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		By: jili		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 10:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		By: Lisa		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2022 18:56:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1069069&quot;&gt;Kathleen&lt;/a&gt;.

I have a friend I cut out a few years ago when I was learning how to set boundaries because she wasn’t respecting me or loving me this way I needed. Then a few years later we got back in touch and became pretty close again. But I have had kind of a pullback get close pattern with her because she seems to not be able to listen to me on a deep level the  way I need and do for her. But she is the  friend that really circles back on a consistent basis where as other friends we just talk here and there so I wonder if I’m cutting out the one friend who may actually be the best without knowing it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1069069">Kathleen</a>.</p>
<p>I have a friend I cut out a few years ago when I was learning how to set boundaries because she wasn’t respecting me or loving me this way I needed. Then a few years later we got back in touch and became pretty close again. But I have had kind of a pullback get close pattern with her because she seems to not be able to listen to me on a deep level the  way I need and do for her. But she is the  friend that really circles back on a consistent basis where as other friends we just talk here and there so I wonder if I’m cutting out the one friend who may actually be the best without knowing it.</p>
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		By: 7 Methods To Cease Pondering About The Narcissist And Begin Dwelling - Path2Positivity		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[7 Methods To Cease Pondering About The Narcissist And Begin Dwelling - Path2Positivity]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2022 22:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] seen friendships blossom into true, genuine, and advanced ones on account of my sincere and hard love with folks. And splendidly I&#8217;ve been in a position to [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] seen friendships blossom into true, genuine, and advanced ones on account of my sincere and hard love with folks. And splendidly I&#8217;ve been in a position to [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2020 03:05:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1239642&quot;&gt;Susan&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Susan,

you are so very welcome!

Keep up the great work Susan, it&#039;s beautiful to see you on the way to shining!

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1239642">Susan</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Susan,</p>
<p>you are so very welcome!</p>
<p>Keep up the great work Susan, it&#8217;s beautiful to see you on the way to shining!</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2020 03:03:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1239635&quot;&gt;Luisa&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Luisa,

I have asked you this before ... Are you in the NARP members of forum www.melanietoniaevans.com/member ?

This is where the fine tuning and specific help with your module work can assist your breakthrough in any area that you are struggling with.

In a much more direct and powerful way than what can take place on this blog, or in social media.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1239635">Luisa</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Luisa,</p>
<p>I have asked you this before &#8230; Are you in the NARP members of forum <a href="http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member</a> ?</p>
<p>This is where the fine tuning and specific help with your module work can assist your breakthrough in any area that you are struggling with.</p>
<p>In a much more direct and powerful way than what can take place on this blog, or in social media.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Susan		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Susan]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2020 18:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This was such a perfect video for where  I am in my 💓 recovery (&quot;evolving&quot;).  Thank you Melanie for all your communications. Less thinking more shifting. I just discovered how much tension I carry in my physical body with mindbody work John Sarno began and the Curable app podcasts and knowledge my pain is in my brain .  It is. Your modules are very similar and I can shift emotional pain with quantum freedom healing. Now healing my neurological system with rewiring my neural pathways. So grateful 🙏 for being able to &quot;hear&quot; these healing pathways. As Heather stated  &quot;and all we thought we had to do was treat others like we would treat ourselves&quot; or as I believed &quot;Do onto others as they would do into you&quot;. Didn&#039;t go far enough for me. Kept thinking they were incapable. They are and so am I until I do the inner work. Thank you all for sharing and you Melanie for this site and your 💓💓💓 videos and writings.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was such a perfect video for where  I am in my 💓 recovery (&#8220;evolving&#8221;).  Thank you Melanie for all your communications. Less thinking more shifting. I just discovered how much tension I carry in my physical body with mindbody work John Sarno began and the Curable app podcasts and knowledge my pain is in my brain .  It is. Your modules are very similar and I can shift emotional pain with quantum freedom healing. Now healing my neurological system with rewiring my neural pathways. So grateful 🙏 for being able to &#8220;hear&#8221; these healing pathways. As Heather stated  &#8220;and all we thought we had to do was treat others like we would treat ourselves&#8221; or as I believed &#8220;Do onto others as they would do into you&#8221;. Didn&#8217;t go far enough for me. Kept thinking they were incapable. They are and so am I until I do the inner work. Thank you all for sharing and you Melanie for this site and your 💓💓💓 videos and writings.</p>
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		By: Luisa		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Luisa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2020 23:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1069212&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Mel this struck a chord with me for sure, I feel I can no longer trust life and others I am working with the modules but I am not speaking up for myself I have kind of feel depressed and tired]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1069212">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Mel this struck a chord with me for sure, I feel I can no longer trust life and others I am working with the modules but I am not speaking up for myself I have kind of feel depressed and tired</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2020 04:13:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1233528&quot;&gt;Brooke&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Brooke,

truly, this is about you deeply honouring you, regardless of what others are doing.

I would say to them, &#039;respectfully I need to no longer have contact with you, because of no longer being with your son, and I wish you all the best.&quot; 

That (or something like it) is all that you need to say.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-i-evolved-my-relationships-with-family-and-friends/#comment-1233528">Brooke</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Brooke,</p>
<p>truly, this is about you deeply honouring you, regardless of what others are doing.</p>
<p>I would say to them, &#8216;respectfully I need to no longer have contact with you, because of no longer being with your son, and I wish you all the best.&#8221; </p>
<p>That (or something like it) is all that you need to say.</p>
<p>Much love to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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		By: Brooke		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brooke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2020 00:33:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It has been 3 months since I have gone no contact with my abuser. I am working every day on getting me back. I am loving the new me and feel I have made huge progress in my recovery. However, his family is still contacting me. They support him and his new supply even after knowing what he has done to countless women including his own children. I have a hard time when they try contacting me and not thinking they are doing his hovering for him. I have stopped responding but they continue to text and ask to get together. I feel this is a trigger for me and don’t know how to address it and do feel bad for ignoring them.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It has been 3 months since I have gone no contact with my abuser. I am working every day on getting me back. I am loving the new me and feel I have made huge progress in my recovery. However, his family is still contacting me. They support him and his new supply even after knowing what he has done to countless women including his own children. I have a hard time when they try contacting me and not thinking they are doing his hovering for him. I have stopped responding but they continue to text and ask to get together. I feel this is a trigger for me and don’t know how to address it and do feel bad for ignoring them.</p>
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