Comments on: How To Identify A Pathological Lying Narcissist

By: Evan

Evan — Fri, 24 Jun 2022 11:59:45 +0000

I am a lying Narcissist and need help

By: Truth

Truth — Wed, 28 Jul 2021 03:46:24 +0000

My narc ex had no bounds to the schadenfreude he’d feel anytime he heard about something that would be humiliating or unfavorable to me. He just made up what ever story he could live with, lie or not, in order to get over his addictions and rightful feelings of inadequacy.

By: Getty

Getty — Thu, 20 May 2021 20:52:15 +0000

Melanie is right, and those crazy making dynamics had me feeling dizzy like a roller coaster ride I didn’t agree to.

By: Flowv

Flowv — Tue, 03 Nov 2020 19:56:40 +0000

They say people who give you advice or criticisms you did not want or ask for, are not motivated by concern, they are malicious. Narcs are definitely like that.

By: Janet A Jenkins

Janet A Jenkins — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 15:27:45 +0000

In reply to Gloria.

I’m a 64 yr. old woman. It’s almost 45 yrs. for me. This article hits him almost exactly. When I try to tell him how I feel, he changes the subject into something about him. He starts talking about anything but what I’m feeling. If he does actually hear what I’m saying, he says I take everything wrong, and I need to just forget it cause it isn’t important or it just didn’t happen that way. I just realized that I wasn’t the off balance one about 3-4 yrs. ago. We went to a councilor, and he put on a show with tears and subject changing. We talked very little about our marriage. The councilor tried to keep him on the subject, but it wasn’t easy. I’m feel stuck. I have a way out of this, but I’m afraid to make the move. I guess I need more rejection, sadly.

By: Denise

Denise — Mon, 23 Mar 2020 09:38:46 +0000

What an AMAZING article!! It’s so great to be able to read this info and internally say to myself “I knew it!!” it’s the need for validation for what I’ve lived with all the people around me, that step by step I’m getting. I always suspected from this people who “admire and flatter you” without real intention to get to know who you are, it doesn’t match! You just put that into words. And I can see how I repeated that pattern of making promises and not sticking to it, though I usually explained why I just at the last minute changed my mind. Now I get the chance to see it and be more in integrity with myself and others. Thank you Melanie!!! ❤️✨Your posts help tons!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 31 Jan 2020 03:38:33 +0000

In reply to Quentin Smith.

Hi Quintin,

I’m so sorry that you are going through this difficult time, it is additionally difficult when there are children involved.

I’d love you to come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/free webinar to find out what your next steps are to get your relief and power back.

I hope this can help you

Mel 🙏💕💛

By: Quentin Smith

Quentin Smith — Thu, 30 Jan 2020 03:09:11 +0000

I’m a man in a relationship for 7 years with a female covert narcissist. We have 3 young children together and I help care for her 2 children from 2 past relationships. It’s sad to me that I’ve taken years to figure out what was going on and the only option for my happiness and sanity is to end the fairytale and move on. Since the place we live is in her name i would be the one leaving. This thought troubles me because I imagine her having her new supply around my children and things of that sort. I’ve pretty much given up on the relationship and I know I have to pick up the pieces and gather myself. I’m just not sure how to go about taking the first step.

By: Natasha

Natasha — Fri, 20 Dec 2019 21:50:41 +0000

In reply to Pam.

Dearest Melanie,
I think you’ve copy/pasted all the e-mails that I sent to my ex narcissistic boyfriend:)
Thank you for sharing:)
❤️