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		By: Faye		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2021 08:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Love this ❤️❤️❤️]]></description>
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		By: Kirsty		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kirsty]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jan 2020 10:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am done with crumbs, I am making bread!!! 

I’m just waking from my 7 year narcissistic experience. A ‘relationship’ with a man I thought gave me all the love my ‘narcissistic’ mother could not.

I was aware for some time that it could possibly be narcissistic abuse. But I didn’t want to admit it, or face that reality. Because it would mean losing everything, and accepting the humiliation.

I’m just emerging from that deep, dark, self pity hole.  And the obsessing over why, how, and if there is any way in the world his lies and deceit could actually not be narcissism, but true love.  Ha! I now know there is no other plausible explanation.  And I know you can help me.

The injustice of it all has left me reeling. That it is an epidemic. That it is so unknown. Therefore nothing being done to prevent narcissists being created.  

I know though, that I must focus on healing myself. And be grateful, that this light has been shone on my problems, I am not a narcissist, that I have survived narcissists, that people like you exist to validate all of my experiences, and show the path to a new start.

Im ready to get started!!!
Thank you x]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am done with crumbs, I am making bread!!! </p>
<p>I’m just waking from my 7 year narcissistic experience. A ‘relationship’ with a man I thought gave me all the love my ‘narcissistic’ mother could not.</p>
<p>I was aware for some time that it could possibly be narcissistic abuse. But I didn’t want to admit it, or face that reality. Because it would mean losing everything, and accepting the humiliation.</p>
<p>I’m just emerging from that deep, dark, self pity hole.  And the obsessing over why, how, and if there is any way in the world his lies and deceit could actually not be narcissism, but true love.  Ha! I now know there is no other plausible explanation.  And I know you can help me.</p>
<p>The injustice of it all has left me reeling. That it is an epidemic. That it is so unknown. Therefore nothing being done to prevent narcissists being created.  </p>
<p>I know though, that I must focus on healing myself. And be grateful, that this light has been shone on my problems, I am not a narcissist, that I have survived narcissists, that people like you exist to validate all of my experiences, and show the path to a new start.</p>
<p>Im ready to get started!!!<br />
Thank you x</p>
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		By: Jazz		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jazz]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Nov 2019 14:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Im done with cookies! Im Making BREAD!!!]]></description>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1203301</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2019 21:32:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1203292&quot;&gt;Brenda&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Brenda,

how awesome that you realised and starting turning inwards to heal you with NARP!

NOW it is your time to break free into your True Love Trajectory.

I&#039;m excited and happy for you!

Lots of love

Mel 🙏💕💛]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1203292">Brenda</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Brenda,</p>
<p>how awesome that you realised and starting turning inwards to heal you with NARP!</p>
<p>NOW it is your time to break free into your True Love Trajectory.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m excited and happy for you!</p>
<p>Lots of love</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💛</p>
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		By: Brenda		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Aug 2019 20:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m done with crumbs and am making bread!l You are an angel Mel!!! Here&#039;s some Universe irony for you...

I purchased your program in March. I knew I needed to heal my childhood wounds from my parents that kept showing up in the men I dated (Narcissists/Sociopaths/Psychopaths). But I didn&#039;t start it. In May, nearly two years after my last N relationship, I started dating a seemingly perfect for me guy. He started love bombing me and I knew it was a sign to run but instead of running, I kept explaining to him why it wasn&#039;t healthy over and over. And he kept convincing me over and over that it was true love. After the 3rd time he drove to my house to convince me of this, I believed him. 

I don&#039;t need to tell you that after the emotional, mental and sexual abuse had messed up my head and heart, I was deeply lost in the manipulation, gaslighting and lies. After finding out he was cheating on me, I finally knew my intuition had been right from the get go. After I got past the anger at him and myself, I remembered your program. I&#039;m halfway through and feel so much lighter. He was my gaslighting, lying, emotionally unavailable Mom and my convincing me the problem is me and telling me I read into things that made me not trust my intuition Dad. 

I&#039;m loving myself to wholeness so that the never get through any cracks ever again. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m done with crumbs and am making bread!l You are an angel Mel!!! Here&#8217;s some Universe irony for you&#8230;</p>
<p>I purchased your program in March. I knew I needed to heal my childhood wounds from my parents that kept showing up in the men I dated (Narcissists/Sociopaths/Psychopaths). But I didn&#8217;t start it. In May, nearly two years after my last N relationship, I started dating a seemingly perfect for me guy. He started love bombing me and I knew it was a sign to run but instead of running, I kept explaining to him why it wasn&#8217;t healthy over and over. And he kept convincing me over and over that it was true love. After the 3rd time he drove to my house to convince me of this, I believed him. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t need to tell you that after the emotional, mental and sexual abuse had messed up my head and heart, I was deeply lost in the manipulation, gaslighting and lies. After finding out he was cheating on me, I finally knew my intuition had been right from the get go. After I got past the anger at him and myself, I remembered your program. I&#8217;m halfway through and feel so much lighter. He was my gaslighting, lying, emotionally unavailable Mom and my convincing me the problem is me and telling me I read into things that made me not trust my intuition Dad. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m loving myself to wholeness so that the never get through any cracks ever again. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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		By: T		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1175284</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[T]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2019 14:20:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[No more crumbs. The bread has become Manna! I am no longer the “Hunted” because I am now the “Hunter”.  I’m searching for my strengths and I am finding them. I am strong enough to maintain my boundaries. I am strong enough to see the weaknesses of the N’s in my life. I realize finally that the N’s needed me when, all along, I never needed them. A vampire cannot exist without its supply. An N cannot exist without us. Therefore, we have to control and we have had it all along. That is the secret they never want us to know.
That is pure Manna!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No more crumbs. The bread has become Manna! I am no longer the “Hunted” because I am now the “Hunter”.  I’m searching for my strengths and I am finding them. I am strong enough to maintain my boundaries. I am strong enough to see the weaknesses of the N’s in my life. I realize finally that the N’s needed me when, all along, I never needed them. A vampire cannot exist without its supply. An N cannot exist without us. Therefore, we have to control and we have had it all along. That is the secret they never want us to know.<br />
That is pure Manna!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1170632</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2019 04:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1170460&quot;&gt;Sarah Keatts, R.N.&lt;/a&gt;.

Awww Sarah,

Thank you so much for your support.

Sarah your post makes me smile - you are an inspiration!

You go lovely lady!

You are very welcome and thank you for being a part of our wonderful community.

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1170460">Sarah Keatts, R.N.</a>.</p>
<p>Awww Sarah,</p>
<p>Thank you so much for your support.</p>
<p>Sarah your post makes me smile &#8211; you are an inspiration!</p>
<p>You go lovely lady!</p>
<p>You are very welcome and thank you for being a part of our wonderful community.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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		By: Sarah Keatts, R.N.		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Keatts, R.N.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2019 20:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I just voted for you....Much deserved!

I am 84 yrs...just learned what LIFE (which I thought was just the way people are) is, by reading only some of your work.  
So much is explained now, I have been there, had no support, Had some support. muddled through mostly, maybe still am with a couple of people, but on my own said no.  Got to get cracking .....there is work to do.
Thank you for clearing for me..]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just voted for you&#8230;.Much deserved!</p>
<p>I am 84 yrs&#8230;just learned what LIFE (which I thought was just the way people are) is, by reading only some of your work.<br />
So much is explained now, I have been there, had no support, Had some support. muddled through mostly, maybe still am with a couple of people, but on my own said no.  Got to get cracking &#8230;..there is work to do.<br />
Thank you for clearing for me..</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1169260</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2019 02:47:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1169173&quot;&gt;Cris&lt;/a&gt;.

Awww Cris,

Darling one!

I’m just so happy I woke up, and truly the ‘assault’ was so perfect - I was so stubborn and stuck in my head, rather than wanting to come inside my being ... I wouldn’t have got it any other way! 

Thank you so much for your vote Cris.

It is so exciting and surprising to be nominated!

For anyone else, (I will be mentioning it again soon!) you can vote for me here!

http://kindredspirit.co.uk/vote

Mwah darling heart and fellow Angel.

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-4-steps-to-becoming-narcissist-proof/#comment-1169173">Cris</a>.</p>
<p>Awww Cris,</p>
<p>Darling one!</p>
<p>I’m just so happy I woke up, and truly the ‘assault’ was so perfect &#8211; I was so stubborn and stuck in my head, rather than wanting to come inside my being &#8230; I wouldn’t have got it any other way! </p>
<p>Thank you so much for your vote Cris.</p>
<p>It is so exciting and surprising to be nominated!</p>
<p>For anyone else, (I will be mentioning it again soon!) you can vote for me here!</p>
<p><a href="http://kindredspirit.co.uk/vote" rel="nofollow ugc">http://kindredspirit.co.uk/vote</a></p>
<p>Mwah darling heart and fellow Angel.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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