I have been married to the same man for 47 yrs. He has always been in cmplete.control of me basically the whole time. He fits all of the traits of a narcissist. For the first time in my life I have come to realize what his actions was all a out. The anger and falsehood accusations is horrible. I better have my it’s dotted and my it’s crossed no mat/er what. I overheard him two weeks ago and at other times as well say,”I despise her!” Now he says he didn’t mean that. I could go on and on. I am ready to go! I just dont know how.

Hi Sandy,

truly it is so important for us to heal to lead the way for our children, regardless of their situation and issues.

I can’t emphasise that enough – as I do to all parents.

Please come into my free webinar to find out more about this – http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕💛

Dear Kate
Your letter resonated with me too. A lifetime of all the same as you describe from a mother and a sister who both gas lighted me, and a controlling father for me as well. Like you, it was in the lifetime before the internet and information and help, such as with Melanie. And so we had no idea what was really happening.
I just want to say I hear you, I am with you in your new awareness. I have gone no contact with my sister, whilst my mother is in a care home with dementia. She still has us giving her all the attention, but this time I am able to detach with a loving heart, even though I realise she never loved me, just an extension of herself who had to serve her all my life.
I will never see or speak with my sister again, and that is actually a relief. Her husband is a flying monkey or an even worse narcissist. I cannot decide which. Yes these people will twist your words, eat you up and spit you out, but think about it. We are able to see things for what they are, and they are forever stuck in their petty mindsets. We truly have the ability to move up and to create a life that is radiant, just as Melanie describes in her birthday message this week. All best wishes to you.

Hi Carol,

you are very welcome and I send you power, change and healing.

Mel 🙏💕💛

Hi Bria,

its my pleasure!

It truly is about working the QFH Modules in NARP to let it go.

It’s the inner work that allows this to happen, its not something that can just be done logically.

Come into the NARP member’s Forum if you are struggling to do this http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕💛

Hi Lucy,

you are so welcome and I send you strength and support in this confusing time.

Are you in the NARP Forum, reaching out when in need? – http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

There is so much support for you there, as well as continued clarity.

Lots of love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛