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		By: A		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2025 07:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My smear campaign began (I think) almost exactly a year ago. People who had stood by me in similar situations became afraid to engage with me, having somehow been convinced I was a master manipulator that only one person could identify. No one behaved like a flying monkey, but it&#039;s been incredibly painful feeling like nothing I can say will remind people that I&#039;m a person they trusted.
But I&#039;m ready to speak my truth - I found my words - I&#039;m about to take a huge risk by engaging with my friends again. I&#039;ve researched covert manipulation to death and I&#039;m not even afraid of what the narcissist might say, because....it&#039;s predictable and not based on any evidence. But I cannot control whether or not people&#039;s fears will begin to fade, or whether their hearts will begin to open again. That part is terrifying. 
One person saw exactly what was going on, and the narcissist convinced everyone that I was controlling him. (Ironic - he&#039;s the person who has resisted deception the most.) I hope I can resolve the damage that has befallen him, as well as our old friends who I imagine are in a fearful state of being mass-gaslit.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My smear campaign began (I think) almost exactly a year ago. People who had stood by me in similar situations became afraid to engage with me, having somehow been convinced I was a master manipulator that only one person could identify. No one behaved like a flying monkey, but it&#8217;s been incredibly painful feeling like nothing I can say will remind people that I&#8217;m a person they trusted.<br />
But I&#8217;m ready to speak my truth &#8211; I found my words &#8211; I&#8217;m about to take a huge risk by engaging with my friends again. I&#8217;ve researched covert manipulation to death and I&#8217;m not even afraid of what the narcissist might say, because&#8230;.it&#8217;s predictable and not based on any evidence. But I cannot control whether or not people&#8217;s fears will begin to fade, or whether their hearts will begin to open again. That part is terrifying.<br />
One person saw exactly what was going on, and the narcissist convinced everyone that I was controlling him. (Ironic &#8211; he&#8217;s the person who has resisted deception the most.) I hope I can resolve the damage that has befallen him, as well as our old friends who I imagine are in a fearful state of being mass-gaslit.</p>
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		By: truth		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Feb 2024 17:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Please remember this is my story.  Do not follow her/his story.  I am powerful as are we all.  When we get in touch with our spiritual self, we know that they can do nothing to us.  &lt;span&gt;Most of this world is legal fiction, legislation, police aka policy officers, the courts, social services, schools, banks, governments, science, religion, te lie vision, be lie fs, countries etc.  They try to make us legal fiction via the birth certificate with which they create a corporation.  When you know yourself you know the truth.  Natural law is only real.&lt;/span&gt;

Spirituality is key which is hard when you are going through it.  I started my spiritual journey before he tried to smear me.  Tried being the word.  I have no part to play in his story.  If anyone is reading this and going through this.  Do not try and defend yourself.  Ignore it all and focus on your own story. They all go away.  Focus on spirituality and healing.    I am real.  My story is real.  My story wins.  Your story wins.  I am strong.  I am powerful.  I am love.  Loves and hugs to everyone.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please remember this is my story.  Do not follow her/his story.  I am powerful as are we all.  When we get in touch with our spiritual self, we know that they can do nothing to us.  <span>Most of this world is legal fiction, legislation, police aka policy officers, the courts, social services, schools, banks, governments, science, religion, te lie vision, be lie fs, countries etc.  They try to make us legal fiction via the birth certificate with which they create a corporation.  When you know yourself you know the truth.  Natural law is only real.</span></p>
<p>Spirituality is key which is hard when you are going through it.  I started my spiritual journey before he tried to smear me.  Tried being the word.  I have no part to play in his story.  If anyone is reading this and going through this.  Do not try and defend yourself.  Ignore it all and focus on your own story. They all go away.  Focus on spirituality and healing.    I am real.  My story is real.  My story wins.  Your story wins.  I am strong.  I am powerful.  I am love.  Loves and hugs to everyone.</p>
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		By: Leonie watt		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonie watt]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2022 12:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m confused. I thought I&#039;d healed within but now facing serious fabricated  / lies / smearing agsin. You have to defend the truth surely? Otherwise I can lose my child. Please help, advise? Still trying to find Barrister..]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m confused. I thought I&#8217;d healed within but now facing serious fabricated  / lies / smearing agsin. You have to defend the truth surely? Otherwise I can lose my child. Please help, advise? Still trying to find Barrister..</p>
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		By: Shelly timbers		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shelly timbers]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Dec 2021 04:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The narcissist smearing me is my mom. She had my kids taken and now she has them.  She&#039;s convinced everyone I&#039;m mentally unstable and a liar. She has the caseworker believing I&#039;m a bad person. She has my whole family against me. I&#039;m completely isolated and losing hope fast.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The narcissist smearing me is my mom. She had my kids taken and now she has them.  She&#8217;s convinced everyone I&#8217;m mentally unstable and a liar. She has the caseworker believing I&#8217;m a bad person. She has my whole family against me. I&#8217;m completely isolated and losing hope fast.</p>
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		By: M		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[M]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2021 14:46:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve been a victim of this my whole life.  It used to bother me...but at the end of the day, I know who I am.   

I know the truth of who I am.  Over the years, there have been attempts to call me crazy, to discredit me, to portray me as a person who deserves to be hurt.   
Some of the perpetrators are within my family, while others have been strangers.  

I&#039;ve learned to stand tall and be brave despite their lies.  Their perception of me is not reality.   What they have told others about me says more about them.  
Their attempts to destroy me have failed.  I may be broken, but I&#039;m still here and I continue to push forward.  The key to healing from this (in my opinion) is self-care and knowing who you are.   
No one can define you when you discover who you really are.   
It takes years to undo this damage, but it can happen with intensive work.   
I&#039;m a work in progress...I encourage you all to keep fighting for yourselves, too.   You are worth it!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been a victim of this my whole life.  It used to bother me&#8230;but at the end of the day, I know who I am.   </p>
<p>I know the truth of who I am.  Over the years, there have been attempts to call me crazy, to discredit me, to portray me as a person who deserves to be hurt.<br />
Some of the perpetrators are within my family, while others have been strangers.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve learned to stand tall and be brave despite their lies.  Their perception of me is not reality.   What they have told others about me says more about them.<br />
Their attempts to destroy me have failed.  I may be broken, but I&#8217;m still here and I continue to push forward.  The key to healing from this (in my opinion) is self-care and knowing who you are.<br />
No one can define you when you discover who you really are.<br />
It takes years to undo this damage, but it can happen with intensive work.<br />
I&#8217;m a work in progress&#8230;I encourage you all to keep fighting for yourselves, too.   You are worth it!</p>
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		By: lulu		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[lulu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Nov 2021 12:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[yes, calmly expose them valerie.  what do you have to lose??  nothing.   may god bless you! ✨]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes, calmly expose them valerie.  what do you have to lose??  nothing.   may god bless you! ✨</p>
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		By: Valerie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Valerie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2021 08:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I really enjoy your videos and it’s obvious to me you understand and have experienced narcissistic abuse. I have healed and gained knowledge and strength after leaving my narcissistic husband several years ago. I was just starting to live my authentic life. When my sister and brother brought a lawsuit against me. I was the Trustee of my Mother’s Estate. I cared for my Mother in my home after she had a brain tumor and was bedridden. After my Mother passed away, my sister and brother filed in court to have me removed as Trustee after lying about me not selling my Mom’s house 6 months after her death pursuant to probate requirements. My sister was appointed Trustee and she and my brother took money and expensive jewelry items that were left to me by my Mother. Two years of  constant legal assaults and smear campaign to family and friends nearly broke me. I am now almost back to thriving again. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me because I know my truth and reality. I don’t have anything to do with my siblings and I feel so much relief not having to deal with their drama anymore. I don’t expect an apology from them or for them to change who they are. My question to you is what would happen if I turned the tables on them? I have documentation showing how they lied, stole and tried would give me my share of the inheritance. My sister recently told a family member who defended me when she tried her smear campaign, “You only heard one side of the story.” So I’m thinking of sending family and friends the documentation, emails and text messages in my sister and brothers own words so their side of the story can be told. I would not be doing this to convince family and friends who believed the smear campaign. I just want to expose siblings without their covert masks. Narcissists hate to be exposed for what they really are. This would cause my sister to really lose it. And yes that would give me great pleasure. I have no fear of them legally or otherwise since our legal battle has ended and I can’t be sued for telling the truth.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really enjoy your videos and it’s obvious to me you understand and have experienced narcissistic abuse. I have healed and gained knowledge and strength after leaving my narcissistic husband several years ago. I was just starting to live my authentic life. When my sister and brother brought a lawsuit against me. I was the Trustee of my Mother’s Estate. I cared for my Mother in my home after she had a brain tumor and was bedridden. After my Mother passed away, my sister and brother filed in court to have me removed as Trustee after lying about me not selling my Mom’s house 6 months after her death pursuant to probate requirements. My sister was appointed Trustee and she and my brother took money and expensive jewelry items that were left to me by my Mother. Two years of  constant legal assaults and smear campaign to family and friends nearly broke me. I am now almost back to thriving again. I don’t care what anyone thinks about me because I know my truth and reality. I don’t have anything to do with my siblings and I feel so much relief not having to deal with their drama anymore. I don’t expect an apology from them or for them to change who they are. My question to you is what would happen if I turned the tables on them? I have documentation showing how they lied, stole and tried would give me my share of the inheritance. My sister recently told a family member who defended me when she tried her smear campaign, “You only heard one side of the story.” So I’m thinking of sending family and friends the documentation, emails and text messages in my sister and brothers own words so their side of the story can be told. I would not be doing this to convince family and friends who believed the smear campaign. I just want to expose siblings without their covert masks. Narcissists hate to be exposed for what they really are. This would cause my sister to really lose it. And yes that would give me great pleasure. I have no fear of them legally or otherwise since our legal battle has ended and I can’t be sued for telling the truth.</p>
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		By: Hawco Bertha		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Hawco Bertha]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Nov 2021 07:42:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-smear-campaigns-expose-the-lies-bring-the-truth-to-light/#comment-1259146&quot;&gt;Molly&lt;/a&gt;.

Beautiful    Excellent videos have experience it all.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-smear-campaigns-expose-the-lies-bring-the-truth-to-light/#comment-1259146">Molly</a>.</p>
<p>Beautiful    Excellent videos have experience it all.</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2021 22:36:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-smear-campaigns-expose-the-lies-bring-the-truth-to-light/#comment-1259133&quot;&gt;Kondwani Chinula&lt;/a&gt;.

You have got this Kondwani!

We are with you all the way!

Mel 🙏💞🦋]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/narcissistic-smear-campaigns-expose-the-lies-bring-the-truth-to-light/#comment-1259133">Kondwani Chinula</a>.</p>
<p>You have got this Kondwani!</p>
<p>We are with you all the way!</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💞🦋</p>
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