Comments on: A Deeper Look At Triangulation

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 04:54:18 +0000

In reply to Deborah.

Hi Deborah,

if you google my name plus the words narcissistic neigbour” I have created some resources which I hope can help.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Deborah

Deborah — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 17:01:34 +0000

What to do when the narcisist is your neighbor who you can’t get away from and threatens to take your peace by running a radio outside your window 17 hrs per day, devalue your house scare off your tenants put up sexually abusive and ridiculing signs in their windows that everyone can see? Run? Sell the house it took you 54 years to buy after years of destitution? They are using me for triangulation. They are triggered by me improving my property.

By: Ginger

Ginger — Tue, 01 Mar 2022 17:35:45 +0000

In reply to Saoirse. I am a mom estranged by parental alienation from ex and his wife, they are now divorced after 20some years of marriage. She participated in the alienation and I would welcome an apology letter stating what they did so as to maybe one day be reunited with my adult children! They think I am the bad one because N ex and his now ex wife said who knows what about me and smeared my name. So I would welcome a letter that I could send to my children explaining it wasn’t all my fault. I don’t have any expectations from my adult children or that we would be reunited but it would be nice to let them know.

By: Denise

Denise — Tue, 11 Jan 2022 17:39:57 +0000

In reply to Barb.

Hi Barb,
Sorry to hear of your struggles.
I emphasise with you as my daughter has cut off my contact with my grandson.
Keep keeping strong
D x

By: Healthybrain

Healthybrain — Tue, 23 Nov 2021 09:52:18 +0000

Just a constant head trip with these dickheads.

By: Molly

Molly — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 22:48:14 +0000

Thanks Melanie for another great article.
I am so glad that I am reading this article and starting to understand Narcissistic abuse. The smear campaign that I endured left me wondering if I really was such a horrible person. But now I understand that the narcissist believed I had to be discredited because the narcissist did not want me to ever harm them in anyway. Of course, I was only setting boundaries and becoming upset and reactionary with their treatment of me. However, that being said, I did not like my angry reactions or need to prove my innocence so badly. I think this article hits the nail on the head, I would not feel so triggered if I was already whole and healed. Thank you, thank you! This is a wake up call, to tend to myself and experience all that life has to offer narcissist free

By: Murphy, Hannah, Tadesse

Murphy, Hannah, Tadesse — Thu, 29 Jul 2021 15:58:09 +0000

Hi my name is Hannah Murphy I am a recovering narcissist and empath I have been battling this situation narcissism for many years now I guess I’m 30 years and I’ve learned a lot dealt with a lot I’m at the point where I’m helping others which is how I found your post looking for intelligent statements around narcissism that I could screenshot and send to my younger brother in England who is now asking me to help him with his narcissistic Tendencies this is the thing that’s interesting and different is that I’m coming from where all the narcissist are coming to me for help the nurse assets are asking I asking me how to stop or what to do and how to help their Partners get through it and the reason that there are coming to me as that I have been involved for many years as I stated but 2 years ago my only child my 23 year old daughter died in my arms and this catapulted my self exponentially forward I guess I catapulted myself exponentially forward learning learning learning learning learning and along the way one of the consequences was Incredible strength and clear understanding of things so everybody everybody looks at that and thinks that I have achieved some sort of magical way of being as a nice assistant it’s okay which is absolutely not what’s happened it’s just that personal tragedy gave me a shortcut I suppose even though there is no such thing as a short but try explaining that to people there’s much more that I could say it but I’ll start with this thanks

By: Vicki Wharton

Vicki Wharton — Thu, 29 Jul 2021 10:41:16 +0000

The problem with my situation is my child, who is 14, is the rescuer, and is living full time with the abuser/narc. I cannot stay away without abandoning her. I am having to walk a knife edge in keeping myself whole and sane whilst walking through the rat’s nest that is family court. If it was just me I would be long gone from this scenario. Your NARP course is doing some hugely heavy lifting. I am gradually coming to the end of this road due to my daughter’s age … I am not sure whether I will get her back and if I do, what he has turned her into. I just know that what we had before was real and we need to find a way back to that place of love and trust in each other.

By: Ana

Ana — Sat, 24 Jul 2021 11:54:44 +0000

Great post!
Thank you.