Comments on: 8 Ways To Become A Better Boundary Setter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 09 Oct 2022 11:46:30 +0000 hourly 1 By: Faye https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1274738 Sun, 09 Oct 2022 11:46:30 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1274738 In reply to Faye.

Bring on being a boundary beast –

]]> By: Faye https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1274737 Sun, 09 Oct 2022 11:45:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1274737 Being on being a Boundary beast thanks to QFH

My boundaries are getting more and more empowering and clearer and centres and peaceful each time –

Can you tell I’m excited πŸ˜†

β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ™ŒπŸ» QFH programs = evolutionary

]]> By: Bestir https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1253311 Sun, 13 Jun 2021 05:36:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1253311 No doubt my parents were narcissists. Constant drama, lying, rages, broken promises, cruel insults, controlling religious nuttery and crazy-making situations often neglecting their kids and blaming others for their and their children’s problems.

]]> By: Runnery https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1253284 Sat, 12 Jun 2021 11:43:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1253284 When you say NO clearly and respectfully… And they ridicule, guilt-trip, threaten or manipulate you in anyway into saying YES..
RUN

]]> By: TFDU https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1248431 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 11:00:50 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1248431 In reply to Kitty.

Kitty
Please be careful with that behaviour mate. Take care of yourself yeah!!!

]]> By: Tom https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1248385 Mon, 15 Feb 2021 14:48:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1248385 Melanie, Thank you so much for what you have posted and uplifted on this website and elsewhere. I had lost my truth, and somatically felt I was obtaining other’s truths in my body due to enmeshment; so you have been helpful.

For truth, in your Feb 2018 Youtube video :True Self & Way To Set Boundaries That Stick:, you stated that an effective boundary is to keep what you do not want out. My confusion is, with a false self, stating what they want to another, they may not be capable themselves. A woman who I have been working has stated that if you want truth and respect, you have to do truth and respect. I guess my concern, where I am, people will declare how they wish to be treated, but unwilling to put forth the effort in order to heal within and thereby act in alignment with how they wish to be treated.

The second part of truth, is people removed from their truth, and projecting the illusion of their truth on their present physical reality. — An individual being with an abusive partner, who they project as their ideal relationship, while intimately holding onto and physically avoiding a prior partner who sees their true self, while energetically seeking them for nourishment and moreover healing. The fear displaces them from their truth, but they project that the life that they are living is true. How does one further discern what is their truth, to fully be in alignment with their soul?

Thank you for imparting earnest clarity!
Tom

]]> By: Tanya https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1248259 Sat, 13 Feb 2021 12:42:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1248259 Once again this article hits the spot about being true to your best self, thanks++++ Melanie. These subjects would be so helpful in the wider community, eg schools and religious institutions could help their students and congregations with so many problems if we all knew more about identifying and embracing our own boundaries. I’m so inspired by this one!!!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1248060 Wed, 10 Feb 2021 10:56:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1248060 In reply to Deborah.

Hi Deborah,

I have some specific resources that I hope can help you.

Please google my name plus “narcissists in court and custody” as well as “parallel parenting” and I suggest checking out my NARP Program http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp – these three paths are the most powerful combinations to help you succeed in these extreme challenges.

Sending you love and breakthroughs

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/8-ways-to-become-a-better-boundary-setter/#comment-1248059 Wed, 10 Feb 2021 10:51:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8861#comment-1248059 In reply to Ismail Harun.

You are very welcome Ismail,

it is my honour to serve you!

Much love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

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