Comments on: How To Stop Playing the Narcissist’s Game – And Win

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 21 Mar 2021 06:47:47 +0000

In reply to Carol.

Hi Carol,

it’s my pleasure.

I love that you feel inspired Dear Lady.

So much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Carol

Carol — Sat, 20 Mar 2021 08:13:57 +0000

Thank you
I’m on the way to understanding and am looking forward to finding me .
Thank you for this program .
I want to be me and be the white light.
Also to share this program .I am 72 and thought I would never able to have a life again.Thank you Melanie.

By: Chanel

Chanel — Mon, 09 Mar 2020 22:07:37 +0000

I really loved this episode, thank you.

By: Nicole Lee

Nicole Lee — Tue, 19 Nov 2019 06:24:29 +0000

I am so grateful for this articles’ advice it has changed my life. I am literally walking off the battle field, and moving to the beach! The war zone analogy really hit home for me! I am in the military and have been in a “combat” custody battle with a narc psychological warfare officer for 6 years over our son and daughter, in 4 different states. I have a formulated a 4 question decision matrix as to what he will do in every situation.
1. If it is cruel..Yes 2. If it is selfish..Yes 3. If it is not in the best interest of the kids.. Yes
4. If it is not what a normal man would do…Yes Then he will do it. Very predictable.

I am so tired of being a deadly hell zone, rendered powerless. I have PTSD from Combat Child Custody Battle, and been on the couch for months barely able to move due to the trauma. I have married a wonderful kind man who loves and cherishes me and helped me realize how I should be treated. I am literally walking off the battle field to the beach, moving back home to the Caribbean, my happy place and where I feel the most loved and powerful. This article really gave me the strength and courage to not care what people will think of me, because they don’t know the hell I have been through, and that normal tactics just don’t work. I am also showing my kids that I am not going to be a victim because, Mommy’s going to be chilling on the beach. I know in my heart, he will get bored of the kids and will discard them if he can’t use them against me. It is also draining his resources in the process. You can’t wage a war if the enemy won’t fight on your dimension. I am walking away to play croquet now…

By: Courtney

Courtney — Wed, 30 Oct 2019 23:20:34 +0000

I’m walking away to play croquet NOW!’

By: cynthia

cynthia — Tue, 16 Jul 2019 04:57:27 +0000

I’m walking away to play croqet. I’ve been to hell and back for 15/16 years. my name is “SHE..I WAS NARTIED TO A NARCISXIST/SOCIOPATH.. WHO HAS MADE ME WAT I AM TODAY.. .you see we are 19 years apart in age… 19!!! I was 14 wen I met “Him” he was 33.. 4 yes later we Marty I’m 18 he’s , 38. we had normal life, work, go home do the family thing go to bed wake up do it again and again… fastfowatd….. he mentaly, emotionally abused me. he did most awfulest things towards me it broke my heart. manipulated me humiliated me, takes advantage of me. He played mind f*”:,k games with me, things that make u crazy but I knew I wasn’t !! no one would believe me. he would set me up to get arrested .. u was arrested 7 times in one yr. well the game goes on it hadn’t stopped it’s been 10yesrs. divorce. we married 1980 divorce2009.. it goes on and on.. I’m surprised I’m still here and not dead or in prison wen will it stop! he has peop5le doing his dirty work towards me he’s done coward stuff shitty shit
I was his wife 25 yrs . it still hurts .. “Give me strength and patience Lord”

By: Zaphod

Zaphod — Mon, 27 May 2019 01:57:07 +0000

I enjoy your commentaries. I continue to go low contact and yet when paths are crossed out doing chores, one of the “minions” comes to my home. Many of the minions are different men each time. When I walk, I am “monitored” again each time by a different vehicle with illegally darkened windows. My community is not large and I have been sabotaged in many ways. Do you have any suggestions as I refuse to isolate myself?
I do not look at this man, I do not care what he does or who he does it with but he cannot stop monitoring me or using citizens to observe me.

By: Josie Kreuger

Josie Kreuger — Thu, 23 May 2019 18:40:58 +0000

No one talks about lesbian relationships.. long term…18yrs There is no help for a gay girl.. even if it’s talked about… No one cares.. no one knows what now appears to be a sweet old lady.,. Is actually the devil..that can go to the same domestic violence shelter to claim they are the abused… Plus so much more.. These people need to be removed from society.. No matter what I do I can’t get away from this evil horrifying human being… What horrifies me? I can’t get away…. But mostly…. That I ever loved her the way I did.. But still… I can’t get away from her…
(Please don’t suggest a D.V. shelter)
I have experienced more discrimination in shelters than I have combined in my entire life (I’m 51) and those were “LGBT friendly” .And the one near me??? I enjoy the ramifications of a smear campaign…I was there for 4 months… 6 months later she went for 3 days… That’s all it took… She was abusing me and when I kicked her out…she went to my shelter with the help of my now ex friend’s and neighbors.. also smear campaign.. They accepted her and believed her over me… That doesn’t happen to straight women..
When she left the bills for me to pay… Drug addicts got help for bills and rent from local churches… But because I’m gay…I was turned down… I’m in Missouri… Now I’m back in her house because I had no options…. I am afraid of her in many many ways.. With of course the exception of physical abuse…I wish she would. She is 12 years older and is working that… Using it against me… She hurts herself and I mean bad… Putting me in fear of elder abuse charges when I haven’t done anything… I have been threatened.I finally began to cry out for help from her and It was set up that I was crying out for help because I am crazy and on drugs…. No one and I mean no one has helped me… It has only made things harder. I have tried to get away… Yet here I am.. There is no help… I even went to an LGBT anti domestic violence organization. They did alot of talking and promise making but did nothing in seeking assistance…I have found that someone can have a degree in agriculture and work in a D.V. shelter…. Even in a D.V. shelter. There are narcissists that will re victimize you over and over…. I truly pray I make it out again before I’m dead, in jail, or a mental facility against my will…. Two months this time
I almost made it.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 21 May 2019 22:19:25 +0000

In reply to Cameron Brookes.

Awww Cameron,

I am so happy that you have come out of the darkness and into your True Self.

Bless you brother.

Mel 🙏💕❤️