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	Comments on: Breaking The Disconnection From Love, Intimacy And Connection With Jeanine Staples	</title>
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		By: Nicoleta		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nicoleta]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2017 19:45:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wonderful episode! It feels so good to love yourself from inside!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful episode! It feels so good to love yourself from inside!</p>
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		By: JESS M		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JESS M]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2016 18:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749117&quot;&gt;Jean&lt;/a&gt;.

Dear Jean- Trully I &#039;get you&#039;- have you got the &quot;Transforming Family of Origin Wounds&#039;&quot; NARP Course? It is wonderful for the Divine Female Energy- after NARP course. Im still struggling but in a safe place only now to really focus on Unconditional Love &#038; then the Empowered Self Course. Unconditional love was not known in my own Family either and all love had to be earned. Im totally rewriting that old script from Ancient times. It is trully Not the truth but I need to get my wounds out first to feel it. Im not tet fully formed here but daily work- Im loving me more- warts and all. Sending love xx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749117">Jean</a>.</p>
<p>Dear Jean- Trully I &#8216;get you&#8217;- have you got the &#8220;Transforming Family of Origin Wounds'&#8221; NARP Course? It is wonderful for the Divine Female Energy- after NARP course. Im still struggling but in a safe place only now to really focus on Unconditional Love &amp; then the Empowered Self Course. Unconditional love was not known in my own Family either and all love had to be earned. Im totally rewriting that old script from Ancient times. It is trully Not the truth but I need to get my wounds out first to feel it. Im not tet fully formed here but daily work- Im loving me more- warts and all. Sending love xx</p>
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		By: JESS M		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JESS M]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2016 17:51:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you- Exactly where Im at. I&#039;ve had Massive evidence of awesome breakthrough&#039;s on the physical plane-new awesome flat, total escape from all N&#039;s...at last but I feel very very isolated and lonely
 Love(Authentic connection and joy of real Unconditional love is next for me). I was unable to connect to this whilst still in the trauma but I am free now. I have No connection to that joy YET or new life. I had to see NARP work on the physical plane 1st to escape &#038; it Did after 11 month&#039;s solid work. I have not trusted Source to have my back and it does get stronger...the Trust With The Emotions now.
Bless you both. J xxx♡♡♡]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you- Exactly where Im at. I&#8217;ve had Massive evidence of awesome breakthrough&#8217;s on the physical plane-new awesome flat, total escape from all N&#8217;s&#8230;at last but I feel very very isolated and lonely<br />
 Love(Authentic connection and joy of real Unconditional love is next for me). I was unable to connect to this whilst still in the trauma but I am free now. I have No connection to that joy YET or new life. I had to see NARP work on the physical plane 1st to escape &amp; it Did after 11 month&#8217;s solid work. I have not trusted Source to have my back and it does get stronger&#8230;the Trust With The Emotions now.<br />
Bless you both. J xxx♡♡♡</p>
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		By: Ginger Guzman PharmD		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2016 05:57:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Jeanine your information is so well put together and you have articulated the work of Melanie in such a way that I already feel empowered and so excited to hear more from you. You are such an inspiration and role model. Everything you have touched on sums up the core of my confused existence and sheds light on my darkness. I can already hear the silencing of my lambs. I can&#039;t wait for your new projects to be released. I love the work Melanie does and I know with every ounce of my being that this is the truth I have been desparetly seeking.. Thank you both.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeanine your information is so well put together and you have articulated the work of Melanie in such a way that I already feel empowered and so excited to hear more from you. You are such an inspiration and role model. Everything you have touched on sums up the core of my confused existence and sheds light on my darkness. I can already hear the silencing of my lambs. I can&#8217;t wait for your new projects to be released. I love the work Melanie does and I know with every ounce of my being that this is the truth I have been desparetly seeking.. Thank you both.</p>
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		By: Michelle		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Michelle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2016 17:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Good morning, I first want to say that coming across your website was an answer to prayer. It really is a sign that God/Universe is working to heal us when we are ready. I&#039;ll get right to my question. I am 46 and am a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence. It stems from family of origin for sure and I&#039;ve played out the same cycle of abuse over and over for years not knowing it. The article you wrote on Identifying my Identity created a huge shift in my thinking about what is actually possible for me and why many of the painstaking efforts I have made over and over again have always ended in me feeling like I am not smart, not capable and that there is something wrong with me that makes me not eligible for the secure peaceful and successful life I truly want to have. Now I feel that there is hope! Currently, I am going through a similar break down, break through experience where I am heavier than I have ever been, I am struggling financially to support my two amazing kiddos (who I also see manifesting the negative internal messaging that I desperately want to stop), and I have hit rock bottom because I feel like I can&#039;t even think straight. I feel trapped in the past and my motivation (which is extremely high) which used to get me through is now exhausted. I am done doing things the way that I have been doing them. It is finals week and I cannot study. I&#039;m telling you that I cannot explain what is happening to me other than I have some type of unresolved issues around success, moving forward and creating financial security for myself and for my kids. I&#039;m not being lazy. I&#039;m telling you the truth. I cannot engage school/work right now or lose weigh or extercise because whatever is underlying my ability to think and function has been shut down. I was always able to get by before, but I cannot seem to will myself after years of getting up when I didn&#039;t want to, showing up for my kids and school/work when I couldn&#039;t or didn&#039;t feel like it and I just can&#039;t do this anymore. I desperately want to succeed and move forward but I feel blocked!!! How do I get to the underlying beliefs around my ability to use my brain and succeed? My career path has been nothing more than multiple failed attempts to get by. And now that my ex has disappeared and I am raising my kids by myself I want to make a wonderful life for my family, but my stuff is getting in the way. HELP!! :) The problem is I don&#039;t have money to purchase your program. I &#039;m not looking for a hand out, but I read all of the articles online and feel that I have exhausted all of the free resources on this topic. I&#039;m not sure where to go from here. I&#039;m scared. I really want to heal. Do you have any ideas for how to shift this programming?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning, I first want to say that coming across your website was an answer to prayer. It really is a sign that God/Universe is working to heal us when we are ready. I&#8217;ll get right to my question. I am 46 and am a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence. It stems from family of origin for sure and I&#8217;ve played out the same cycle of abuse over and over for years not knowing it. The article you wrote on Identifying my Identity created a huge shift in my thinking about what is actually possible for me and why many of the painstaking efforts I have made over and over again have always ended in me feeling like I am not smart, not capable and that there is something wrong with me that makes me not eligible for the secure peaceful and successful life I truly want to have. Now I feel that there is hope! Currently, I am going through a similar break down, break through experience where I am heavier than I have ever been, I am struggling financially to support my two amazing kiddos (who I also see manifesting the negative internal messaging that I desperately want to stop), and I have hit rock bottom because I feel like I can&#8217;t even think straight. I feel trapped in the past and my motivation (which is extremely high) which used to get me through is now exhausted. I am done doing things the way that I have been doing them. It is finals week and I cannot study. I&#8217;m telling you that I cannot explain what is happening to me other than I have some type of unresolved issues around success, moving forward and creating financial security for myself and for my kids. I&#8217;m not being lazy. I&#8217;m telling you the truth. I cannot engage school/work right now or lose weigh or extercise because whatever is underlying my ability to think and function has been shut down. I was always able to get by before, but I cannot seem to will myself after years of getting up when I didn&#8217;t want to, showing up for my kids and school/work when I couldn&#8217;t or didn&#8217;t feel like it and I just can&#8217;t do this anymore. I desperately want to succeed and move forward but I feel blocked!!! How do I get to the underlying beliefs around my ability to use my brain and succeed? My career path has been nothing more than multiple failed attempts to get by. And now that my ex has disappeared and I am raising my kids by myself I want to make a wonderful life for my family, but my stuff is getting in the way. HELP!! 🙂 The problem is I don&#8217;t have money to purchase your program. I &#8216;m not looking for a hand out, but I read all of the articles online and feel that I have exhausted all of the free resources on this topic. I&#8217;m not sure where to go from here. I&#8217;m scared. I really want to heal. Do you have any ideas for how to shift this programming?</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-750358</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 22:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-750037&quot;&gt;Jean&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Jean,

thank you for sending you gratitude ... there is so much of it in this Community ... we are all so blessed! :)

I love that you have love organically arising from within ...

As it does when we make the space inside of us, by letting go of all the emotions and traumas that are not serving us.

Well done Dear One!

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-750037">Jean</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Jean,</p>
<p>thank you for sending you gratitude &#8230; there is so much of it in this Community &#8230; we are all so blessed! 🙂</p>
<p>I love that you have love organically arising from within &#8230;</p>
<p>As it does when we make the space inside of us, by letting go of all the emotions and traumas that are not serving us.</p>
<p>Well done Dear One!</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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		By: Miba		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Miba]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 16:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749117&quot;&gt;Jean&lt;/a&gt;.

Absolutely. I can relate. In my case; both parents are disordered. I can totally relate to the &#039;feeling dead inside&#039;. My heart breaks whenever I see someone saying they hate themselves.

There are so many people suffering in silence, who feel different, who feel misunderstood, who feel incredibly confused &#038; exhausted. Who feel dead inside as well.

More than a year ago, I was in a similar position. I know what it&#039;s like to feel broken (and everything else that comes with that). I didn&#039;t have NARP then and was able to work on myself nonetheless, but NARP makes it possible to easily establish a routine and shift trauma &#038; pain in a clear structured manner.

Truly, best investment ever.

I wish you the best of luck with the healings. May the NARP force be with you. It&#039;s amazing, truly :).

PS Be sure to try one of Melanie&#039;s webinars :). They&#039;re the bomb! Such healing power, because there&#039;s SO many people tuning into those and the healing capacity is enormous.

Just because energy can&#039;t be seen with the naked eye, doesn&#039;t mean it&#039;s not there!

♥♥♥]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749117">Jean</a>.</p>
<p>Absolutely. I can relate. In my case; both parents are disordered. I can totally relate to the &#8216;feeling dead inside&#8217;. My heart breaks whenever I see someone saying they hate themselves.</p>
<p>There are so many people suffering in silence, who feel different, who feel misunderstood, who feel incredibly confused &amp; exhausted. Who feel dead inside as well.</p>
<p>More than a year ago, I was in a similar position. I know what it&#8217;s like to feel broken (and everything else that comes with that). I didn&#8217;t have NARP then and was able to work on myself nonetheless, but NARP makes it possible to easily establish a routine and shift trauma &amp; pain in a clear structured manner.</p>
<p>Truly, best investment ever.</p>
<p>I wish you the best of luck with the healings. May the NARP force be with you. It&#8217;s amazing, truly :).</p>
<p>PS Be sure to try one of Melanie&#8217;s webinars :). They&#8217;re the bomb! Such healing power, because there&#8217;s SO many people tuning into those and the healing capacity is enormous.</p>
<p>Just because energy can&#8217;t be seen with the naked eye, doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s not there!</p>
<p>♥♥♥</p>
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		By: Jean		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jean]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 08:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749795&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you everyone and especially Melanie who offers her loving connection to help us all.  I am not in NARP but use the online resources lots.  I have been healing for over 35 years.  It was slow at first but it was whilst in my marriage to a narcissist that my real journey started.  I think that in my case it had to be slow, but it has picked up speed since finding you Melanie.  I have been finding help in all sorts of places over the years but yours has been the most dynamic.  Recently when talking to my daughter on Skype I noticed that her face was even more beautiful to me than it has always been.  That is love coming up from inside.  I feel that so much.  I also know that I am thriving and growing because yesterday morning I opened the wardrobe and realised that nothing in there was pretty enough for me to wear!!  I am so alive and the feeling just gets stronger]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749795">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you everyone and especially Melanie who offers her loving connection to help us all.  I am not in NARP but use the online resources lots.  I have been healing for over 35 years.  It was slow at first but it was whilst in my marriage to a narcissist that my real journey started.  I think that in my case it had to be slow, but it has picked up speed since finding you Melanie.  I have been finding help in all sorts of places over the years but yours has been the most dynamic.  Recently when talking to my daughter on Skype I noticed that her face was even more beautiful to me than it has always been.  That is love coming up from inside.  I feel that so much.  I also know that I am thriving and growing because yesterday morning I opened the wardrobe and realised that nothing in there was pretty enough for me to wear!!  I am so alive and the feeling just gets stronger</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 03:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749779&quot;&gt;Analisa&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Analise,

you are not doing anything wrong at all.

&quot;That&quot; which you have described coming up is simply another trauma to target, load up and shift out of your being - and you can do that with Module 1 or the Goal Setting Module.

Also please know if ever you get stuck, the NARP Private Forum is the place to get the expert guidance to help you.

https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

I hope this helps.

Mel xo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/breaking-the-disconnection-from-love-intimacy-and-connection-jeanine-staples/#comment-749779">Analisa</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Analise,</p>
<p>you are not doing anything wrong at all.</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8221; which you have described coming up is simply another trauma to target, load up and shift out of your being &#8211; and you can do that with Module 1 or the Goal Setting Module.</p>
<p>Also please know if ever you get stuck, the NARP Private Forum is the place to get the expert guidance to help you.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member</a></p>
<p>I hope this helps.</p>
<p>Mel xo</p>
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