So pleased this helped Dee!

Mel 🙏💞🦋

These questions are perfect! They really shine the light on the areas I need to work on! Thank you so much!

Love 🙂

Hi Luisa,

I’m so pleased that you’re loving this. You are doing such a great job!

It absolutely beats pain and suffering.

Keep thriving sweetheart!

Much love

Mel 🙏💕💚

Your website is such a gift. I have read much on narcissism, and visited many websites, but yours by far is truly about healing. Many of the websites I have visited seem to give voice to “victims” of N’s, and there is a lot of venting about how hurt and angry they are–but not on this website, thank you.

I have recently come out of a relationship with a man who has all the characteristics of an N. I see him as a catalyst to heal the wounds that I have carried within me for so many years. In this light, he has been a blessing in my life and I harbor no ill feelings towards him. It was I who willingly engaged in this relationship. I needed to be loved and validated so desperately and he did this so well for while. But like all relationships with N’s, the very wounds I ran from were eventually blown wide open in the devaluation stage. Finally, when we came to an end, I felt my wounds to the depths of the depths—I knew how unhealthy I had become.

I realized at this time I could no longer live the way I always had, and although I had done a sufficient amount of self awareness work, I hadn’t healed. I did not try to run from my pain, in fact, I went into it, deeply. I prayed for the veil to be lifted from my eyes, and lo and behold, I found all the books I needed to begin my healing journey.

I identified with much of your website, which has also become part of my process. After recently taking an expressive therapy workshop, I can say for the first time I am learning that it’s ok to be me, in fact, there isn’t anything to fix, only to heal.

Blessings, Sally