My practice is dedicated to stimulating emotional and relational health and well-being for couples, individuals, families, and other significant relationships. I specialize in helping clients gain insight and awareness; implement healthy boundaries; communicate and resolve conflict in a rational, productive manner; overcome and/or develop coping skills for major life challenges and transitions (e.g. – job loss, divorce, serious illness, mental/physical disabilities, grief/bereavement, emotional trauma); and to experience a more balanced and satisfying life. Drawing from an interactive, forward-moving, solutions-focused approach to therapy, I serve a broad spectrum of clients, emphasizing a client’s strengths to achieve their desired growth potential. Complementary modalities and techniques are implemented to personally tailor therapy to each client’s individual needs.

Hi Renee,

my heart goes out to you.

Dear Lady, I know you are feeling a lot of pain and trauma right now, and please know you can’t make him do anything he doesn’t wish to do.

Your only option is to let go and heal you, for you, NOT him, and then see where it all lands.

I would love to suggest to you my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar which is incredibly empowering and healing for any relationship trauma and could give you clarity, and answer many questions for you right now.

It is my highest suggestion for you right now.

Please know I don’t believe from what you have written that you are a narcissist – at all.

Sending love, hugs and healing

Mel 🙏💕💚

Oh yes, Jen that was your answer!

Sending power and healing to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

Melanie is oooohhh so right about this. I will say directly up front, I am going to counseling. That said, I will also “reveal” that I tend to be a very logical thinker. Some might would deem this “odd” because I am F E M A L E. Guess what? We are out here. We do not all operate from emotion alone! And personally, I am way past over being treated with that “there, there woman” assumption that we are all hysterical females. Yeah, I am aware of the PERVERTED MALE PSYCHO-BABEL that’s been written. Again, I digress. I started with Melanie F I R S T!!! I knew I would have to immediately get some relief from my pain beyond getting away from him. Why? Because my logical still knew that “I didn’t necessarily want to Survive”. Just for the pain to IMMEDIATELY STOP. Her teachings helped immediately stop some of THAT pain. Talk therapy can be a VERY difficult and kinda slow process. I have been to talk therapy more than once and was not able to talk. I was not able to speak, I was soooo upset!!! So I am a believer in her processes. Because I am such a logical thinker, my process unfolds like this…..I Start with my heart, if you will, because, although “logical” my heart has a BIG tendency to override whatever my logical brain “knows you know”, ie: protect your jewels – your HEART and SOUL! Talk therapy for me helps releave my mind in that, I Am Not Going Insane, He’s just making me feel that way. I have always known it would not be a/the cure. i operate at 100% me when my mind and heart are in SINC. Melanie’s Quanta is the HEALING, the one that assures you will never have to suffer again from neither the narcissist or the inner wounds that made you vulnerable to this kind of evil from someone. I won’t be in talk therapy much longer because of Melanie and Quanta. They definately helped save my life and re-teach me that “I KNOW WHAT I KNOW about me!!! and….I AM KIND, GENEROUS, LOVING, SYMPATHETIC, EMPATHETIC, A GOOD FRIEND, SOMETIMES FUNNY, SOMETIMES GOOFY, TRY SOMETHING NEW, SEE SOMETHING NEW, LOVING THE OUTDOORS AND PLANTS, COOKING UP SOMETHING TASTY ….KIND OF GAL!! I would love to have someone like me. oh wait, I DO! HAHAHAHAHAHAHa

Hi Amelie,

of course your decisions are yours regarding what you choose to do here.

In my humble opinion, it doesn’t matter what she will and won’t know, everything I stated in this episode is the possibilities of what will unfold.

Much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚