Comments on: How Does a Stay At Home Mum Survive After Narcissistic Abuse?

By: Andy

Andy — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 20:20:34 +0000

I’m sorry but in Australia, the system is stacked in favour of a female and my Narc knew this. Being an Australian politician, who regularly engaged in the Canberra debauchery and who used absolutely every aresenal in the narccisists handbook (including false accusations to keep my kids from having 50/50 time with me) taught me something about Australia that women should know. Men are scum in Australia, we are third class citizens thst have no rights. The split is default 60/40 in her favour and she will probably get more. The narc female is believed in court, even if you are able to clearly demonstrate thst they have created fraudulent documents and clearly show they are lying in affidavits.
As a woman, you have nothing to worry about financially, the Australian government is extremely adept in giving everything to the woman, even if she is an abusive narccist. As a man, you are absolutely screwed and will be divorce raped worse than any criminal could possibly.
The Australian government wonders why they cannot recruit men into the Armed forces and why boys are dropping our of society, who would want to fight for a country that treats you worse than dirt. The proverbial kick in the head after years of being abused, cheated on, humiliated in public, threatened with your children, had to be quiet while witnessing their crimes of sedition against the country, financially abused and emotionally abused to the point that you find yourself sitting in the train on the way to work to earn money in the hope that your children might get some in between her cocaine habit and the politics.
I couldn’t want to get the hell out of this joke of a male hating country sooner than I can, other than I have kids to take care of and am being abused by proxy through them.
Apologies but this article really sparked me off, you have no idea how bad it turns for men when the courts and the entire legal system is structured to be a female narccists sword.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 19:19:03 +0000

In reply to Yvonne.

Hi Yvonne,

(also for Darcy).

Please know we do offer sponsorship to people in limiting financial circumstances onto NARP, as we do not wish anyone to not have access to this incredible healing Program.

You can write in to support@melanietoniaevans.com for further details.

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 19:16:33 +0000

In reply to James.

Hi James,

I love that you understand the relationship with a narcissist so clearly!

Thank you for your lovely support.

Love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 19:14:21 +0000

In reply to Monfleur.

Hi Monfluer,

please know the shame and guilt is such a part of this – and I absolutely will write to this!

I want you to know Monfluer that by working Module 1 on exactly that – those feelings of shame and guilt – takin them to this Module you will be able to shift out of these feelings faster than you can imagine.

Relief is not far away and Please know we are all sending you love and healing.

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 19:11:58 +0000

In reply to Pauline.

Hi Pauline,

I love that you have defused his ability to get to you.

That is freedom right there, as well as the alignment with your breakthroughs with this.

Please know how welcome you are and thank you for your blessings to all.

You’ve got this, and we are all sending you power and love!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Pauline

Pauline — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 08:30:44 +0000

Thank you Melanie for this very insightful article and thank you for relaying hopeful experiences. The best advice I have followed is to delay the procedure as much as needed in order to heal and let go of expectations. My future ex has tried all the tricks in his book, especially destabilizing and goalpost shifting. As a covert narcissist his main obsession is to always come across as the victim and to withhold finances, information in general whilst smearing and deflecting any responsibility. The most difficult thing to understand and accept is that he is incapable of considering a win-win settlement, there needs to be a winner and a loser, and I need to lose. We still have two kids in primary and he is not ashamed of letting them go without to get to me, looking for my reaction. Well thanks to your guidance, he isn’t getting one and I will get through this regardless of what he is or isn’t doing. Again thank you, I feel stronger and more at peace than ever before in my life, many blessings to all this wonderful community!

By: Monfleur

Monfleur — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 21:05:49 +0000

Dear Melanie,
Your article and the testimonials have shone a light on a topic I have felt shame about, feeling I should have known better to get involved in the first place, but the promise of adventure and luxury lured me in. As an already wounded and not all that evolved person at the inception of the relationship and I now look back and wonder why I did not leave after a few dates. But I clung and saw him as a life saver. Now, I know what I have to do with NARPS help, but it sure feels uphill. At the end of the day I was taken to paradise( great places), to experience hell with him. Regards and a big thank you. Maybe you could also write something regarding shame and guilt and the role these disabling emotions play within ourselves.

By: Stevie

Stevie — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 15:28:54 +0000

In reply to Lisa. That is exactly what I am going through, I have a baby girl with her who is 3 months old now. How can I leave her with my GF narc, I want to walk away but I feel completely trapped. How can I make any judge see that this woman is evil, I can't just walk out on my baby girl.

By: Yvonne

Yvonne — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 14:14:27 +0000

In reply to Darcy. Hello Darcy, my heart goes out to you as I understand what you are going through. What you're facing is reality. Only women who have been in your shoes understands the difficult task ahead of you. We all know that the thing to do to is to get out of that horrible toxic environment but women in abusive situation need help from government agencies, shelters and more resources. Program like the one offered here is great but not everybody can afford it. I say to you DEMAND help until you get it. Knock on every door and never give up. l am disabled, and I know how difficult it is. If the shelters are full, surely, they can provide you with resources. DO NOT GIVE UP! YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DESERVE BETTER!