Hi Sally,

I truly believe that there is no greater way that “evil” is cast out than to be taken out in the light.

Where there is light – there is no darkness.

How else could it be “cast out”?

Just my thoughts.

Mel xo

With regards to the trauma you say we are working through I was thinking about where that originally comes from if our creator is wholly good and only created goodness, there was the original evil and that is what perpetuates our trauma but it is part of a plan to prove the ultimate truth of following good and not evil, the trauma exists because there is evil and yes we have to work through it but the trauma doesn’t exist because there is ab absence of evil. Evil will soon be cast out and all people with it. I truly want to believe that the evil can be reabsorbed back to goodness but it doesn’t make sense that way. Please see if you can help me with this. I do think evil is used for goodness and part of a plan to bring about more love but that evil is not going to get another chance in fact that evil needs to turn to the light if it wants to be reconnected with all that is good. I just worry if a heart is hardened and cast out and can’t do this. Thank you Melanie xo

peace and love.

from Jane.

I also have been through very hard times and are trying to heal and be my best self. I was with a N and was destroying my joy, security and self esteem.

You have been crucified and are living proof you have resurrected from the dead. Many Christians focus much on the crucifixion of Jesus which is important to understand. He was condemned, hated, abused, and nailed to a cross. People wanted to destroy his goodness, light and power. But even while he is being crucified he asks God to forgive them for they do not know what they are doing. Forgiveness is powerful. Letting go of the situation and poison. If you are a Christian or not we can look at the outcome of his story and see his resurrection was the “true highlight” in the story. His shinning moment was when he rose from murderous death, condemnation, hate, and envy to be the example for us all. Jesus did not lie down in his tomb and continue to be dead. He chose life. He rose up and came back alive to give light to the world. His story should be our example, not keep being attached to the pain but let it go and be alive again!

Turning our lives around is not easy because having our hearts broken or being crucified can actually feel l like we are dying. But being resurrected is in reality the only and best option we have. We do create our realities. When we let go of the bad things that happened to us and let God, light or source come into your hearts we can be made more whole and true to who we really are. We allow ourselves to be transformed into blessings and joy. To be free to allow the good to come into our lives and be the best we are made to be.
I pray for many healing to come to those who are connected with this site. Its nice to know that we are loved and not alone being subjected to this N disorder and that there is a life on the other side.
Blessings

I have just listened to your radio show about Time and found it so interesting. What made me laugh is that I have just posted in the forum from the UK where it is still Jan 17th but the post came out as being posted on January 18th! That’s proof enough isn’t it!
I hear so much these days of narcissistic relationships that I was beginning to wonder if there was any hope but so much has been brought to light through what I have just listened to.
I am working on the healing meditations and finding them painful but effective. Onwards and upwards!

Thank you for your tireless work for women like myself.

Much love

Angie P.

Heidi, I am going through very similar- 19 years – 2 beautiful, healthy talented, intelligent girls. 15 & 9yrs old. I hold on to the many blessings though this difficult time. I’m seeing an attorney Wed and am ready for change. It will be tough but I am ready and looking forward to no longer bring surrounded and affected by His N traits! Things will be better- change in the girls lives and the financial stability will be the toughest. I, although, am ahead of the game- so thankful. I have been given the ability to grow through my marriage although it’s been an uphill climb- (I’m seeing I’m tougher than I can even imagine!). I love my Part time job and am looking forward to much more growth, independence and more happiness without the shadow over me!

Jovie, perhaps Melanie has not yet seen your post or had time to be able to respond to it, so let me help guide you for now if I may, having been through this myself.

Others have said that Quanta Freedom Healing is not for the faint of heart. You are not alone, Jovie. If you do this at a level that feels excruciatingly painful you are experiencing it in the way that will be most beneficial and life-changing for you.

No, it’s not a pretty picture at all. As you have said, it’s exhausting, crushing and agonizing. Other people have described it as horrifying. That’s exactly how we felt when we first experienced the trauma and it’s how we feel when we are re-experiencing it in order to shift it out of ourselves forever and forever, and yes, to me and to so many of us it is so undeniably worth every minute of the excruciating agony of re-experiencing the pain, or else it will forever be inside of us ruining our entire life. The shifts are quick, and then it’s up and out of you. And yes you do feel cleansed and energized, and it’s a lasting change.

You are spot on with wondering if it can damage you because it can feel like that while you’re going through it, but the truth is keeping the trauma inside of us is what is doing the most horrific damage. Sobbing hysterically is common. I’ve experienced scary physical convulsions when horrors too horrific to even speak about have passed up and out of me. But, Jovie, They Are Up and OUT of me!!!

In answer to your questions: 1) Yes, this does actually work phenomenally well. It has changed my life for the 100% better as well as the lives of so many, many others; 2) I can only speak for myself, but it seems to me that at first we are only surviving… house a mess, finances a mess, a struggle just to get through the day. But over a short period of months to a year one’s entire life begins to change for the 100% better.

So, in answer to your question, I have experienced horrors beyond my worst imaginings going through this and have overcome it. I’m laughing again and living again, and I’m regaining — as one previous poster said — myself, my identity, my fierce confidence and the fire I used to have.

If you need some additional support, email support@melanietoniaevans.com. The support team is amazing beyond belief!

Best wishes to you on your healing journey.

Yes I totally had that core sense too

But I have a question, now that I’ve gone through Module 1 (and I snuck in a trip through Mod2 this morning even though it may have been a tad early – but it was great actually! -don’t worry I’ll be back on One tonight or tomorrow), because oh my oh my, I don’t want to scare anyone that hasn’t started yet, but it is CRUSHING, and I don’t know how you bring forth all this pure agony; it surprises me every time when I begin a full-body sobbing that hardly seemed to match up with the age/event that I was working on. And it exhausts me utterly. I come away cleansed and energized yet completely ancient and tired… It’s only been 2 weeks since I started.

But I’m afraid. 🙁 Will this really work? Or is it just bringing things to the surface that are best left in my sealed vault? Will I just end up even more raw and freshly unprotected because now I don’t have as many of the walls and barriers that I’ve evidently worked so hard all my life building? Cerebrally I have been open and honest about all the traumas, and never even get sad about them – I thought that meant I was ‘over it’… I’ve tried to use the experience of being ‘detached’ as a strength — I thought it was?? Now that I see this massive outpouring of emotion during Module, I feel very concerned….

I’m doing this work because the evidence is all around me that I HAVE A LOT OF WORK TO DO ON MYSELF. My house is a mess, finances a mess, my daily life is a struggle to just get through a lot of the times. (Though i must admit I am endlessly thankful for what I do have, I’m even thankful for the trauma that caused me to finally kick out my narc! Very, in fact!) But I am not thriving, merely surviving.

My fear of this program actually signals to me that it’s the right thing for me; especially since all the radio, tv, and writing of MTE that I consume lines up COMPLETELY with my heart and my mind. But I wonder, is this right for anyone? For me? Can it damage me? I think both Yes and No at the same time…. I may even be afraid that I won’t get the results I hope for? And that it won’t be worth it? (common theme for me, I achieve/complete but then no ‘real’ results)… Ugh, going in these circles no fun. So I just keep on doing the module in morning whether I like it or not, just like I used to do with exercise…

Sorry if this post sounded icky! I have ZERO intention of negativity!! I absolutely do not want to spread a fear concept, but it is a part of my struggle; I would love to hear if others felt similarly and were able to overcome it. Meanwhile I will keep on working it until I’m sure one way or the other…