into my NARP Program http://www.melanietoniaeevans.com/narp

I hope that this can help you and much love to you and your children

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Kelly

Kelly — Tue, 29 Dec 2020 09:08:32 +0000

I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 9 years and it’s only now that I’ve been able to walk away from it.
Everything I read is about detaching myself from him.
But I’m finding that so hard as we have two young children together.
His constantly at me to see the kids, and when I do take them it’s never enough. When I don’t, I’m the worst person in the world for taking them away from him. If I respond to messages he finds away to attack me, if I ignore what his saying I cop 100 messages.
How do I do this,, I need to move forward, I need to heal, escape from his constant abuse. My children need a happy and strong mum who can advocate for them

By: B

Tue, 15 Dec 2020 16:30:51 +0000

In reply to Dan. Stop listening. She is on her own journey. You need not be her trash can or savior where she dumps her stuff each time. If you continue to enable her by listening every time, she will continue using you for this purpose which only takes you down energetically. This is toxic. Disengage. When she is ready she will let go or not but that’s her journey.