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		By: Peter		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Peter]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2022 15:13:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276614&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Oh no! I’m so sorry, Melanie, I can’t be there today for the workshop! I have to be at a gathering of veterans this afternoon where we are celebrating the holidays! I will try to get the replay! Thank you so much for your response! ❤️
 I hope that everything goes great! Much love and so many thanks to you!
❤️🦋❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276614">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Oh no! I’m so sorry, Melanie, I can’t be there today for the workshop! I have to be at a gathering of veterans this afternoon where we are celebrating the holidays! I will try to get the replay! Thank you so much for your response! ❤️<br />
 I hope that everything goes great! Much love and so many thanks to you!<br />
❤️🦋❤️</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kondwani]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2022 02:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Awesome Article as Always Melanie!
I&#039;ve signed up, see you tomorrow :-)
With Love and Gratitude
Kondwani]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome Article as Always Melanie!<br />
I&#8217;ve signed up, see you tomorrow 🙂<br />
With Love and Gratitude<br />
Kondwani</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2022 01:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276571&quot;&gt;Peter&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Peter,

it&#039;s my pleasure and thank you as always for your lovely support!

Peter love, it is awesome for ANYONE to be in HHH - boundary empowerment, releasing co-dependency and really taking a STAND for our own worth and value!

If I wasn&#039;t running it, I&#039;d sign up!

PLUS you get the CODE for the New Year&#039;s Quantum Activation Event (what could be better than that?)

Come in!!

https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/hhh.htm

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276571">Peter</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Peter,</p>
<p>it&#8217;s my pleasure and thank you as always for your lovely support!</p>
<p>Peter love, it is awesome for ANYONE to be in HHH &#8211; boundary empowerment, releasing co-dependency and really taking a STAND for our own worth and value!</p>
<p>If I wasn&#8217;t running it, I&#8217;d sign up!</p>
<p>PLUS you get the CODE for the New Year&#8217;s Quantum Activation Event (what could be better than that?)</p>
<p>Come in!!</p>
<p><a href="https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/hhh.htm" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/hhh.htm</a></p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2022 01:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276580&quot;&gt;Laurie&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Laurie,

I&#039;m so thrilled you are coming into HH and that I can serve you there!

Much Love

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276580">Laurie</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Laurie,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so thrilled you are coming into HH and that I can serve you there!</p>
<p>Much Love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2022 01:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276586&quot;&gt;Erica&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Erica,

I&#039;m really happy this resonated and you are willing and ready to let go of the internal trauma.

That is where true emancipation, freedom and activation is!

Are you working with NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp and in the NARP Member&#039;s Forum www.melanietoniaevans.com/member for coaching, love and support with this? 

This will accelerate your healing beyond description!

(If not please know we have wonderful (mind-blowing actually) specials to join NARP coming up in HHH!)

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-horrible-holidays-to-healing-liberation/#comment-1276586">Erica</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Erica,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m really happy this resonated and you are willing and ready to let go of the internal trauma.</p>
<p>That is where true emancipation, freedom and activation is!</p>
<p>Are you working with NARP <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp</a> and in the NARP Member&#8217;s Forum <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member</a> for coaching, love and support with this? </p>
<p>This will accelerate your healing beyond description!</p>
<p>(If not please know we have wonderful (mind-blowing actually) specials to join NARP coming up in HHH!)</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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		By: Erica		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 17:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you, Melanie! ♥️
Such a helpful article in my heart and solar plexus is where i feel  so much hurt, ready to keep it letting go. Hopefully blessing it and learning all that i can from where i am at.
Blessings for you!
Erica]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Melanie! ♥️<br />
Such a helpful article in my heart and solar plexus is where i feel  so much hurt, ready to keep it letting go. Hopefully blessing it and learning all that i can from where i am at.<br />
Blessings for you!<br />
Erica</p>
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		By: Laurie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Laurie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 14:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[“I bless and accept the feelings that I have of loneliness and being unsupported, of feeling I’m not good enough to be loved and my life isn’t the way I thought it would be. I bless and accept this feeling.”

I have had a hard time trying to explain how I have been feeling but you just summed it up in one paragraph. I feel all those things and I’m so tired. I don’t deserve the way I am being treated!  It is their issue not mine!  I have been avoiding the holidays because of the “shit show” that it always ends up being and it’s not fair. 

In my mind I want the cabin in the woods, in the middle of a snow storm, surrounded by my family all laughing and loving. I guess I have to let that idealistic view go “my life isn’t the way I thought it would be”

I can’t wait to do your holiday course!  Thank you for always sharing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“I bless and accept the feelings that I have of loneliness and being unsupported, of feeling I’m not good enough to be loved and my life isn’t the way I thought it would be. I bless and accept this feeling.”</p>
<p>I have had a hard time trying to explain how I have been feeling but you just summed it up in one paragraph. I feel all those things and I’m so tired. I don’t deserve the way I am being treated!  It is their issue not mine!  I have been avoiding the holidays because of the “shit show” that it always ends up being and it’s not fair. </p>
<p>In my mind I want the cabin in the woods, in the middle of a snow storm, surrounded by my family all laughing and loving. I guess I have to let that idealistic view go “my life isn’t the way I thought it would be”</p>
<p>I can’t wait to do your holiday course!  Thank you for always sharing.</p>
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		By: Peter		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2022 00:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Melanie! 
Thank you so much for once again sending out to us an amazing and so helpful article! 🙌

This article is particularly apropos or appropriate as I will soon be entering into my sixth year of living MY life without THE narcissist around 24/7....

Although, there are many many issues to still resolve with her that  require me to see her and be around her but it&#039;s not every damn day of the week! And certainly no longer during these special times of the year!

The first years of celebrating the holidays and Holydays were so difficult... I felt so lost and so alone... I remember feeling so sad and crying so much....🥲

Now, thankfully, it&#039;s different and getting better...I still feel lonely and still cry some but in another sense, I am sooooo glad that the  narcissist is no longer here to disrupt and control each and every &quot;scenario&quot;....She, as you so eloquently said, was a total and I mean total &quot;grandstander&quot; all the time! It was such a drag! 🤮

It&#039;s taken some time to be &quot;here&quot;...i.e., this place of understanding and realizing that it&#039;s now totally my choice as to whom I will share my feelings and thoughts about Holydays and holidays...

There is a/some semblance of &quot;liberation&quot; that I experience now, thankfully,  that I was unable to experience before that has allowed a different kind of emotional &quot;inner movement&quot; which helps so much....

And, I believe, from the deepest part of my heart, that I am able to feel that &quot;liberation&quot;, expressly as a result of NARP...and  for that, I am and will be eternally grateful!

However, I do have a question about the &quot;holiday heartbreak workshop&quot;! If I feel like I&#039;m making progress and that the holidays are more manageable for me now do you think that it might be a good idea to do the workshop anyway?

I would certainly appreciate your thoughts and opinion as I so respect your thoughts and your opinions on so many things, Melanie!

Thank you for answering my question, if you are able to and thank you so much for this article and for everything else that you&#039;ve helped me and so many others with! Much love to you! I hope that you have great holidays for yourself! ❤️🦋❤️
.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Melanie!<br />
Thank you so much for once again sending out to us an amazing and so helpful article! 🙌</p>
<p>This article is particularly apropos or appropriate as I will soon be entering into my sixth year of living MY life without THE narcissist around 24/7&#8230;.</p>
<p>Although, there are many many issues to still resolve with her that  require me to see her and be around her but it&#8217;s not every damn day of the week! And certainly no longer during these special times of the year!</p>
<p>The first years of celebrating the holidays and Holydays were so difficult&#8230; I felt so lost and so alone&#8230; I remember feeling so sad and crying so much&#8230;.🥲</p>
<p>Now, thankfully, it&#8217;s different and getting better&#8230;I still feel lonely and still cry some but in another sense, I am sooooo glad that the  narcissist is no longer here to disrupt and control each and every &#8220;scenario&#8221;&#8230;.She, as you so eloquently said, was a total and I mean total &#8220;grandstander&#8221; all the time! It was such a drag! 🤮</p>
<p>It&#8217;s taken some time to be &#8220;here&#8221;&#8230;i.e., this place of understanding and realizing that it&#8217;s now totally my choice as to whom I will share my feelings and thoughts about Holydays and holidays&#8230;</p>
<p>There is a/some semblance of &#8220;liberation&#8221; that I experience now, thankfully,  that I was unable to experience before that has allowed a different kind of emotional &#8220;inner movement&#8221; which helps so much&#8230;.</p>
<p>And, I believe, from the deepest part of my heart, that I am able to feel that &#8220;liberation&#8221;, expressly as a result of NARP&#8230;and  for that, I am and will be eternally grateful!</p>
<p>However, I do have a question about the &#8220;holiday heartbreak workshop&#8221;! If I feel like I&#8217;m making progress and that the holidays are more manageable for me now do you think that it might be a good idea to do the workshop anyway?</p>
<p>I would certainly appreciate your thoughts and opinion as I so respect your thoughts and your opinions on so many things, Melanie!</p>
<p>Thank you for answering my question, if you are able to and thank you so much for this article and for everything else that you&#8217;ve helped me and so many others with! Much love to you! I hope that you have great holidays for yourself! ❤️🦋❤️<br />
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