Comments on: The Easiest Way To Identify Toxic People https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 19 Jul 2020 18:09:23 +0000 hourly 1 By: Laura https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1239666 Sun, 19 Jul 2020 18:09:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1239666 I am going to heal and become magnificently impervious to them! πŸ™ŒπŸΌ

]]> By: H https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1234304 Mon, 23 Mar 2020 20:26:22 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1234304 I am going to heal and become magnificently impervious to them!

]]> By: B https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1232267 Sat, 15 Feb 2020 18:21:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1232267 You definitely become impervious to them but you need not remain in the same space as
them…. like a workplace. Your boundaries and inner self just don’t need to be there unless there is still work to do on uplevelling. Your zero endpoint on moduling will be a
Guide. If no trigger and it feels off, they don’t change, time to go. Life is too short to hang around toxic energyπŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚. No
matter how healed we are, it sucks out one’s life force. Move on.

]]> By: Carla https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1230461 Wed, 29 Jan 2020 23:18:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1230461 In reply to Lorinda.

Lorinda,
You know that just before ‘Gabe’ ghosted, he was on the other end thinking, “Wait! I was trying to hook up with a boundryless, needy individual who couldn’t self validate and would let me do whatever I wanted to them with no protest. I’m outa’ here!”

And you didn’t chase him to find out what happened. Good on ya!
Carla

]]> By: Julia https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1230136 Fri, 24 Jan 2020 00:11:25 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1230136 By the age of 38, I had already attracted 3 (!) n men! The third was the major wake up call. The pain and disappointment was nearly unbearable. But here I am, emerged like a fenix!
Interesting thing is, after all this and LOT of healing work…I think I was still hyper vigilant. This new man I met, consciously or unconsciously, I was all the time trying to find some clues that would prove that he is a n too! As if I was using a magnifying glass and then I started to see things that even weren’t there. Of course this created weird energy between us! Now it’s been 7 months, things are getting better and more normal and I think at this point it is safe to say he is not a n! It feels so “odd” to be with someone who is normal!! πŸ™‚ This is a whole new experience for me. It’s nice to see all the healing work did made a difference! With the n, the downhill started rapidly after the “honeymoon phase”, after about 8 weeks and from there the abuse kept getting worse and worse. With this new man, the opposite happened. After a very shaky start, the connection seems to be getting better, more real, more deeper. Now I feel little bit sad though because even though all this had been wonderful ,a total transformation for me, and even if this man is very nice and not n, I don’t feel he is “the one” for me.
When I used to be full of the n pain I said with great frustration to my friend, gosh I just want to find someone normal, that’s my only wish! But looks like I have some more additional qualities on my “list” too that I’d wish to have in a romantic partner. Is that okay, acceptable?
I feel I should be happy and very grateful (and I am!) that I have finally found someone who is not n…so I feel little bit quilty or “picky” now not really wanting him as a partner. Maybe as a friend. Am I silly, wrong, thinking this way?

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1229186 Sat, 11 Jan 2020 04:18:23 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1229186 In reply to CornersOfMyMind.

Thank you Corners of My Mind,

I’m so pleased this resonated with you.

That’s so great that you know this intention is true for you!

Much love

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’›

]]> By: CornersOfMyMind https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1229103 Thu, 09 Jan 2020 19:46:52 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1229103 Aweasome article… as I read this article and understood its wisdom I had a bit of a “Doh!” moment. I’m just left alternately smiling serenly and laughing at my former naivety, but either way undoubtedly ready for my best year ever. Thank you.

From now on… I am going to heal and become magnificently impervious to them!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1228860 Tue, 07 Jan 2020 01:41:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1228860 In reply to Parisea.

Hi Parisea,

I am so happy for you that your time is now!

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’›

]]> By: Parisea https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-easiest-way-to-identify-toxic-people/#comment-1228815 Mon, 06 Jan 2020 13:41:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=7715#comment-1228815 Much love, healing, self empowerement and coming to light of our beautiful true self!

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