Comments on: Narcissistic Abuse – A Journey To Self Love https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Fri, 24 Nov 2023 15:16:29 +0000 hourly 1 By: Denise Tilley https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-1283797 Fri, 24 Nov 2023 15:16:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-1283797 Not “getting” things to be whole, rather continually growing towards more wholeness.

This article has helped so much in further getting real with myself so I can genuinely detach from obsessive thoughts about my narcissistic experiences that hinder my growth. I felt like I was simply suppressing my thoughts before which felt really bad and added to my shame around them instead of acknowledging them and allowing them to be. Now I see that it’s about making the choice of self-partnering. The obsessive thoughts ‘asking’ (demanding) to be acknowledged are a bottomless pit on constant rotation so I now can genuinely choose to detach from them. Now I see that I actually acknowledge my wounds by FEELING them and shifting them out of my body. Thank You.

]]> By: Healthy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-1267929 Fri, 29 Apr 2022 04:15:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-1267929 Narcissistic friend or family members who try to get in on your personal life will definitely bring those problems to you to try to sabotage your relationships. They are naive to not know their future is tainted and cursed.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-1234008 Mon, 16 Mar 2020 21:55:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-1234008 In reply to Luisa.

You have got this Luisa,

You are doing such a great job!

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

]]> By: Luisa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-1233992 Mon, 16 Mar 2020 17:11:36 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-1233992 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Melanie thank you once again for my wake up call, I am just starting out on my journey it feels weird to go inward. But the pain of not doing it is worse. So there is no other way than to turn inward to bring my little girl to wholeness and self love❤️

]]> By: Ren https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-720160 Sun, 06 Nov 2016 18:53:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-720160 I have read hundreds of articles and a book on narc abuse. This has been the most helpful and enlightening thing I have yet to read! Thank you!

]]> By: Empoweredlady https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-639359 Thu, 22 Oct 2015 19:23:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-639359 In reply to Tanya Scott.

Hi Tanya.
I also want to experience what you are experiencing. Please help me, explain to me fully. You say when emotions surface you self partner. What exactly do you mean by that? What exactly do you do to honour those emotions. Kindly explain to me in detail, you can use examples. I need to be on the same wave length as everyone. So far, i’ve managed to weed out everyone who does not respect me, i dont want ex narc back, but i want to reach a point where m indifferent to him-thats the area i’m struggling in. I hate him.

]]> By: Jeri https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-596631 Sun, 10 May 2015 17:47:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-596631 In reply to Sandra Carter.

Sandra. AMEN to that. I am a believer too. I think accepting redemption and the life Jesus Christ died for to give us is the bottom line. I also believe in life being multi demential and the concept of quantum physics. There is just so much we don’t understand in this dense place. But without a doubt earth is a fallen world and as such I have to conclude that life is in the blood and thus that was how we were offered redemption. Seek and you will find. I used to be new age but after reading and studying the bible I accert Jesus as my savior.

]]> By: JM https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-587582 Thu, 09 Apr 2015 03:41:49 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-587582 Melanie,
I have just separated after 18 years and still struggle with what has happened. I have never dealt with any type of mental problem and can’t seem to come to grips with the ” two people” I have had to deal with. When we married I knew my wife had had a bad experience in her childhood but she seemed to be fairly ok. She had the odd meltdown but few and far between. As the years went by she seemed to go from being good 90% of the time to that decreasing to at the end she was good about 10% and out of control the rest of the time. There is no doubt she is NPD based on her atrocious behaviour. The really rapid decline in her behaviour has happened in the last 4 years or so. I have read that as people with NPD get older they get worse. Is this correct?

]]> By: Martha Reilly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-abuse-a-journey-to-self-love/#comment-579761 Mon, 16 Mar 2015 05:31:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=3199#comment-579761 “And this is important because you can’t attract healthy relationship or “give” healthy relationship unless your self-relationship is healthy.” This made me cry.

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