Comments on: Narcissists Hate Peace, Happiness And Unity

By: Tika

Tika — Wed, 10 Jan 2024 05:21:12 +0000

It’s quite interesting because I too have experienced this cycle. I have a degree in psych and actually thought that this was maybe just the love cycle in which we experience autonomy, coming together again and then togetherness but I know that cycle isn’t supposed to be stressful or anxiety inducing. I also know it’s not supposed to end in a huge blowup or argument. I have been dating narcs my whole life, and this is typically how it goes. I myself am a securely attached and healthy person with codependent tendencies due to my first relationship being so traumatizing. :((

By: Faye

Faye — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 12:04:51 +0000

Healthy versus Toxic – peace is the dream team ❤️❤️🙌🏻

By: Alyssa

Alyssa — Sat, 03 Apr 2021 06:43:53 +0000

This is exactly what I have been and am currently dealing with. Our oldest son is 6.5 yrs old and has recently started lashing out horribly. I realize now that since I have disconnected emotionally, mentally, and physically from my significant other (his father) to survive, he now uses the children as his victims that much more. It’s heartbreaking. I am so worried my children are going to be like him or be scared and damaged for life b/c of the abuse they are dealing with. How can I help raise them right, especially with him still in the house? I’m financially trying to make a plan to separate but even then he’s still going to be in their life. I want to protect them but don’t know how! Help!

By: Caroline

Caroline — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 11:43:00 +0000

Wow this cycle of violence has just totally described every day at work with my sister. 11 years before I had a nervous breakdown and could not take anymore and it was escalating all the time. Diagnosed with PTSD due to the nightmare and still in recovery. Feel sick when I think back on how bad it was but so, so grateful to now be out of the endless loop. Literally the most horrible person I’ve even met. Thank you for this article.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 26 Feb 2021 11:14:58 +0000

In reply to Christina.

Hi Christina,

I’m so pleased that it helps.

Love and blessings to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Christina

Christina — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 12:16:27 +0000

Melanie. You are describing how my life was for 13 years! Still trying to heal and rebuild myself as a person, but your information has helped me get this far!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 12:00:43 +0000

In reply to Tania.

Hi Tania,

my heart goes out to you and your daughter.

I do have quite a few resources that I hope can support you and her

Please google my name plus “our chuldren”.

I hope that this helps.

Much love to you both

Mel 🙏💕💚

By: Tania

Tania — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 09:49:07 +0000

I have been in this for 17 years, not knowing in the beginning what was happening and always falling for, I am doing things wrong and constantly believing it cause I looked up to him,and after having my daughter with him 7 years ago, I started to realise what the hell was going on. He treats her like rubbish and constantly bringing her down etc. I have seeked the help of a psychiatrist for her to help me control the situation better and fulfilling her needs and trying to get her to understand that this behaviour she is lashing out, is not her fault, but she is 7, he is her father. Why do fathers (not all)destroy their children like this.it breaks my heart, but I am strong enough to get her through this, I now know what the trigger points are with him, and managing to the best of my ability.

By: Kyra

Kyra — Tue, 09 Feb 2021 20:06:04 +0000

This unfortunately has become my norm. I have to get free of this. This year it has to happen. Seven years is enough. I’m scared of the unknown but ready. It has gotten to the point that before it blows up in my face, and of course after the unity period, I subconsciously sense it coming and will insight the explosion myself, (protection mechanism) so I can have a reason to get away. I have become a runner. I will retreat to my place of calm for a few weeks and then allow him to drag me back in. My desperate need for the good false stuff I suppose. 🥺🤕