Comments on: How To Break The Energetic Ties To A Narcissist https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 15 May 2022 12:39:33 +0000 hourly 1 By: Peggyb https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1269126 Sun, 15 May 2022 12:39:33 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1269126 I now see that when my husband can not break me down he goes to other people to fight me and tear me down. He always has someone else he con fides in to agree with him about me being a horrible person. The supply for him never ends.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1269093 Sat, 14 May 2022 23:52:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1269093 In reply to Lisa.

Hi Lisa,

you just kick them out.

This person is NOT your responsibility, your own soul is your responsibility.

Don’t worry about this person, they are a parasite and pretty resourceful at sucking people in.

Lean in to YOU.

Mel ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฆ‹

]]> By: Lisa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1268883 Thu, 12 May 2022 00:45:48 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1268883 How do you make a narcissist partner leave when they have nowhere to go nor do they have a job because family has turned their back on them and there disrespect for authority prevents them from keeping a job

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1268540 Sun, 08 May 2022 05:49:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1268540 In reply to Ami.

Hi Ami,

please know how welcome you are and welcome to our lovely community.

Yes, the best response is none, and then turn inwards to heal.

Have you looked at NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ?

It will help you so much

Mel ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฆ‹

]]> By: Ami https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1268481 Sat, 07 May 2022 12:15:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1268481 Hello my question was going to be this; my Narc behavior stepson finally for some reason remembered my birthday after 18 years. Prior to this he did not acknowledge it only when my husband would remind him. He is 28 years old with a wife who has driven myself and husband away. He lives with her and her parents with a one year old daughter we donโ€™t see. According to his wife we are 4rth in line to visit if they feel like it. So we detached. Motherโ€™s Day is coming and I feel for some reason he will try to text me again to wish me a โ€œ happy Motherโ€™s Day followed by I love you which I donโ€™t believe to be true. He and she both constantly remind my husband how he never does anything for them and I can assure we do because it is myself who purchases all the gifts, plans and cooks all the dinners we invited them to, snacks, bridal shower, baby shower, wedding gifts, a separate wedding party (because my husband refused to be at thier parents home for the wedding there as his x wife was a terrible narc. He had to go no contact with her) money for college, medical insurance, clothing, ect. Many times I sacrificed what I wanted in order to get what he needed because his own mother wouldnโ€™t. So I am offended to say the least of what a selfish little basturd he is a what a โ€œbโ€ his wife has been.
I wanted to tell him something like he doesnโ€™t have to bother with the text messaging as he we donโ€™t really have a relationship anymore but I am realizing maybe my best response is none at all.? Thank you for this site it has helped me greatly. ๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’ซ

]]> By: Jeanne Hale https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1268023 Sat, 30 Apr 2022 12:46:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1268023 Dear Melanie,
Thank you for your genuine concern &love & for your wonderful articles. What advice would you give to a 72 year old woman, who has never been alone, but has suffered narcissistic abuse for 46 years. I need to leave and thought I could, but now realize at my age I probably never will. Maybe others feel this way as well. Thank you, Jeannie

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1267995 Sat, 30 Apr 2022 08:22:30 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1267995 In reply to Jan.

Hi Jan,

when you are ever in doubt the Source Healing and Resolution Healing is as powerful as anything …

Modules 6 and 9 are also for what you are asking about.

Love and healing to you and please know how welcome you are.

Mel ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฆ‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1267994 Sat, 30 Apr 2022 08:20:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1267994 In reply to Vicky.

Its my pleasure Vicky,

blessings to you!

Mel ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฆ‹

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-break-the-energetic-ties-to-a-narcissist/#comment-1267993 Sat, 30 Apr 2022 08:19:18 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=11207#comment-1267993 In reply to Mind Blown.

Hi Mind blown,

NARP clears up this residual trauma – ANY traumatic events in our life.

Truly … Absolutely this is normal – but you need a tool that can load up the trauma, release it and then reprogram it with Source.

I want you to have more than hope … http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

EMDR did not get me to the other side either.

Mel ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿฆ‹

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