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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jun 2022 09:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[On New Year’s Eve, I ended a three-time relationship with an egocentric. He wasn’t the wrong, malignant kind, but damaging nevertheless. This was our alternate go-round ( we broke up for many months a time or so agone and he wanted to try again). I hadn’t intended to break up with him on NYE; I just decided that night. I knew I demanded too – wanted to start the new decade appreciatively. I was caught up in his weird world.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On New Year’s Eve, I ended a three-time relationship with an egocentric. He wasn’t the wrong, malignant kind, but damaging nevertheless. This was our alternate go-round ( we broke up for many months a time or so agone and he wanted to try again). I hadn’t intended to break up with him on NYE; I just decided that night. I knew I demanded too – wanted to start the new decade appreciatively. I was caught up in his weird world.</p>
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		By: Horizon in Sight		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Feb 2020 18:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[On New Year’s Eve, I ended a three year relationship with a narcissist. He wasn’t the evil, malevolent kind, but damaging nonetheless. This was our second go-round (we broke up for a few months a year or so ago and he wanted to try again). I hadn’t intended to break up with him on NYE; I just decided that night. I knew I needed too - wanted to start the new decade positively. I was caught up in his weird world - where empathy, vulnerability, and love did not exist, only his insatiable need for constant affirmation. Gaslighting was the operating system. There were enough positive moments to keep me going - until it didn’t. I ended it this time (he ended it the first time). That was important to me. A sign of strength. It surprised him (and me). 

Now it’s recovery time and I found you! Your point that recovery focus must be on me, not him and not even on what went wrong. Specifically, your spot-on point that my issues long preceded meeting the narcissist and I need to pay close attention and resolve my vulnerabilities that caused me to attract a narcissist and enter into a relationship with one despite red flags. I came to appreciate the ironic gift of the narcissist in unwittingly pointing out these things to me. 

I’m not there yet, and am still a little raw.  But, I’m working hard. When I feel the need to contact the guy (doing ‘no contact’), I reach for my cell and queue up one of your videos so I can better understand the fallacy of the desire to call him. Your videos have been balm for the soul and are showing me the light at the end of the tunnel.

Thank you. 
From New Orleans]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On New Year’s Eve, I ended a three year relationship with a narcissist. He wasn’t the evil, malevolent kind, but damaging nonetheless. This was our second go-round (we broke up for a few months a year or so ago and he wanted to try again). I hadn’t intended to break up with him on NYE; I just decided that night. I knew I needed too &#8211; wanted to start the new decade positively. I was caught up in his weird world &#8211; where empathy, vulnerability, and love did not exist, only his insatiable need for constant affirmation. Gaslighting was the operating system. There were enough positive moments to keep me going &#8211; until it didn’t. I ended it this time (he ended it the first time). That was important to me. A sign of strength. It surprised him (and me). </p>
<p>Now it’s recovery time and I found you! Your point that recovery focus must be on me, not him and not even on what went wrong. Specifically, your spot-on point that my issues long preceded meeting the narcissist and I need to pay close attention and resolve my vulnerabilities that caused me to attract a narcissist and enter into a relationship with one despite red flags. I came to appreciate the ironic gift of the narcissist in unwittingly pointing out these things to me. </p>
<p>I’m not there yet, and am still a little raw.  But, I’m working hard. When I feel the need to contact the guy (doing ‘no contact’), I reach for my cell and queue up one of your videos so I can better understand the fallacy of the desire to call him. Your videos have been balm for the soul and are showing me the light at the end of the tunnel.</p>
<p>Thank you.<br />
From New Orleans</p>
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		By: Dorothy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Sep 2019 01:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/should-you-tell-a-narcissist-who-they-really-are/#comment-759780&quot;&gt;Melanie Tonia Evans&lt;/a&gt;.

Hello. I just found out the I been dealing with a narcissist for 15yrs, I ran across  the word narcissist on YouTube and I didn&#039;t know what it was, never heard of in ,so I click on it and a video started playing and I listen and it describes the man I been with for 15yrs, and it gave me some insight on things that he was doing to !e that I really didn&#039;t know what was going on and why he was acting like this with me, but now I know, but it seem so unreal that a person can be this kind of person, but I know it is real, I just feel so numb sometimes just being so dumb, I have went no contact with him to, but he call my mother phone Friday over in the !orning and again that morning talking about he had a bad dream, he didn&#039;t mean to disturb her but he was checking on us and he couldn&#039;t get in contact with me, I did talk to him but no more because he is crazy and still the same person, he like to got me with that love bomb stuff, but I had to think how he have done me and I refuse to go back down that road, I have peace of mind and that is the best thing I could ever ask for, I did let him know that he is a narcissist and u know he did turn it on me, saying I&#039;m a narcissist, I know I&#039;m not that he is, I made that useless mistake, it did no good. I&#039;m done, I miss him but can&#039;t go through it no more, just be glad when I get pass it and heal, I pray God don&#039;t let me go back to him and I pray he don&#039;t put me in the hands of another narcissistic man. Your videos and other videos have gave me some understanding, Thank you...🙏]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/should-you-tell-a-narcissist-who-they-really-are/#comment-759780">Melanie Tonia Evans</a>.</p>
<p>Hello. I just found out the I been dealing with a narcissist for 15yrs, I ran across  the word narcissist on YouTube and I didn&#8217;t know what it was, never heard of in ,so I click on it and a video started playing and I listen and it describes the man I been with for 15yrs, and it gave me some insight on things that he was doing to !e that I really didn&#8217;t know what was going on and why he was acting like this with me, but now I know, but it seem so unreal that a person can be this kind of person, but I know it is real, I just feel so numb sometimes just being so dumb, I have went no contact with him to, but he call my mother phone Friday over in the !orning and again that morning talking about he had a bad dream, he didn&#8217;t mean to disturb her but he was checking on us and he couldn&#8217;t get in contact with me, I did talk to him but no more because he is crazy and still the same person, he like to got me with that love bomb stuff, but I had to think how he have done me and I refuse to go back down that road, I have peace of mind and that is the best thing I could ever ask for, I did let him know that he is a narcissist and u know he did turn it on me, saying I&#8217;m a narcissist, I know I&#8217;m not that he is, I made that useless mistake, it did no good. I&#8217;m done, I miss him but can&#8217;t go through it no more, just be glad when I get pass it and heal, I pray God don&#8217;t let me go back to him and I pray he don&#8217;t put me in the hands of another narcissistic man. Your videos and other videos have gave me some understanding, Thank you&#8230;🙏</p>
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