Thank you both for the encouragement and kind words. Phew! What a whirlwind! And hour ago I read your comments and teared up…. people actually hear me, acknowledge me, know I’m alive! Then, something in the house didn’t seem right. I went down to “his room” (haven’t shared a room in years). it was cleaned out of his clothes. But he left all of his tools. We are rehabbing a house. I’m numb right now. I’m unemployed. One aquaintance said “will you accept this opportunity to finally break free?” WHAT? To decide to have a clean house, what to eat and when to eat? To wear makeup? Then….. “What to eat? There’s not going to be any food! Clean house? I’ll be freezing with no heat! And my makeup is circa 2008! who am I kidding!” Bottom line? I’m sooo scared. How do I function with choice of what I want, not what keeps this lunatic calm? How do I leave the house and not think he’s going to burn it down? (which he’s threatened before). I think I’m just going to listen to all of the seminars from this website, and reread the comments above from Melanie and Louise. On one hand, I can’t believe its over (i’m free) and on the other hand, I can’t believe its over (I’m going to financially die)”.

Hi Wildflower,

it was great that you were able to connect to this healing.

Wildflower, the healing path is always the same – any block, confusion, fear (trauma) can be healed, dissolved and replaced by going to it in our body and up-levelling it. Which is exactly what QFH and NARP (one wound at a time) produces ….

Including the one you just named “Healing myself will isolate me from others” … its a false and painful belief it is not your True Self, so therefore that can be released and then it simply will not exist any more.

I know sometimes it can seem too “simple”, but that is the absolute truth when we start committing to healing ourselves in Quantum Ways.

Mel xo

Hi Louise,

its so lovely to hear about these breakthroughs its this Shifts Happen healing!!!

Awwww your children must be so happy also that you have healed past that trauma now!

How gorgeous you are having lunch with friends now!!

Thank you for your share honey and I am so pleased the healing helped!!

YAY to you celebrating you as more of your True Self!

Mel xo

Hi Tricia,

I can totally relate to at times previously thinking “why do I need to do more work?” … now … however… I am so pleased I continued reaching into and up levelling trauma because my life is so free, healthy and extended now and never could have been while I was trying to survive all the trauma wedged inside.

I do promise you dear lady – that one day, if you keep at it, you will have pulled enough “bricks out of the wall” (false and painful beliefs) that the whole lot collapses and you are out the other side in a green meadow feeling whole.

Then of course there will always be “more” to do – but it is nothing like the digging your way out of trauma for survival necessity. It is more like doing up levelling simply to expand into further joy, expansion and fulfilment.

I also promise you that the more trauma that goes, the more space there is for the good suff … then fulfilment and happiness and moving into generating more of that …. becomes organic – because it truly is our True Self state without the trauma.

Keep going 🙂

Mel xo

I woke up at 2 am in emotional pain last night while my two young adult children stirred restlessly in their rooms. I decided to participate in this quantum healing session and paused the tape to give my own answers before I heard Louise’s. To my surprise at the time, mine and Louse’s issues were “totally” the same…even the first trigger point (children’s rooms in the house…then the corresponding ages!!!). I think we all do collectively share these traumas both genetically passed down, then expressed and modelled by our traumatized parents. I’m so glad to be able to finally work these traumas out and uplevel to a place where I can feel peace. I still struggle so much with lonliness and feeling so isolated and different and not able to connect with others. My goal is to rid myself of this. I know I’ll have to go back in many times to work on this. Feels daunting at times. I’m afraid that by upleveling I’ll only feel more isolated and set apart. Any thoughts on this?

Hi Tricia

Thanks so much for sharing your story. There’s much there that I and I’m sure many others can relate to. NARP has been life changing for me, so I’d really encourage you to keep going with the healings. It was important for me, when I first realised what had been going on in my life, to write down what had happened. I read and reread my journal many times. When I started NARP though, I knew it was time to put the focus back on me and my recovery. From that point, I haven’t stopped moving forward. The numbness and overwhelm slipped away and life began again. You can do this and get your life back – better than ever! Sending you much love and light. XO

I thought I’d give everyone a little update about the amazing things that have been happening in my life since I began NARP and did my QFH healing with Mel.

After a big clean up, I’m now back living in all rooms in the downstairs area of my home. One room is still a disaster zone, but it’s on my list and I’ll get to it soon. I feel calm about this. Not like it’s a weight hanging over my head, but like it’s another opportunity to get back on track. My wonderful kids have been right beside me, as we undertook the cleaning project as a team. I have kissed my youngest daughter goodnight in her own bedroom, for the first time in many years. This was a sweet moment indeed!

Other things have fallen into place or come to a head in ways I would never have expected. I feel forward momentum in my life! I’ve been to the local supermarket on my own and I’m heading out for brunch with friends tomorrow. These are things that would never have happened only 2 weeks ago!

And, a lovely homeless man, who sometimes says a simple “Hello” or “Nice day!” to me, told me that “I am looking younger each day!”. Prior to NARP I was looking older each day I’m sure.

Since I began NARP only months ago, I feel enormous relief from the overwhelmed state I was in and a sense of calm that has been missing from my life for a long time. I’m no longer existing in a numb, disempowered state. NARP has given me my freedom, my emotions and my voice back. My kids and I will be forever grateful to Mel for this.

Sending everyone who finds themselves in a similar situation much love and light! Thank you to all for your support. XO