Hi Anita,

Thank you for your beautiful words. I really do feel like I have the best job in the world!

My global team is well over a dozen people, and we are like an incredible soul family – we are so blessed in our team love and ethos.

My heart goes out to you for what you have endured, and it will be lovely to have you as a part of our beautiful NARP family.

Are you able to come into my FREE masterclass in a few days time? http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/masterclass

I know this will also help a lot.

Your spirit, heart and soul is amazing Anita.

Much love and big hugs to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

Believe – Yes they do. People also believe what they want to believe regardless of whatever truth is before them. N’s are Oscar winning actors who present themselves as the victim in order to garner sympathy and support. They’re also frauds. They steal ideas and take credit for work they did not do. Take these events as “exit” signs from the universe and, i.e., change jobs because sadly there is no other choice when working for a narc and/or you are surrounded by their sycophants. In so doing you are no longer a “victim” (boundaries!) and now you have room in your life to forge healthier and happier professional relationships. Being able to calmly “level” with your boss or coworker in order to give them the opportunity to meet you on *your* level is the truth of the matter. This is where validation begins and ends — with you and your established boundaries. Set yourself up to be treated in a certain manner and the field delivers. Melanie’s program will help you to work through and heal the deep wounds that keep you “looking outward” to people and situations with the expectation that *they* will make you feel safe, appreciated and validated.

Hi Sera,

I am so sorry that I hadnt replied yet as I was having a little downtime over Christmas.

Sera I am always going to suggest first and foremost that you heal emotionally from these attacks. Then you will unfold in the nost powerful and gracious way ‘what to do’.

Please come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar to learn how to do this.

Sending you relief and healing

Mel 🙏💕💛

I was so disappointed that I am missing the opportunity to come to one of your Australian events!! I had very much hoped I could make it but I am in Western Australia now till beginning of Jan.

I have been unravelling since leaving a narcissistic relationship with my ex. The last 2 years has been so textbook and horrifyingly traumatic dealing with emotional, pyscological and financial stress. The smear campaigns and aim to isolate my children and I from family is evident. Thankfully I have had some supper and some healing but have a long long way to go.

I currently have no court orders or legal papers in place for the children but they have lived with me since he left. He also has only seen them 9days in 18mths. Plus continues to defermate my mental well-being. Since jan 2018 when he made false allegations to the mental health outreach team and they turned up on my doorstep unannounced! Shocking and traumatising to say the least. I was interviewed and case was closed as they had no concerns for my mental health. Not only did they confirm I was indeed well(?!) so did a pyscologicalist I later saw and a doctor that also wrote a written document to say she supported me through the domestic violence and financial hardship and dealing with a personality disordered ex partner.

I have had to now in this festive season block him completely from the children for the last 2weeks because His continual abuse is taking its toll on my health. Naturally he has tried every way to gain contact with the kids.

I know he has rights as a father but right now we need space to heal and have him away from us even verbally. So I emailed him and suggested he stop contacting me and go through mediation and court.

This obviously buys time away from seeing or speaking to him. I want to do what’s right by the children but he is constantly game playing, triangulating, smearing and abusing so why should i tolerate this.

I have family telling me it’s wrong they don’t speak to their father as it’s Christmas and I want to respond by saying in this sensitive time we would appreciate you don’t mention their father for legal reasons. But I’m not sure that is right but if I keep quiet they over step the boundaries of respecting the kids and I choice now not to interact with him.

Please any advice!!!!! Sorry for ramble it’s consuming!!’ Peace& light

Hi Mary,

If you go to youcanthrivebook.com you will find my book to help you.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

I love all your videos especially this one – I am always trying to please everyone and I do care what people think about me. I have had Narcissist people in my life that even if I do something nice for them I still get ignored. I would love to know how to heal inwards or have you any books you would recommend for me. I know you have the NARP but that is a little expensive for me.

Hi KHS,

I am so pleased you are doing so well out the other side of this.

Thank you for your beautiful encouragement in helping others turn inwards as well.

And thank you for your lovely words.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💛💕

Hi Carl,

I am so pleased that you made it and are still here, and healing.

Please note Carl, we are going to be in the UK next year and I would love to catch up and meet you then.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💛💕