Hi Eli,

sweetheart its not about loving your negative feelings, it’s about being willing to meet and feel them and let them go in your work with the NARP Modules.

That’s the true inner work to be able to live free of your wounds and fill with more Source (your true power and essence).

(You can’t heal what you are not prepared to feel.)

If you are a Gold NARP Member, I can’t recommend enough coming into the NARP Members Forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member for assistance with your healing work if you need it.

If you are not yet a Gold member then please contact support@melanietoniaevans.com and one of my lovely staff will help hook you up!

I hope that this helps and much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

This is beautiful I felt so calm full of light and at peace❤️

Hi Nancy,

Please know that it is so usual to feel like this after abuse.

I’d love you to come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar so that I can deeply explain to you exactly how to.

Sending you love and hope

Mel 🙏💕💚

My trust is broken. I can’t trust and I hate it. HOW do I begin to trust again? I truly don’t know how.

Awwww William,

It is my absolute pleasure and I am so so thrilled that NARP is delivering you home to your magnificent you!

Mel 🙏💕❤️

Thank you, interesting article. I think the trouble with the popular way to explain law of attraction like The Secret is, that as if it is a mere tool to get “stuff”, like cars, money…But I think it’s much broader concept, energy attracting similar energy, or simply energy aligning with energy.
I become nowadays annoyed when I hear stories how people have attracted something specific, like cup of coffee, a feather or money, as the result of “using” the law of attraction. This somehow is a “proof”, that this stuff “works”. There’s nothing to prove, but I think the law of attraction does not always work the way we “think”!
What I’ve understood after the n abuse, sub/unconscious mind actually means energy in the body. And that energy also attracts, and the problem is we are unaware of it because it is unconscious!!
I was as a child abused by my father. I remember the relief at the age of about 16 years, when I started to have more like a woman’s body and not a child’s body and that’s when I finally got that my physical boundaries were not crossed. I still remember the relief, like phew! I thought now the abuse is in the past, and the past is past. Then in my twenties, I had dates and romances and experiences that are normal at that age, it was all okay and nice.
I met the n when I was 38 and thought I finally found the one and my soulmate. I was soooo happy, until the bubble burst in a nasty way, like we all here know.
I say this now sarcastically, but of course I had tried to use law of attraction to manifest the one, the soulmate. When he appeared, I logically assumed that okay, this is it, it must be! But it turned out, he was the exact replica and echo of my childhood experiences. From the point of view of energy, I think it is interesting, that the all this time, the “original energy” has stayed in my body, in the exact same form like it was in my childhood. Momentarily I have felt bitter, why I now in my fourties have to deal with this old garbage…But I already know it is an absolute must and then the relief will come! 🙂

I also don’t like how The Secret talks about gratitude. Ok, being grateful IS awesome and good. But if it’s used as a fake positivity or mental anaesthesia, not good 🙁
For example I used to think, “at least the n is not physically abusive, just “emotionally”, he picked me from the airport in the middle of the night and drove me safely home, he was an excellent lover, maybe I can be grateful about all that and just kind of ignore the rest…”.
This made me mentally clouded, not seeing the big picture. This person is abusive, there is no reasonable reason to be in a relationship with such a person. So I think being positive and having gratitude etc. is not good, if at the same time it enables the abuse to continue! Interestingly, this accepting only crumbs and not really expect much more, is also my childhood wounding! It is still sometimes hard for me to believe that I deserve to be treated well and with respect consistently and always, not just momentarily or sometimes. I think (false) beliefs often don’t feel like beliefs, they feel like facts! Maybe that’s why they take so long time to heal? 🙁

It has taken me many years to figure out all this. I’m genuinely grateful that I can express these my thoughts here 🙂