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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2021 10:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1247088&quot;&gt;Johannes&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Johannes,

thank you for your lovely comments.

Many blessings to you

Mel 🙏💕💚]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1247088">Johannes</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Johannes,</p>
<p>thank you for your lovely comments.</p>
<p>Many blessings to you</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕💚</p>
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		By: Johannes		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Johannes]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2021 22:08:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Melanie,

Perfect  speech, i agree with every word. And you look fantastic as well! :)

Thank you,

Johannes]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melanie,</p>
<p>Perfect  speech, i agree with every word. And you look fantastic as well! 🙂</p>
<p>Thank you,</p>
<p>Johannes</p>
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		By: Mw		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mw]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2020 06:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I often thought ego was light and power and the id as darkness and the murky unknown. It sounds here from this ego is more like ice that can be dissolved by heat of passion or something. Not sure, talk about ego confuses me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I often thought ego was light and power and the id as darkness and the murky unknown. It sounds here from this ego is more like ice that can be dissolved by heat of passion or something. Not sure, talk about ego confuses me.</p>
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		By: cydne		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[cydne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2019 13:05:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1132313&quot;&gt;rose&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for this honest dialogue. a gift]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1132313">rose</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for this honest dialogue. a gift</p>
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		By: Marcie Behrens		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marcie Behrens]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Mar 2019 20:26:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Melanie--
  I did not realize how big my ego was until I did the Module in NARP specifically geared towards releasing our ego. I always said because I wasn&#039;t a loud selfish person that meant I wasn&#039;t egotistical. I was the person with the biggest ego out there I just played it off really well and people thought I was serving others out of the goodness of my heart when in reality I was trying to get attention.
   The key for me was realizing I was loved and supported from within myself and this allowed me to release my ego. I do know now, it will be a lifetime of healing and releasing because our egos are ever present and must be kept in check.
  Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Melanie&#8211;<br />
  I did not realize how big my ego was until I did the Module in NARP specifically geared towards releasing our ego. I always said because I wasn&#8217;t a loud selfish person that meant I wasn&#8217;t egotistical. I was the person with the biggest ego out there I just played it off really well and people thought I was serving others out of the goodness of my heart when in reality I was trying to get attention.<br />
   The key for me was realizing I was loved and supported from within myself and this allowed me to release my ego. I do know now, it will be a lifetime of healing and releasing because our egos are ever present and must be kept in check.<br />
  Thank you!</p>
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		By: Melanie Tonia Evans		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1140028</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Melanie Tonia Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Feb 2019 08:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1139900&quot;&gt;Fiona Campbell Stuart&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi Fiona,

I am so pleased I could help and much love to you too.

Mel 🙏💕❤️]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1139900">Fiona Campbell Stuart</a>.</p>
<p>Hi Fiona,</p>
<p>I am so pleased I could help and much love to you too.</p>
<p>Mel 🙏💕❤️</p>
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		By: Fiona Campbell Stuart		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fiona Campbell Stuart]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Feb 2019 22:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Melanie

I doubt if I would be here if it wasn&#039;t for you. Love you to pieces.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melanie</p>
<p>I doubt if I would be here if it wasn&#8217;t for you. Love you to pieces.</p>
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		By: Angelique		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angelique]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 10:38:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Dear Mel,
Thank you so much for this. It has really shed some light on what has been happening for me and why i got a bit stock. It&#039;s really clicked for me where I can see what it&#039;s doing rather than being blindly manipulated by it and it&#039;s boosted my QFH no end. Your words are always truly inspired. Thank you. X]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Mel,<br />
Thank you so much for this. It has really shed some light on what has been happening for me and why i got a bit stock. It&#8217;s really clicked for me where I can see what it&#8217;s doing rather than being blindly manipulated by it and it&#8217;s boosted my QFH no end. Your words are always truly inspired. Thank you. X</p>
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		By: Naomi		</title>
		<link>https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-ego-loves-pain-and-it-doesnt-want-you-to-heal/#comment-1134852</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Naomi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2019 00:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Mel,

Thank you for your insightful post.  I still have the peptide addiction and it really comes alive during moon cycles as it brings up the story of what went down and I find I am even hearing the narcissists torment voicing in my head and I hook in and regress back to a powerless victim without much choice.  Even though I got away and escaped something rather horrific and I know that my childhood trauma and past experiences were a total match to allow my own ego to get influenced and re-enact trauma.  During times when my ego surfaces even though I know the narcissist is a total false self and that everything that was said and done is &#039;false&#039; I really do find it hard to get the abuse out of my head and the ways I had my voice silenced and had head beaten with his/her mental abuse which really caused me a lot of confusion, insanity, doubt and powerlessness to think they were right and I was wrong in my thinking and actions etc.  God this must sound like a mess but that is what happens - this is what the ego does.

Thanks
Naomi]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mel,</p>
<p>Thank you for your insightful post.  I still have the peptide addiction and it really comes alive during moon cycles as it brings up the story of what went down and I find I am even hearing the narcissists torment voicing in my head and I hook in and regress back to a powerless victim without much choice.  Even though I got away and escaped something rather horrific and I know that my childhood trauma and past experiences were a total match to allow my own ego to get influenced and re-enact trauma.  During times when my ego surfaces even though I know the narcissist is a total false self and that everything that was said and done is &#8216;false&#8217; I really do find it hard to get the abuse out of my head and the ways I had my voice silenced and had head beaten with his/her mental abuse which really caused me a lot of confusion, insanity, doubt and powerlessness to think they were right and I was wrong in my thinking and actions etc.  God this must sound like a mess but that is what happens &#8211; this is what the ego does.</p>
<p>Thanks<br />
Naomi</p>
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