Lori….do the Narp program…..really you won’t be needing a therapist for long. You’ll save thousands if $ too…. If you don’t heal your trauma wounds, you’ll only repeat same, different person…self love will shift you out of the awful situation u are in …Narp program will do this for you if you are committed to changing you first then your outer world shifts too. Get away from this man and STOP accepting crumbs. You are worth way more….do Narp…no other way believe me. It’s changed my life

Hi Maria,

if you Google my name plus empowered plus boundaries, you should be able to find information that will help you with this topic.

I hope that this helps.

Much Love

Mel 🙏💛💕

I would like to know more how you give that chance to evolve to the person and to meet on your higher
Being

Many thanks

Maria

🥰❤️🙏🏻🥰❤️

Sending you & MTE Team sooo much love!! Xx

Hi Nicole,

I’m so pleased it was timely for you.

I’m so pleased True Love is being clarified for you, and I totally relate to previously being so confused about this topic myself!

Oh yes I totally get the reflection … and how awesome you dedicated to Module 1.

Nicole hun please know we don’t need to be perfect or perfectly healed to be loved… everything you are saying is exactly how I once felt … I get you!

I really would love you to come into the NARP member’s forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member … there is a lot here we can help you with! The short answer re ES Course is yes it will help you a lot, in the area of intimate and interpersonal relationships.

You are TOTALLY going to get there …

Love and expansion to you Nicole.

Mel 🙏💕💛

Uncannily, as always, this comes “JIT”. I have been mulling over the meaning of “unconditional love” and how much [that] has gotten me into trouble throughout my life. As in my case, “unconditional love” has meant to love with abandon — with zero boundaries, ergo, making my gap as large as the Grand Canyon. God, how stupid was I to believe someone could love me like the way I believed “true love” was meant to be “shared”. What a set-up. Even more stupid considering my parents’ “marital” reference.

Until I received your blog update, I recently wrote off unconditional love as some sort of “disney” brainwashing. Which, IMO, it is that, too. But your blog made me realize how much I do not *love* my Self. Or *appreciate* my Self. And how much I don’t even *know* my Self. It’s always been about everyone else, their wants and needs, and acquiescing to everyone else; and, not ever making it about me. Not ever. I’m not playing victim, I’m just reporting the facts. I was a full-time mom and wife (wash-iron-f-etc.) for 19 years. It was never about me. That was my conditioning/upbringing. (standing up for myself (establishing boundaries) =not nice).

A lot of what I’m dealing with, now, is being POA for my N-mom (in essence her legs/sec’y) so I’m spending days and weeks more at a time with her than usual. Add to that finally organizing my absent – understatement – dad’s ashes to be interred with her’s (I had to remove them from my mom’s house to mine, so he’s with me now until such time.) Today, I have more of my mom and dad’s “attention” than they have ever bothered to grant me in healthier times. But it’s only because my mom needs me to (fill in the blank). My brother (golden child) hides behind his “full-time” employer’s skirt, which is fine. Having to “manage” him would tick me off. Royally. I crawled into bed last night so exhausted after having taken care of my mom’s affairs, I literally felt like I could throw-up. I was over tired and laid awake, joints aching, for a long time feeling deeply alone, worried about my “someday”, and sorry for myself.

See the reflection? I sure do.

The upside is, earlier this morning, I spent a lot of time with Module One. I know tomorrow, after a good night’s sleep, I will feel even better than I did this afternoon. Add to this, my son surprised me with dinner tonight, so I didn’t have to cook. Namaste.

I do wonder too, A LOT, because of the hospice-type environment I’m operating within, if there’ll ever come a time, truly, when I will be in Good Company. I don’t know what else to call it. I’ve dropped “cherished” and “loved unconditionally” from my ‘wishful/hopeful’ lexicon for the simple fact that I don’t believe, anymore, that a potential mate/companion of mine can provide me that sort of love and devotion. That’s beyond reproach considering I haven’t even been that to myself. Being human I don’t know if [it] is even possible to love to that degree – that it’s just some h’weird mumble-jumble I’ve been conditioned to believe in. I’m hopeful someday to love me, but I’m thinking now, it might actually take me lifetimes because I don’t even know who I am. Is this something your Self Empowered course can help me with? Otherwise, I know this is something you can’t answer for me, this is my journey Home. But your recommendation as to which Module/s I could use to provide some clarity is appreciated.

Thanks in advance,
Nicole

Hi T.E.

this is beautiful that you have anchored into this truth.

Yes, it is 100% correct!

Mel 🙏💕💛